nairaland94:
You mean you're a lecturer in a federal institution?
Anyway, your decision isn't wrong since she's the one that left on her own.

drmikeadams:
. Y men dey always ignore red flags till d flag turns reddish red?

baralatie:

because sex was equated to be love

drmikeadams:
; D. When e clear they come to nairaland to weep

missimelda01:
Only two months and you've impregnated her

If you must have sex just 2 months into the relationship, why not with protections? That would have saved you all this headache.

Tina001:
@op, you did the right thing. One a prostitute, always a prostitute. I am sure u didn't get to know her well before marrying her, now her true colour is showing. Just move on

missimelda01:
Only two months and you've impregnated her

If you must have sex just 2 months into the relationship, why not with protections? That would have saved you all this headache.
When they say build a good friendship first to know the person you're going into the relationship with, they won't hear... The deed has already been done, take care of your child and forget the lady, her head still dey outside.
Pardon my English.. I didn't proofread before typing

But Mr lecturer your english no try

Lamanii22:
Just take care of your son alright.. Let her be...

yahaya2014:
Nairalander
Here is my story..I meet this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we meet and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent present in my house. She virtually spend nights in my place.
Two month after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.
After three months, the bank terminate the job. I came back home. remember during this period, My family never liked her.
But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.
During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering.
They was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work(the bank job).
We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitate her..
To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.
One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.
The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her wat to do.
The day I gave her my fone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she want to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her I keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.
She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.
I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.
She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.
Hope my decision is not wrong?

ahnie:
Let me ring the elders......

Lol

yahaya2014:
Nairalander
Here is my story..I meet this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we meet and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent present in my house. She virtually spend nights in my place.
Two month after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.
After three months, the bank terminate the job. I came back home. remember during this period, My family never liked her.
But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.
During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering.
They was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work(the bank job).
We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitate her..
To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.
One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.
The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her wat to do.
The day I gave her my fone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she want to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her I keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.
She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.
I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.
She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.
Hope my decision is not wrong?

Omar09:


First, she didn't run, she wanted to leave and you asked her to leave. Second, your decision is not wrong. In fact you did the right thing for you and your son. Third, that girl is not matured anyway, and she matures, she will come back to you, please move on and don't accept her back.

yahaya2014:


She is 24, but her quest for worldly things is unimaginable. She drinks acohol, love the gud things of life and all.

Omar09:


First, she didn't run, she wanted to leave and you asked her to leave. Second, your decision is not wrong. In fact you did the right thing for you and your son. Third, that girl is not matured anyway, and she matures, she will come back to you, please move on and don't accept her back.