When some women turn 40 or 50 years, something major shifts in their personality. They become bolder, more rebellious,more religious, more focused, more opinionated, and more emphatic about what they want.

Don’t be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive woman on turning 40/50 changes completely. Most especially when she had given birth to three or four children.

At this age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to question like is sex food?, some of your instructions and even the way you behave. She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind. Even if care is not taking ,you will be doing dry cleaning yourself. At times you will prepare food for yourself to eat because she might take her more time before responding to your request.

There is something definitely special about turning 40/50 for women. If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions, get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude.

The only way to avoid a total breakdown of Peace and Harmony is to become fair, objective and reasonable in your approach to issues at home or at work.

Bear in mind that at this age, she also harbours a lot of regrets about the decisions she has made in life so far ... you may be one of them!

A woman at this age is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a man using very different parameters.

Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their wives/partners/bosses/subordinates. What you put in is what you get!

If you have treated her fairly, then you don’t have anything to worry about. She will begin to appreciate you better if for any reason she didn’t do so in the past. On the contrary if you haven’t been nice to her, fasten your seatbelt, the ride is about to get pretty bumpy.

A Woman doesn’t forget those who hurt her, and by her actions and utterances you will know that she is out to show you that she is no longer that little girl you married!

Credited- Mr. Akolade

Fantastic observation. Nice write up. God bless the op. Men should learn to treat their wives well in the early stage of marriage.


80/90 % of women feel that stage us payback time for most men especially since most of the kids have left home either for further studies or marriage.