Abbeylanre15:
It is a worrisome feeling whenever I remember that my 87 years old maternal grandfather has decided to marry again. He lost his wife( My Grandma) just last year January. His children decided to get him an houshelp to do all the domestic works.
Late last year that we visited himand I overheard the lady( House help) telling his tenants that a particular woman(under 45) do come and spend nights with Baba. To cut the long story short, the woman has moved in with Baba.
I know you will be wondering how that concerns me, well, Baba has no other source of income than his children and grandchildren. The rate at which he calls everyone now is quite alarming. 10k isn't enough for Baba in a week. Sometimes last month, I decided to blacklist his number due to incessant demand for money. His so called wife too has no job.
His children summoned a meeting n told the woman outrightly that Granpa doesn't need a wife any longer, therefore,she should leave.But Grandpa was against it saying she's her BLOOD TONIC.
Pls what can we do? I'm scared the woman may cajole Papa to sell his house before he dies because she looks desperate to me.

Richy4:
If she will make him happy why deny him the "Blood tunic " then?..

Just saying because on his demise, u guys that blocked his number now will be shedding crocodile tears, professing how much you loved him..

Oya now is the time to show and demonstrate such love. Are u gonna deny him just this one wish?

Bozzyironlady:
Make una do everything possible pursue that leechy parasite from una papa side.

stjsd:
Lolzz.... Are you for real?

Mariangeles:
He needs company. You all shouldn't deny him that because of your selfish greed on his property.

Think of it this way; if he needed a maid to assist him, you'd pay for his or her services right? So then, give that money to his partner for their upkeep.
That woman is doing y'all a humongous favour by keeping him company.
Do you know what it means? He'll live the rest of his life with company and die happy.
Studies have revealed that lonliness kills older people faster.
The reason you don't want her around is because baba has a house, or else it would have been tagged "true love" if he had nothing.

Abbeylanre15:


Sir, there's a maid working for him. I got to know through the maid sef

Mariangeles:


What he needs is more than a maid.
He needs a partner to keep him company. Don't deny him that if you want him to live longer.
Try to listen to him and understand him.
As for the woman, you can try to find out what her true intentions are.

Bozzyironlady:
Make una do everything possible pursue that leechy parasite from una papa side.

Mariangeles:


What he needs is more than a maid.
He needs a partner to keep him company. Don't deny him that if you want him to live longer.
Try to listen to him and understand him.
As for the woman, you can try to find out what her true intentions are.

Hathor5:


I actually love it that he has not given up on himself.
I was watching a dating show a few days ago and there were two 60+ people looking for love. They were adorable.
They said they had not time to lose so they would rush things a little bit.

Abbeylanre15:


Sir, there's a maid working for him. I got to know through the maid sef

Bozzyironlady:
Make una do everything possible pursue that leechy parasite from una papa side.

Biglittlelois:
Your Grandpa is funny with the blood tonic part, thing is, he would never push that woman away because you all said so, even if any of you try to remove her forcefully from the house, who would stay there permanently to ensure she wouldn't come back? Just let Papa be, and decide on a particular amount he will get in a month and stamp on it, that way he will know you guys wont give more even if its not enough to finance his girlfriend ,

All right sir
But some women sef, they must show their leeching money hungry self to the extent of taking advantage of an old man, smh.

aeion:
From what you've written, it does sound like she's using him and she's likely the one persuading him to re-marry due to her own interests. It may be hard for him to find someone else, so you and the rest of your family should simply protect his assets from her.

As for you, Iunno how you could comfortably blacklist your 87-year old grandpa. His sudden, unusual demand for more money signifies he's being influenced by someone (he's obviously giving her the money and she too should be ashamed for taking money from an 87-year old man).

Mariangeles:


What most young people don't understand is that old people need love too.
At that point in their lives, they don't care much about whatever property they have.