Righteousness89:
Hmmm

Righteousness89:
Hmmm

Iamundisputed:


1. Also, your wife didn't pack out because you were only playing or flirting with a woman, she must have caught you cheating, don't tell lies please.

2. Women usually change their attitude towards sex after birth cos of: 1. Personal insecurity because the vagina may not be as tight as it was. 2. Postpartum depression. 3.other psychological issues. This is where your emotional intelligence as a man comes into play. You need to have an understanding of her mood and help her want sex again.

Find a way to win her heart back, if possible, have your people call her people.
I wish u a happy home.

fights with any female that comes close to me through calls or chats

simplexity:
Firstly I will like to apologize for any errors made while typing, and I am seriously in need of ur advice and criticism.

My name is Stanley(not real names) married for 4years with two Lovely kids both female with d eldest at age 4. Trust me I cherish and love my family. I am a graduate while my wife dropout from the university cause of some money issues her single mother had while she was sick. After our first child I made sure she got admitted to a polytechnic and thankful she just rounded up her N.D all expenses paid by me, with high hopes of Getting admitted for her HND.

The problem started after our first child, my wife attitude towards sex changed totally, she would never let me touch her or play with her, calling her pet names will usually end in quarrel, I spoke with her her severally, pleaded and beg her most times but her attitude never changed, she made me feel like I met nothing to her, yet she will always fight with me whenever ever she suspects I have a girlfriend, fights with any female that comes close to me through calls or chats, she even went as far as beating up a lady that needed my help thinking I was dating her.

Fast forward to recently, her mom who is a single mother relocated to stay with us, and during her stay we had some misunderstanding about money issues, (note both me and wifey are gainfully employed in the ratio of 10:4, but 60% of wifey salary goes to her mom while she spends the rest 40% anyhow she likes) during d money issues a frd of hers came and told both of them that she see saw me flirting with a lady. And without hearing my own side of the coin my mother in-law rained curses on me , reported my to all her family members and left my house angrily, two days later my wife took our children and left my house while I was in d office, I called about her where about and she said she won't tell me and she said I will hear from her family soon, her mom called a family friend saying she will sue me.

It's been one week now and I don't know the whereabouts of my kids.

Should I report to the police or what?
Note I have apologized to wife for the crime I didn't commit yet it seems they want a bigger pound of flesh.

Please kindly advise me caused am depressed and confused

clintz:
My friend worry not, just get a chilled bottle of drink and relax yourself. All will be well again

simplexity:
I really appreciate your comments, I feel a lot better emotionally now,
I even actually agreed I cheated, and I have apologized, still she left.
Being a father makes u bear a lot and carry a lot on ur mind for peace to rain, I am not weak am just being understanding.

Thanks anyways

Righteousness89:
Make a police Report!
Also inform Family elders...

After that Calm down and use this time to seek GOD'S Face on your family....

Something is wrong somewhere!

I Believe the Greatest solution is the one that GOD gives..

Use this period to knock on Heaven gate for your Family Matters..

Personal Times as these produce results!

I Pray For you that GOD Almighty have Mercy on your Home and restore the Love and Joy that in your Home in JESUS Name.... Amen

Bola146:
This is serious, you need to calm down. I always say this, it's better to marry a bad wife than to get married to a bad in law Just need a good lawyer and also be very prayerful

Mariangeles:


Rather, it is better not to be married at all, than to be married to a bad spouse.

Fast forward to recently, her mom who is a single mother relocated to stay with us .

cococandy:
I suspect you cheated on her at least emotionally.
The place where you state she attacked the ladies you were getting close to through text and calls means she saw something there.

Babaj145:
Hmmmm...dis one na see finish of d highest level.. haba!!!.. Well my advice to u,,be a Man and take control of d situation, call your family elders( the ones wey get sense oh) and tell dem d situation on ground and also reach out to members of her family so dat both parties can call a meeting and finally resolve any issues you and your wife seem to be having..if for any reason u cannot reach her or any member of her family, then u go gatz involve the police oh..we are talking about ur kids here..u just can't take a mans kids away from him because u here rumor from one person..who does dat??..

ogawisdom:

Never apologize for what you didn't do especially when it is infidelity accusation. Stand your ground let them prove their case

Ohemababy:


Sorry how do you mean a man's kids?
Are they not her kids also.
Police for what? I dont really understand.

To arrest his kids mom for what crime exactly?