Foodqueen:
She wants to be a single mom too....

BABANGBALI:
[s]I dey come let me go and bath, i just finished with my landlady who I dey help to work for her farm. [/s]Vickyrotex abi kini mo wi?

Sterope:
Some of you are very stupid. What should he have done? Beat them up or was he aware of what they were going to do?

Everything is always masculinity competition with you.

VickyRotex:


Stop to dey smoke weed

Ybaby:


No 1 - Sincerely thank you for being the bread winner - but what is the money issue? because you did not say. Are you resenting her and not paying bills because she is not putting out (understandable but no do that biko)

Talk to your wife, make her feel sexy and loved outside the bedroom during the day - then at night you can bring long john.

Your mother in law needs to go to her house!

Let your wife know that without sex you are flatmates in a calm voice..... she needs to give sex to a breadwinner abeg abi which kin wahala be this. (only if you are the breadwinner o - if you are not the breadwinner she doesnot owe you loving time as you too no dey loving)

WAS YOUR MOTHER IN LAW NOT A SINGLE MUM BEFORE YOU MARRIED YOUR WIFE?? so meshonu about the single mum story

Your need to lead your home now as the man and stop cheating - cheating degrades you as a man in your wife's sight.

Ybaby:


No 1 - Sincerely thank you for being the bread winner - but what is the money issue? because you did not say. Are you resenting her and not paying bills because she is not putting out (understandable but no do that biko)

Talk to your wife, make her feel sexy and loved outside the bedroom during the day - then at night you can bring long john.

Your mother in law needs to go to her house!

Let your wife know that without sex you are flatmates in a calm voice..... she needs to give sex to a breadwinner abeg abi which kin wahala be this. (only if you are the breadwinner o - if you are not the breadwinner she doesnot owe you loving time as you too no dey loving)

WAS YOUR MOTHER IN LAW NOT A SINGLE MUM BEFORE YOU MARRIED YOUR WIFE?? so meshonu about the single mum story

Your need to lead your home now as the man and stop cheating - cheating degrades you as a man in your wife's sight.

Ybaby:


No 1 - Sincerely thank you for being the bread winner - but what is the money issue? because you did not say. Are you resenting her and not paying bills because she is not putting out (understandable but no do that biko)

Talk to your wife, make her feel sexy and loved outside the bedroom during the day - then at night you can bring long john.

Your mother in law needs to go to her house!

Let your wife know that without sex you are flatmates in a calm voice..... she needs to give sex to a breadwinner abeg abi which kin wahala be this. (only if you are the breadwinner o - if you are not the breadwinner she doesnot owe you loving time as you too no dey loving)

WAS YOUR MOTHER IN LAW NOT A SINGLE MUM BEFORE YOU MARRIED YOUR WIFE?? so meshonu about the single mum story

Your need to lead your home now as the man and stop cheating - cheating degrades you as a man in your wife's sight.

OriOko88:

Some of you girls on nairaland are just too lousy and uncouth. What warrants you calling someone stupid because he aired his opinion. Onibaje oshii

Hedonisco:
Another mumu bites the dust.

Your problems are only just beginning to warm up. You never see anything.

A man that can't stamp his feet from DAY 1, and ensure that the woman he does a huge favour by marrying is submissive, tolerant, and patient and loving like a real wife should, from DAY 1, is bound to suffer this kind of fate in marriage. Life out there (with the daily hustle) is hard enough. A man who knows what he is doing cannot and should never condone having to struggle with a useless jezebel at home in the name of marriage. Home is supposed to be a drama-free sanctuary of peace, quiet and relaxation. No more, no less.

Since you have made the mistake already, the only thing left is to take drastic, corrective actions.

Don't allow that bitch you call a 'wife', and the witch she calls a mother back into your house and into your life. There's nothing to discuss. There's no need for peace talks.

I know you love 'your' children (do DNA first to be sure), but be willing to forfeit them to that bitch. Swallow a heartless pill and wash your hands off those kids and their mother. Demonstrate that you don't send them and don't want to see them, ever. Mean it.

If she chooses to sue you to court for whatever or file for divorce. Take the lead and the initiative. Go rogue . Get a lawyer to take preemptive action. Look for a judge to bribe to turn the case on its head, annul the gaddem marriage, and ultimately (if you confirm that the kids are actually yours), revert paternity to you.

There is no forgiveness or settlement with these kinds of damaged women. They are thoroughly and irreparably damaged. As the mumu that you currently are and previously were, you have made the mistake of marrying a damaged product that can't be repaired. But you're under no obligation to keep managing that damaged product for the rest of your life. Discard it, and start anew.

Don't say I didn't warn you.

BABANGBALI:
[s]must you come meat me for bathroom to tell me this? Wetin for happen for sey i no tie towel. I no like that kind rough play o. You even knock door see. Na which time that nonsense start now?[/s]

Stephenomozzy:
Don't go to a police station yet,

I believe your wife has family, and those families can be traced to a physical address, why not reach out to all those people in her family and let them help you trace where ahe might likely be. It's not like she's traveled out of your state.

Involving the police would not spell well for either one of you.

When she comes back home, talk to her, let her know you love her (make her feel loved the way she appreciates - love language), appeal to her to talk to you IF THERE'S ANYTHING YOU DID WRONG AT ANY TIME THAT YOU DIDN'T PROPERLY APOLOGIZE FOR THAT SHE'S STILL ANGRY ABOUT (Yes, some people keep that kind grudge).

Try to mend your relationship with her mother (you don't have to be her friend). Just don't be her enemy lest she turns your wife against you over and over again - the mum has alot of influence on her, it seems.

hardbody:


All of these ontop woman I married and kept in my house? Not saying you should do this but if it's me, she will come back and become a second wife. Another lady will welcome her. Nonesense and ingredients.

Ohemababy:


Sorry how do you mean a man's kids?
Are they not her kids also.
Police for what? I dont really understand.

To arrest his kids mom for what crime exactly?

libertyfather:


Lucky you it's not too late, I had wish it happens to me like this earlier....I'm stuck and can't get out again

sisisioge:
So she's going to sue you for alleged cheating? Whew! It's always a problem when couples allow extended families live with them!

Righteousness89:
Make a police Rreport!
Also inform Ffamily elders...

After that Ccalm down and use this time to seek GOD'S Fface on your family....

Something is wrong somewhere!

I Bbelieve the Ggreatest solution is the one that GOD gives..

Use this period to knock on Heaven gate for your Ffamily Mmatters..

Personal Ttimes as these produce results!

I Ppray Ffor you that GOD Almighty have Mmercy on your Hhome and restore the Llove and Jjoy that in your Hhome in JESUS Name.... Amen

Stephenomozzy:
Don't go to a police station yet,

I believe your wife has family, and those families can be traced to a physical address, why not reach out to all those people in her family and let them help you trace where ahe might likely be. It's not like she's traveled out of your state.

Involving the police would not spell well for either one of you.

When she comes back home, talk to her, let her know you love her (make her feel loved the way she appreciates - love language), appeal to her to talk to you IF THERE'S ANYTHING YOU DID WRONG AT ANY TIME THAT YOU DIDN'T PROPERLY APOLOGIZE FOR THAT SHE'S STILL ANGRY ABOUT (Yes, some people keep that kind grudge).

Try to mend your relationship with her mother (you don't have to be her friend). Just don't be her enemy lest she turns your wife against you over and over again - the mum has alot of influence on her, it seems.

landforeast:
Men don't give your wife easy hand from thr first day or she will take you for a ride. Maintain principle and wear that skin of a lion but don't fail to shower her with love when necessary. The mistake you made is that you gave your wife free hand and it seems there are some people spoiling her mind against You. Go and look for your kids and Thunder like a man you are

DontBullshitMe:
Weak men everywhere.

You are a very weak man.

zedegit:



You cheated? Did you fvck another woman?

I thought you said you were just talking? Can't you be straight to us for us to advise you properly.

If this inconsistency and insecurity is what she saw in you, then it's unfortunate.
I believe you were even stammering before her.

Hah!

DontBullshitMe:
Weak men everywhere.

You are a very weak man.

Dangrace01:



Nawa oh. Well op your mother inlaw is a single mother. If she divorced her husband can you see the trend........

Always check family background before marriage. Her mother might even b jealous that her daughter is happily married and want to destroy her marriage but d said daughter wouldn't believe it.