chinwezdasilva:
The fact is many think they will marry their current girlfriend or boyfriend but it doesn't work that way in naija the odd na 0.0001

spiceadole:


I will detach and treat him as one of my younger brothers.

I can't be with a man I'm older than.
I am a first child..I have younger brothers who respect me & take instructions from me.
I cannot "open legs" or "bow" for a man in their age group.

Kennitrust:
She will become so old that you won't be able to avoid cheating on her.




Not advisable

Haywhymido:
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Bahdsypha:


This is not true...there is no scientific basis for this
Women are not mentally more mature than men of this same age
Na just stupid archaic social concept..


Women enter adolescence earlier but boys catch up with them
A 19year old boy and a 19year old girl are the same biologically...entering puberty early and having secondary sexual characters is not a guarantee that the person is mature enough for marriage..The only thing that makes girls think they are more mature is that men...most times old men have start coming for them when they're young..

But It doesn't mean they're psychologically, mentally and biologically mature for marriage

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Bahdsypha:


So it's only to "open legs" and 'bow" that you plan to do in a marriage....how shameful

Do you think marriage is a servant-master affair?

I don't think you understand the concept of marriage at all, I would not wish for anyone I know to get married to you

ModestGal:

I'm saying the truth, when I was 15, 16,17,18,19 it was hard to come by people of that age with thesame intelligence like myself, it has nothing to do with maturity, for instance, we are talking, they would be saying things differently in a baby way.

Most of the times, I don't get to meet people in my age range with thesame intelligence level, not that they do not exist, just that I was not lucky enough. And usually people are matured generally after age 20, and if we are talking and someone is talking..... Sorry, I'm tired of typing, because I'm not sure you will ever understand.
But I just said the truth about my own life and people that I have met.

avalon7:


If the odd is 0.0001 that means it is very likely

Zombiekiller010:
My wife is a year older than me, she has never disrespected me or call me by my name even during courtship. (e ) in yoruba is always attached to my name.

FRANKOSKI:
FOR MEN, SHE WILL LOOK LIKE YOUR SENIOR & IF YOU ARE NOT RICH...... NO RESPECT!!

Baba1234:
1. I am 32 , she's 23 , she says no probs we can marry in 3 yrs when she's ready...

2. She is 31 and she says now we can

I stopped talking to no2( that's all we do) and focused on no1, but I told no 1 I'll be praying abt what she said ,

It all depends on the story that sorrunds your reasons...it is possible I marry someone even older than me IF I see a future in her...I'm sorry I'm not looking for LOVE... Don't ask me why....I look for the person I can tolerate and at the same time tolerate me (I'm not so hard to handle though)

Chao

Professorcplus:

Really, this is rear @bolded I believe you are above that age but can you still marry a guy of your current age.

ModestGal:

Nope, I need someone more intelligent and matured. When I'm angry, I go into seclusion (isolation) for long hours, an annoying state of quietness that it takes extreme calmness to get me talking and cheerful again afterwards. it would take a highly matured person to deal with that

gentleibraheem:

And that is another misconception about maturity.
Maturity doesn't necessarily come with age but exposure amd mindset.

ModestGal:

Nope, I need someone more intelligent and matured. When I'm angry, I go into seclusion (isolation) for long hours, an annoying state of quietness that it takes extreme calmness to get me talking and cheerful again afterwards. it would take a highly matured person to deal with that

ModestGal:

It is not misconception, it is reality. Maybe you should try to be a realist. Because if you are right, then why do people say '' You are behaving like a child'' ''you are childish'' . Its because some behaviours and some immaturity comes with the younger people and an older individual is usually more composed and more matured.

There's no how a 15years old person would be more matured and composed than a 30years old individual no matter how brilliant/intelligent he is. Of course, we have some exception, but that 30years old guy wouldn't be a mentally healthy individual or the 15years old boy is 1 in a million

Maturity, composure, wisdom grows with age

ubcandid:


are you working? you would still bow for a man in their age group

Bahdsypha:


So it's only to "open legs" and 'bow" that you plan to do in a marriage....how shameful

Do you think marriage is a servant-master affair?

I don't think you understand the concept of marriage at all, I would not wish for anyone I know to get married to you

ModestGal:

It is not misconception, it is reality. Maybe you should try to be a realist. Because if you are right, then why do people say ''You are behaving like a child'' ''you are childish''. Its because some behaviours and some immaturity comes with the younger people and an older individual is usually more composed and more matured.

There's no how a 15years old person would be more matured and composed than a 30years old individual no matter how brilliant/intelligent he is. Of course, we have some exception, but that 30years old guy wouldn't be a mentally healthy individual or the 15years old boy is 1 in a million

Maturity, composure, wisdom grows with age

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Limitless72:


You talk like a kid..
In tradition the woman is not older than the man. So keep your age one side because in the scheme of things those your younger brothers would be chosen to preside over matters that you can't, they can talk where you can't.

They are more powerful in societal things than you not to talk of your husband.

See you mouth like "they take instructions from me. I can't open leg for someone that I'm older than"..

You're a woman and you should know your place in tradition. You can't be more than your husband, nah em go come pay your dowry, nah em you go kneel down give palm wine, nah em name you go answer. So woman of age or toxic femininity, keep your age in the gutter and face reality

Chibae4real:


This is not always true! From my personal experience ...
i dated a guy that am older than, and sincerely i respected him cos i love him very much...infact, i'm ready to take bullet for his sake! but guess what? he frustrated all the relationship processes, he doesn't even have regards for me... he shouts at me but do apologize at times, he had mood swings issues too..., sincerely, i'm not the crying type; but he had made me cried on several occasions... whenever i thought about his actions towards me..., i went through emotional trauma....atlas! the relationship had ended now....though, it wasn't easy but i have to force my heart out of it! i deserve better! i don't think i'll ever date someone that i'm older than. Never again!!! Many other things too i can't state here! note that, I'm a working class lady and very independent