assme:

@Mrs. Chima

u think its b'cos dis is Africa. So in the western world other men can be allowed to tap/squeeze another man's wife arse, is that what you are saying?

Mrs.Chima:

What I AM SAYING ONLY IN AFRICA and other countries, a man can beat a woman and get away with it.

In America, if a man saw his wife getting her arse tapped by another man and he beat her up. HE IS GOING TO JAIL/getting killed/burn up. There wouldn't even be a discussion.

saridon_p:

That is why is important to know each other before marriage.The man is wrong because he seems not to know his wife very well and on his own part he was wrong to beat her.He can be angry and show his anger by just going away from there but not to slap the woman.Instead he should slap the guy or if the guy is over-confident of tapping another man's wife backside then the husband should arrange guys with long guns to dip it in his backside and violation it till he bleed.Slapping and beating the woman is degrading for that woman and one of the reasons why she plays and laugh at the office.Your friend should relax his Idiagbon style and show some respect to the woman.

Mrs.Chima:

The only CRIME THE WOMAN DID WAS laughed and chased the guy around. What else she could have done? Beat the guy? What was already done was done. The woman can undo a tap on the arse neither the husband can undo the BLUEBERRY MUFFIN makeover he gave his wife.

That is bleeping crazy. You would beat the woman because she laughed BUT WON'T SAY poo TO THE MAN? THAT SOME BULLSHIT AND YOU MOFOS KNOW IT.

Mrs.Chima:

Only a woman beater would say that. DUH!

Mrs.Chima:

The only CRIME THE WOMAN DID WAS laughed and chased the guy around.  What else she could have done?  Beat the guy?  What was already done was done.  The woman can undo a tap on the arse neither the husband can undo the BLUEBERRY MUFFIN makeover he gave his wife.  

That is bleeping crazy.  You would beat the woman because she laughed BUT WON'T SAY poo TO THE MAN?  THAT SOME BULLSHIT AND YOU MOFOS KNOW IT.  

ebila:

You do realise we're talking about adults right? The woman was the right person to do the talking to the 'arse tapper',not the husband.The husband's business is with the wife.The only time it is necessary and also wise for the husband to approach the 'arse tapper' is if the guy does it even after the woman scolded him.

Mrs.Chima:

If that was the case then the husband should have stay out of it. If the matter was the wife's. Now you know damn well that is not making no mOFO SENSE.

do your male friends tap your ar.se ?

ebila:

It's his business,but with his wife.Yeah,he should have stayed out of it till he gets home.His actions are not justifiable,so also hers.

do your female friends tap you on your arse?

ZIM DRILL:

dont waste much time on mrs chima

never reason much with a fool s/he will twist you along the way the fool will win through experience

Mrs.Chima:

If I am a fool then you are a dumb arse. Why the bleep would I reason with a dumb arse? Go wash some clothes.

assme:



Answering a question with a question is African and you still tell us that the reaction of the couple in context is African.

ZIM DRILL:

yes i am for the mean time becoz am trying to reason with a fool 

Let me know when the women beater convention is over.

assme:


I think with your reaction so far, if you were in the same position as the husband, you would have thrown her off the cliff.

d bigrod:

when will mrs chima start to reason like an adult? pathetic

Mrs.Chima:

So your rational logic is IF A MAN TAPPED ANOTHER WOMAN ON THE ARSE, HE bleeped HER?

I swear this some sad poo.  

Where HAVE I JUSTIFIED THE WOMAN'S ACTION?  Did you read ANY OF MY MOFO POSTS?  No you didn't.  Because you would have seen comments degrading the woman.  But nooooooooo too busy getting caught up with the WOMEN BEATER COMMENT.  

25omega:

i dont know what i would in a situation like this but im sure i wouldn't slap her. I would ask the man why he did what he did then ask my wife of the type of relationship she has with the man where he feels comfortable enough to do such a thing to her and she only laughs. I would be really upset and i hope by confronting them i will get some answers. if not my trust would probably go out the door which will lead to separation because i can't live or be in a relationship where im constantly wondering what or who my wife is doing

adamsrib:

I love your warrior spirit Mrs Chima! What I think Zim Drill is saying is that the wife is not demanding respect from the men around her. MOST men are going to respect a woman if she carries herself in such a way that he knows there will be consequences if he crosses the line.

I do not agree with the husband on beating her, but again she has failed to set boundaries. Sometimes men only respect strength.  The minute he threw the first punch she should have been on him like fleas on a dog. Grab the skillet, pot, broom, mop, whatever you can and inflict as much damage as you possible is my motto. My husband knows if he ever raises a hand to hit me, he better kill me on the first one, because if he doesn't, Armageddon will look like a picnic.

They are both wrong. But the common denominator in both situations is the woman not making it known that there are consequences for disrespecting her.