CHoccolaTE:


Thank you for sharing,
Did you divorce him or did he pass? Am just curious what happened that you are no longer married

I left him due to fear of losing my limbs, my life , my sanity or all three. He has since moved in with a much richer woman and is playing daddy to her teenage sons. If I tell you my story, you would think I made it up. He was a big scam and remorseless gold digger.

Chiquitq:


I left him due to fear of losing my limbs, my life , my sanity or all three. He has since moved in with a much richer woman and is playing daddy to her teenage sons. If I tell you my story, you would think I made it up. He was a big scam and remorseless gold digger.

Sorry to hear that, please accept my heartfelt sympathy.

Many men ain't shit.

Forget him and be happy, good thing you were able to escape.

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obiekunie2:
there was a topic i saw this morning on NL on how a lady who works at some kind of registry said that 99.9% of women dont use their husbands as next of kin but 90% of men use their wife as next of kin!

then something hit me! i use my wife as next of kin in my banking and financial activities which involves quite some large amount - who does she use in hers?

i decided to ask her!

oboy! the answer shock me!

her reasons even shock me more!




GO FIND OUT WHO YOUR WIFE IS USING FOR NEXT OF KIN - BRO! THE ANSWER WILL SHOCK YOU!

AND I WILL BET YOU THAT IT WILL NEVER EVER BE YOU!

Once my wife has babies for me .. she's my NOK ... IDGAF who she uses as her NOK ... Your properties belong to your children and who better managed it than their mom .... Most Maternal families are all Mothers... Most paternal families are competition!!

DonroxyII:
Once my wife has babies for me .. she's my NOK ... IDGAF who she uses as her NOK ... Your properties belong to your children and who better managed it than their mom .... Most Maternal families are all Mothers... Most paternal families are competition!!

talks like a pure simp.

and it never occur to you that humans are so unpredictable - it never occur to you that you can die and she gets another man that will make her drop your kids and face the onces she will have with him.

next you will shout i trust her so much.



i have changed next of kin to my sons names. go figure.

obiekunie2:


talks like a pure simp.

and it never occur to you that humans are so unpredictable - it never occur to you that you can die and she gets another man that will make her drop your kids and face the onces she will have with him.

next you will shout i trust her so much.



i have changed next of kin to my sons names. go figure.

That's her cup of tea and Jah knows I have done my own bit as a Man ...

and Yea, I'm a simp to my own marital ideas !! ... Choose wisely a woman who shares your ideology and philosophy not a Fine Girl ....

Do what works for you ....

I only trust me and God not anyone ... and I also trust the woman that we make the babies together to do better for her children regardless of the conditions than any other persons anywhere ... if sh.it now happens, God will help His Children .... But you can't control anything and you can't be all wiser!!

lastly, Nobody is getting out of this life alive so don't hold life too dearly .... just do the right thing and swerve !!