beauty7:


BDSM is a play organized between a man and a woman whereby one will torment the other in some way for their mutual enjoyment.

A man had asked me to do it to him before.

Our own involved him lying naked and me beating his bottom.

He so much liked it. He said he developed love for buttocks spanking when he was a secondary school student in a boarding school. He said senior students use to flog his bottom to the extent that he now developed fetish for bottom spanking.


In fact he is the reason why I came to like bottom spanking.

Although I was mainly beaten on my hands when I was a student as is usual for girls,

I also came to share in his BDSM fetish involving bottom spanking. He told me that many men love it especially those who went to British style school wherein boys are normally caned on the bottom and girls on the hands or back.

So if someone must try any type of BDSM with you as a man or woman let it be in a committed relationship otherwise by the time you people separate, you may not be able to find another person that likes what your former partner liked.

And by then you are already addicted to that particular BDSM.

You know initially you didn't like that type of BDSM.

It was your boy/girl friend that made you to be addicted to it.

By the time he or she leaves you, you are on your own.

So one must be careful.

tobechi74:


Yes oo, she acted fifty shades of grey

Martinez39s:
Your case seems irredeemable.

femi4:
you ve been SIMPlified mentally and emotionally

SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh


I swear you need serious deliverance. Are you a Christian? If you are then you need to know this. Even the Bible support the husband to be the head and the wife the neck.

Please don't envasage such kind of women thinking because you grew up with violent ladies. They ain't funny, you will be use and dump like rags. I know some ladies will like the kind of your type if you are rich cause she will control you.

Marrying a violent woman is like living abject hell I swaer. Cause they moment you vex her, she will beat the living day light outta you and pray you don't fall to those with anger, all the home appliances gone.

The following are result you will get if you marry one:-
1. You will die because of frustration.
2. Your kids won't respect you.
3. They can turn against you anytime cause mummy will rule them.
4. You will just hate your existence because of her (your wife) nagging.

The way out is,
1. be the boss, have your own say . don't always nod to people's decision.have an objection with valuable facts.
2. Go for intensive deliverance.
3. Watch debate to be able to defend your decision when some one buzzed you.
4. Move with guys than women.
5. Stop admiring aggressiveness or violence.

With the above you can change gradually Sir.
That's my own verdicts !!

TOPCRUISE:
Those that like violent women are the major complainants in the Romance section. They are quick to open a thread about how their woman dealt wickedly with them and will be asking for advice.
We will love to hear what she did to you after you are done with her

SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

SweetHearted:
I am from a family whose first born is a female. She is followed by 3 other females. I am the 5th child and the last born is also male.

When we were younger,my sisters use to beat us because they were older and stronger than us. The eldest sister will beat the 2nd child to the last child.The same with the 2nd child. She beat the 3rd to the last child.

So I was brought up under authoritative females.

This has affected me because I find it hard to accept a gentle lady.

I only feel attracted to authoritative and violent ladies.

I find such ladies so attractive that I have never and can never date a girl unless she is authoritative, stronger and more assertive than me.

I always want to be close to women that behave like my sisters when we were younger. My sisters loved me but they showed the love through inflicting of pains.

So I tend to associate a woman's violent behavior to love. I seem to have compassion on women who behave violently and authoritatively.

I only find it easy to be working under a woman. I can't lead but I want to be led by woman. I can only work in a place if the head is a woman.

The last place I worked as a teacher, the head of our department was a woman. She complained that I was so obedient and submissive to her that I never even try to challenge her in any of her decisions unlike other teachers. She doesn't like such men, according to her.

Please I want to know if there is any man that is like me out there.

If so, what do you make of it.

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh


I swear you need serious deliverance. Are you a Christian? If you are then you need to know this. Even the Bible support the husband to be the head and the wife the neck.

Please don't envasage such kind of women thinking because you grew up with violent ladies. They ain't funny, you will be use and dump like rags. I know some ladies will like the kind of your type if you are rich cause she will control you.

Marrying a violent woman is like living abject hell I swaer. Cause they moment you vex her, she will beat the living day light outta you and pray you don't fall to those with anger, all the home appliances gone.

The following are result you will get if you marry one:-
1. You will die because of frustration.
2. Your kids won't respect you.
3. They can turn against you anytime cause mummy will rule them.
4. You will just hate your existence because of her (your wife) nagging.

The way out is,
1. be the boss, have your own say . don't always nod to people's decision.have an objection with valuable facts.
2. Go for intensive deliverance.
3. Watch debate to be able to defend your decision when some one buzzed you.
4. Move with guys than women.
5. Stop admiring aggressiveness or violence.

With the above you can change gradually Sir.
That's my own verdicts !!