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Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Lukgaf(m): 6:27am On Nov 27, 2020
"Can a husband or wife think sexually with the one's spouse when they are apart i.e. far away for time being."
By husband and wife, I mean those are lawfully married (not boy and girl friend)

Praise be to Allah.

Yes it is permissible for each spouse to think of the other, but we must explain the following points with regard to this matter:

1 – The Muslim should not keep away from his wife for more than six months, as stipulated by Ameer al-Mu’mineen ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allaah be pleased with him), as was narrated by ‘Abd al-Razzaaq in his Musannaf, 7/152.

If a Muslim is away for longer than that, then both parties may fall into temptation and be affected by whispers from the Shaytaan.

This may lead to thinking about haraam things, and after thinking about such things he may be provoked into satisfying his desires, and this may lead him to falling into haraam – Allaah forbid. Desire has power over a person’s mind and this may lead him to look at pictures or haraam things.

2 – The Muslim must break the power of his desire by fasting, lowering his gaze, avoiding temptation and turning away from it. He must fear Allaah as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“and follow not the footsteps of Shaytaan (Satan). Verily, he is to you an open enemy”

[al-Baqarah 2:168]

3 – Another issue that has to do with this topic is that it is not permissible for a woman to describe another (non-mahram) woman to her husband, so that he will not imagine her as if he is looking at her.

It was narrated that Ibn Mas’ood (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No woman should look at or touch another woman to describe her to her husband as if he can see her.”

(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 4942).

And Allaah knows best.

https://islamqa.info/en/categories/very-important/17/answers/8986/imagining-intercourse-between-spouses

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Rashduct4luv(m): 6:53am On Nov 27, 2020
Feeding your wife is charity!

Copulation with her is charity and a source of reward.

Copulation outside marriage is Zinna and one of the devilish bad deeds of our time.

Spouses are meant to be nice to one another!

Flee fornication and embrace marriage.

Cut your cloth accordingly.

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Treezom: 9:40am On Nov 27, 2020
Hmmmm,mouth sealed

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Sheriman(m): 9:40am On Nov 27, 2020
Allah Knows the best

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Jerrick(m): 9:41am On Nov 27, 2020
OK oo
Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Lewisalexander(m): 9:42am On Nov 27, 2020
I feel like starting a fight here

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Nobody: 9:43am On Nov 27, 2020
Stop shooting people BECAUSE ALL NIGERIANS ARE LAI MOHAMMED WHEN COME TO THIS

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by dimexy247(m): 9:47am On Nov 27, 2020
Allah Akbar

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by dimexy247(m): 9:48am On Nov 27, 2020
Allah is great

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Nobody: 9:50am On Nov 27, 2020
juma@ Mubarak to all ma Muslim folks...

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Nobody: 9:50am On Nov 27, 2020
Lewisalexander:
I feel like starting a fight here
Are you that bored!?
Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Nobody: 9:52am On Nov 27, 2020
Lukgaf:
"Can a husband or wife think sexually with the one's spouse when they are apart i.e. far away for time being."
By husband and wife, I mean those are lawfully married (not boy and girl friend)


https://islamqa.info/en/categories/very-important/17/answers/8986/imagining-intercourse-between-spouses

Why are you people so depraved, no wonder half of you are pedophiles and homosexuals undercover

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by marvin906(m): 9:56am On Nov 27, 2020
Something definitely is wrong with you guys

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by kingsvictor2: 10:05am On Nov 27, 2020
what else is left to be seen in Islam

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Slimboy94(m): 10:14am On Nov 27, 2020
Whiskeyjack:


Why are you people so depraved, no wonder half of you are pedophiles and homosexuals undercover

So homosexuality has a religion now.

Paedophilia too.

Smh.

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by TruthHurts1(m): 10:16am On Nov 27, 2020
But what about Mut'ah and Misyar? Hope you know that islamic prostitution is allowed?

Rashduct4luv:
Feeding your wife is charity!

Copulation with her is charity and a source of reward.

Copulation outside marriage is Zinna and one of the devilish bad deeds of our time.

Spouses are meant to be nice to one another!

Flee fornication and embrace marriage.

Cut your cloth accordingly.

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Slimboy94(m): 10:16am On Nov 27, 2020
Oizatobad:
Stop shooting people


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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Nobody: 10:18am On Nov 27, 2020
Seun remove the stupid oath in this section.It doesn't make sense really, why would everyone be free to comment on other sections but have to click on one stupid 'Yes to the above' on Islamic section?

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Lewisalexander(m): 10:28am On Nov 27, 2020
Hammyaladin:
Are you that bored!?

If I wanted a fight I would have said "all Muslims are terrorist"

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Stereoo(m): 11:06am On Nov 27, 2020
Rashduct4luv:
Feeding your wife is charity!

Copulation with her is charity and a source of reward.

Copulation outside marriage is Zinna and one of the devilish bad deeds of our time.

Spouses are meant to be nice to one another!

Flee fornication and embrace marriage.

Cut your cloth accordingly.

So how does one justify mut'ah marriage?

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by womenareapes: 11:18am On Nov 27, 2020
Lukgaf:
"Can a husband or wife think sexually with the one's spouse when they are apart i.e. far away for time being."
By husband and wife, I mean those are lawfully married (not boy and girl friend)


https://islamqa.info/en/categories/very-important/17/answers/8986/imagining-intercourse-between-spouses

Hypocrite!

Majority of porn websites are being patronize by Muslims (confirm fact)

I have a Muslim female who can't stay without Watch porn and she is married

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Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Rashduct4luv(m): 11:20am On Nov 27, 2020
Stereoo:


So how does one justify mut'ah marriage?

That was a form of temporary/contract marriage in the past. It is no more valid.
Re: Imagining Intercourse Between Spouses by Rashduct4luv(m): 11:23am On Nov 27, 2020
TruthHurts1:
But what about Mut'ah and Misyar? Hope you know that islamic prostitution is allowed?


Quote evidences for your assertion. I will then show you are a liar and confusionist.

Cursed be the liars!

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