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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by nairaman66(m): 6:39pm On Dec 15, 2020
Let’s answer your question correctly! Let’s imagine your wife met someone who could give her missionary very well.. and you found out, how would you feel?

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by olanrele78674: 6:50pm On Dec 15, 2020
Play away matches
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Nobody: 6:56pm On Dec 15, 2020
u want to do doggy and oral on her? shocked shocked shocked
so what will u say if she now reports u to pastor about u wanting to commit sexual immorality with her grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by iykeklef(m): 7:11pm On Dec 15, 2020
you and your wife were virgins before you got married. so what do you expect. she will continue to maintain that her religious stance. these are the disadvantage of marrying a virgin religious girl. I still support sex before marriage

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Nobody: 7:19pm On Dec 15, 2020
This is the reason guys don't do "no-sex" before marriage because you have to be sure if you are compatible sexually as well.
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Herbephe1(m): 7:34pm On Dec 15, 2020
Four years, How many children have you guys born?
you are supposed to be planning of having children of yours if you dont have a child yet,abi you want to impregnant her through MouthAction ni?

On a personal note any girl who engages in MouthAction is a prostitude,pls how do you feel asking for MouthAction from your wife,laise "olosho"?

Find a sidechick to satisfy your oral urge
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Stephenmoka4(m): 7:46pm On Dec 15, 2020
I don't think it would be ideal to put everythings you see in movies or videos in your marital life (bedroom).

Google it and see reactions from foreigners too (girlsaskguys, Reddit, askwomen etc)
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by LadySarah: 7:46pm On Dec 15, 2020
As a woman, this is sad. And she seems she's close-minded already in this regard.So she even allows missionary in her last trimester.

Have you tried oral on her first to see her reaction or talk to her parents or whoever she listens to? Nothing concerns Jesus with what you are doing therein your bedroom. who told her it's a sin? provided both of you are in agreement and doesn't violate your partner which means her consent is very important.

As for you, cheating on her was very wrong.It complicates issues. Now you have enjoyed the forbidden fruit and your body yearns for more.

Well you can pray about it maybe to her hearing. She and Jesus will hear you and hopefully a miracle happens.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Nobody: 7:58pm On Dec 15, 2020
dairykidd:
Wahala.. I sometimes wonder how people date without communication properly. Well to alot of girls dating is throwing their burdens and responsibilities on the poor man while the man will be getting pussy for lease. How come u guys never discussed sex even if ur both virgins? Asides test running u should know what ur settling for na? Na lifetime issues be marriage no be say una date for long then study characters and then marry... Well maybe u should wait for the married folks to tender their experiences. I communicate everything from relationship with God to sex, family, hygiene, social life, habits and all then if we can't blend properly na goodbye to Hollywood. No management involved.. good luck to ur friend abi na u sef undecided
You too like sex ,is it food? anything sex you will analyse it like the air you breath
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Nobody: 8:51pm On Dec 15, 2020
Zzor:
You too like sex ,is it food? anything sex you will analyse it like the air you breath
Its only natural to like sex... no worry when the right Piper descends on u then u will understand.. keep following smiley
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Nobody: 8:55pm On Dec 15, 2020
Herbephe1:
Four years, How many children have you guys born?
you are supposed to be planning of having children of yours if you dont have a child yet,abi you want to impregnant her through MouthAction ni?

On a personal note any girl who engages in MouthAction is a prostitude,pls how do you feel asking for MouthAction from your wife,laise "olosho"?

Find a sidechick to satisfy your oral urge

I really pity ur wife.. our bodies are to be enjoyed more so in marriage. Looking for thrills u can conveniently get at home in peace is just stupidity and more trouble for u and urs
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Nobody: 8:56pm On Dec 15, 2020
dairykidd:

Its only natural to like sex... no worry when the right Piper descends on u then u will understand.. keep following smiley
What's piper?
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Nobody: 8:58pm On Dec 15, 2020
Zzor:
What's piper?
When u ready i will show u
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by LegendaryLover(m): 9:15pm On Dec 15, 2020
People are calling you selfish for insisting on those sexual activities from your wife, but I think your wife is the selfish one here.
Marriage is all about meeting needs. If those sexual acts of doggy and orals won't kill her, she should do it joor
She must understand that every part of the body is good and holy. No part is too disgusting to be intimate with.

And you too play your part. There's a rule of MouthAction: don't ask or receive MouthAction from your partner if you can't or won't give. Are you yourself willing to eat her puss.y? If yes, then do this...
Take a shower together one evening. Give her a body massage, then eat her puss.y. very good. Let her know what you two are missing in the bedroom.

After sessions of doing this over some days, ask her to reciprocate. I think she will.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by LegendaryLover(m): 9:26pm On Dec 15, 2020
Stephenmoka4:
I don't think it would be ideal to put everythings you see in movies or videos in your marital life (bedroom).

Google it and see reactions from foreigners too (girlsaskguys, Reddit, askwomen etc)

You are right. Not every woman will be hoe-kay giving head as in oral.sex But brother reason the doggy part na.
E no make na.
Why can't she just bend and let the man enjoy his life. REMEMBER he said DOGGY POSITION, HE DIDNT SAY ANAL SEX.
weytin pain gets do with that one. He's not digging her ass.hole, still the puss.y but in a different position. So why the fuss from her.
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Nobody: 9:37pm On Dec 15, 2020
dairykidd:
When u ready i will show u
Im ready
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Liposure: 9:46pm On Dec 15, 2020
This is why sexual compatibility is essential. I ain't tying the knot knowing you are an amateur
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Fortuneseeker: 10:05pm On Dec 15, 2020
Ardar:
Mails are such selfish creatures.

Reading this nonsense really gave me a headache and reading most of the comments made it worse.

How do you expect a religious virgin wife to all of sudden know all the latest sex styles? You want her puzzy to be tear rubber and at the same time expect her to know how to bang like a IndecentStar.
Now at the end of the day you mails will still cheat on your "virgin wives" with those girls you freely call sluts, oloshos and the rest.

I won't be surprised if the op leaves his "virgin wife" and marries the "olosho" that scattered his brain.

Very selfish and greedy creatures.

It's called males not mails. Thank you

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Hopato: 10:12pm On Dec 15, 2020
Oga o
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Cerebellum: 10:46pm On Dec 15, 2020
CandyOps:
You sound like a JJC turned player... cheesy

Enjoy your new found pleasures because nothing we say to this niggah will push him away from the pleasures of an away match... Especially after her has tested new arenas.

And glided across freshly mowed green carpet grass and have had the wettness beneath rubbed in his face.

That euphoria and intense feeling when you're blowing shots into the goaal post of the opposing team knowing you shouldn't be there in the first place is second to none.

I die if this niggah listen to any of una grin

Lol..lol

And nah that die you go die

gringrin
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by frozen70(f): 10:56pm On Dec 15, 2020
Ochason:
A friend needs your advise.
My wife and I are having issues for over six months now. We live in the same house but she does not sleep with me or barely speak with me. And that is because she found out my indiscretion in March. I have been married for four years now. We were both virgins when we married. So, she is my first and I hers. Along the line, I got tired of having s*x the missionary style and wanted to try new things to spice up our life.
That was when my wife shocked me and refused to try other s*x styles like doggy or oral s*x. I was very disappointed but I love my wife, so I did not bother her. She say doggy style is painful for her and oral is against her beliefs. But,as a man, I desire these kind of exciting ways of making love and I watch films and I really get aroused seeing other people do it. One day, I gave two ladies from my office lift after work. I noticed one of them was trying to be close to me…I used to give both of them lift.
Then, one day, only one of them waited for me cos she could not find transport. We closed late that day and on the way, we got talking and it was getting interesting. I asked her if she was in a relationship, she said she just broke up with her guy. She wanted to know why I asked her and I said nothing just curios. However, she went further to say that she likes me and she wish I was not married. I smiled but then she also went ahead and said she miss her s*x with her boyfriend. All these, I know she was telling me because she wanted me. I told her lets hangout. She agreed. I took her to a hotel, paid the bill. That night …it was wild. All the imaginations I had wanted with my wife..I had with her…she was wild and gave me all the styles. For the first time,I felt I made a mistake marrying my wife.
That was how my affair with this lady started…until my wife noticed I was not bothering her again for s*x. She checked my phone and saw messages between me and this lady. She went crazy but I told her she pushed me to it. That her refusing doggy or oral pushed me to cheat. This almost broke us up but after much counselling, we agreed to work things out. My wife agreed for the doggy but not oral. She maintained its still a sin. Even the doggy,she just make me loose interest cos she will be behaving uncomfortable…not enjoying it.
I decided not to bother her again. When she noticed I am quiet… she will start making trouble…saying I am selfish and all I want is s*x and I don’t care what she feels. I don’t know what is so strange about a man wanting doggy or oral from his wife.
This is one reason a lot of men cheat on their wives. Side chicks are ready to give what the married ones don’t want to give. I feel so bad but since the situation is not getting better, I been thinking maybe its time to end the marriage.

There’s nothing I have not tried. I gave her books to reach, videos to watch…even paid for an online coaching class for her to watch but she still maintain her stance. I really do not want to divorce…I cannot bear to see my children go through this but if you were in my shoes, what will you do?
This has drawn me and that lady close. I am getting tempted to continue the affair with her…I really do not wish to…but my wife is being inconsiderate and I really feel she does not care about me as much as I care about her.

Please advise me…its almost end of year…I cannot continue in a marriage where we hardly speak to each other or enjoy s*x with each other…if she cannot compromise…I will continue cheating cos divorce is not an option…

What else can he do?

Every one that cheats have a good reason for cheat

Just because you weren't able to enjoy yourself and end up as a virgin, is the main reason why you are desiring for it by all means

You know what,
just follow your heart but try to avoid getting another woman pregnant to avoid you having a divided home and divided interest

Extra marrital affairs is like gambling
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by danilmo: 11:51pm On Dec 15, 2020
frozen70:


Every one that cheats have a good reason for cheat

Just because you weren't able to enjoy yourself and end up as a virgin, is the main reason why you are desiring for it by all means

You know what,
just follow your heart but try to avoid getting another woman pregnant to avoid you having a divided home and divided interest

Extra marrital affairs is like gambling


how can u b advising him to follow his heart ??
his heart is on tasting another pussy . he has already done that before with guilty conscience but looking for who ll validate it officially with reasonable (stupid) excuse..

forget his story, I'm a man, wen we want to to d irresponsible act we know how to cook up one stupid story excuse..

if she want to initiate his wife to other sex it's not by force and not a one day thing, from d old mission style , from there to legging up, to standing up nacking before u know it they become a sex stylist for thereselves..

I dont have any advise for op since his mind is corrupt already d day he tasted that side chick, he ll still go for 2nd round, just a sex demand call from that chick is a done deal..wetin u wan tell him again..

Lol. Men Sha. lol

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by ITbomb(m): 3:45am On Dec 16, 2020
My friend, respect your wife and stop keeping those messages on your phone.
Must you ignore your wife because of some side chick?, definitely NO
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Nobody: 6:23am On Dec 16, 2020
Op, Stop Blaming Ur Wife. U Are Too Harsh On Her. U Don't Know How Pamper A Woman Or Put A Woman In A Good Mood. If U Are Love Her & Care Abt How She Feels, Even If She Says It's Against Her Belief, She Would Want To Give It A Try Because Of D Love U Av 4 Her. Honestly, Dick Sucking Of A Thing, I Don't Like. By D Way, I Support Her On Dis. U Are Only After Ur Own Sexual Satisfaction Without Thinking Abt Hers. Dat U Are Comfortable With D Sexual Styles, Doesn't Mean She Is Comfortable With It. With Time She Would Get Use To It, If U Do What I Said Above.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by falcon01: 6:37am On Dec 16, 2020
Ochason:
A friend needs your advise.
My wife and I are having issues for over six months now. We live in the same house but she does not sleep with me or barely speak with me. And that is because she found out my indiscretion in March. I have been married for four years now. We were both virgins when we married. So, she is my first and I hers. Along the line, I got tired of having s*x the missionary style and wanted to try new things to spice up our life.
That was when my wife shocked me and refused to try other s*x styles like doggy or oral s*x. I was very disappointed but I love my wife, so I did not bother her. She say doggy style is painful for her and oral is against her beliefs. But,as a man, I desire these kind of exciting ways of making love and I watch films and I really get aroused seeing other people do it. One day, I gave two ladies from my office lift after work. I noticed one of them was trying to be close to me…I used to give both of them lift.
Then, one day, only one of them waited for me cos she could not find transport. We closed late that day and on the way, we got talking and it was getting interesting. I asked her if she was in a relationship, she said she just broke up with her guy. She wanted to know why I asked her and I said nothing just curios. However, she went further to say that she likes me and she wish I was not married. I smiled but then she also went ahead and said she miss her s*x with her boyfriend. All these, I know she was telling me because she wanted me. I told her lets hangout. She agreed. I took her to a hotel, paid the bill. That night …it was wild. All the imaginations I had wanted with my wife..I had with her…she was wild and gave me all the styles. For the first time,I felt I made a mistake marrying my wife.
That was how my affair with this lady started…until my wife noticed I was not bothering her again for s*x. She checked my phone and saw messages between me and this lady. She went crazy but I told her she pushed me to it. That her refusing doggy or oral pushed me to cheat. This almost broke us up but after much counselling, we agreed to work things out. My wife agreed for the doggy but not oral. She maintained its still a sin. Even the doggy,she just make me loose interest cos she will be behaving uncomfortable…not enjoying it.
I decided not to bother her again. When she noticed I am quiet… she will start making trouble…saying I am selfish and all I want is s*x and I don’t care what she feels. I don’t know what is so strange about a man wanting doggy or oral from his wife.
This is one reason a lot of men cheat on their wives. Side chicks are ready to give what the married ones don’t want to give. I feel so bad but since the situation is not getting better, I been thinking maybe its time to end the marriage.

There’s nothing I have not tried. I gave her books to reach, videos to watch…even paid for an online coaching class for her to watch but she still maintain her stance. I really do not want to divorce…I cannot bear to see my children go through this but if you were in my shoes, what will you do?
This has drawn me and that lady close. I am getting tempted to continue the affair with her…I really do not wish to…but my wife is being inconsiderate and I really feel she does not care about me as much as I care about her.

Please advise me…its almost end of year…I cannot continue in a marriage where we hardly speak to each other or enjoy s*x with each other…if she cannot compromise…I will continue cheating cos divorce is not an option…

What else can he do?
let me honest with you, she cant sexually satisfy you and now it's the time to get all o That if she cant then you get a sude chick and if shes not OK with that you divorce dont be in an unhappy marriage just because of some beliefs or some ideology. You stated clearly she doesn't want to try new things because of her belief, fear women who can't compromise. Oga don't be miserable, be wise and be happy.
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by frozen70(f): 6:46am On Dec 16, 2020
danilmo:



how can u b advising him to follow his heart ??
his heart is on tasting another pussy . he has already done that before with guilty conscience but looking for who ll validate it officially with reasonable (stupid) excuse..

forget his story, I'm a man, wen we want to to d irresponsible act we know how to cook up one stupid story excuse..

if she want to initiate his wife to other sex it's not by force and not a one day thing, from d old mission style , from there to legging up, to standing up nacking before u know it they become a sex stylist for thereselves..

I dont have any advise for op since his mind is corrupt already d day he tasted that side chick, he ll still go for 2nd round, just a sex demand call from that chick is a done deal..wetin u wan tell him again..

Lol. Men Sha. lol

If you understand his plans, you will agree with me that he is hell bent on cheating on his wife with that other lady

So he only came to inform us that he can't resist her and even the guilt he felt was just temporary and he is following the detate of his dick not his head

That's why I said make sure you don't get another woman pregnant

Then I know his heart is made up, so let him follow his heart

Even if you advice him not to, he has tasted it before and wants to get more

Food wey person never eat no dey hungry the person

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Clinghton: 7:22am On Dec 16, 2020
Sexual incompatibility, visit a sex therapist
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by IDERAWOLE(m): 7:36am On Dec 16, 2020
Ochason:
A friend needs your advise.
My wife and I are having issues for over six months now. We live in the same house but she does not sleep with me or barely speak with me. And that is because she found out my indiscretion in March. I have been married for four years now. We were both virgins when we married. So, she is my first and I hers. Along the line, I got tired of having s*x the missionary style and wanted to try new things to spice up our life.
That was when my wife shocked me and refused to try other s*x styles like doggy or oral s*x. I was very disappointed but I love my wife, so I did not bother her. She say doggy style is painful for her and oral is against her beliefs. But,as a man, I desire these kind of exciting ways of making love and I watch films and I really get aroused seeing other people do it. One day, I gave two ladies from my office lift after work. I noticed one of them was trying to be close to me…I used to give both of them lift.
Then, one day, only one of them waited for me cos she could not find transport. We closed late that day and on the way, we got talking and it was getting interesting. I asked her if she was in a relationship, she said she just broke up with her guy. She wanted to know why I asked her and I said nothing just curios. However, she went further to say that she likes me and she wish I was not married. I smiled but then she also went ahead and said she miss her s*x with her boyfriend. All these, I know she was telling me because she wanted me. I told her lets hangout. She agreed. I took her to a hotel, paid the bill. That night …it was wild. All the imaginations I had wanted with my wife..I had with her…she was wild and gave me all the styles. For the first time,I felt I made a mistake marrying my wife.
That was how my affair with this lady started…until my wife noticed I was not bothering her again for s*x. She checked my phone and saw messages between me and this lady. She went crazy but I told her she pushed me to it. That her refusing doggy or oral pushed me to cheat. This almost broke us up but after much counselling, we agreed to work things out. My wife agreed for the doggy but not oral. She maintained its still a sin. Even the doggy,she just make me loose interest cos she will be behaving uncomfortable…not enjoying it.
I decided not to bother her again. When she noticed I am quiet… she will start making trouble…saying I am selfish and all I want is s*x and I don’t care what she feels. I don’t know what is so strange about a man wanting doggy or oral from his wife.
This is one reason a lot of men cheat on their wives. Side chicks are ready to give what the married ones don’t want to give. I feel so bad but since the situation is not getting better, I been thinking maybe its time to end the marriage.

There’s nothing I have not tried. I gave her books to reach, videos to watch…even paid for an online coaching class for her to watch but she still maintain her stance. I really do not want to divorce…I cannot bear to see my children go through this but if you were in my shoes, what will you do?
This has drawn me and that lady close. I am getting tempted to continue the affair with her…I really do not wish to…but my wife is being inconsiderate and I really feel she does not care about me as much as I care about her.

Please advise me…its almost end of year…I cannot continue in a marriage where we hardly speak to each other or enjoy s*x with each other…if she cannot compromise…I will continue cheating cos divorce is not an option…

What else can he do?

The problem with most marriages is poor understanding of what life is.

Both men and women. Marriage is meant to be enjoyed 100%, in every way.

Sex is too good to be missed by anyone. Women that avoid sex, it is caused by ignorant men.

Did you hear yourself in that post of yours?

Your wife said, you don't care how she feels! What other information are you waiting for? She has told you everything you need to know to pass your exams!

On serious note, sex to ladies is a world apart from that of men.

We used to think as men that we fantasize more than women, a big lie!

Before you hit the bed, women have done two rounds of sex in their minds if you know how to do the right thing. However men, 97% of men are mugus when it comes to sex.

We think sex is gragra business. Poor souls.

When you get down to find out what is happening to your wife, and genuinely ready to give a tiny attention, not even so much o, your wife is already getting wet for you to return safely home for the night shift.

Just make sure you're not too tired to play your role.

Ask ladies, it's not too difficult to get regular sex from a wife, though a little bit different from other women, and I'm not a supporter of sleeping with anyone who's not your wife.

Swallow your pride and have a little heart to heart gist with your wife and she'll tell you how the two of you will begin to enjoy the thing like pepper soup.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Dreyton36: 7:37am On Dec 16, 2020
Hmmm listen OP

Marrying a virgin is a big blessing that's number one, men's virginity don't count o
If you see the rate of promiscuity in women nowadays then you wouldn't bother about your wife not giving you super sex positions
Hey man you think it's her fault? No it's not
Can you just for once sit down and ask yourself where you're also getting it all wrong ?

Nigga tf undecided you disvirgined her , she's supposed to be so much into exploring new things , maybe you just don't have the right flow that turns her on

I disvirgined my own girl and she doesn't like anal , she'll just lay on the bed like a log of wood
But you know what?

As her man I know my woman's mumu button , I give her the right vibes which is irresistible
Bro you don't give her the right vibes
You got a virgin wtf u cheating for
What's wrong with these amateur men of these days

I turned my woman to who she is today , from being a log of wood to being all I ever wanted
She even initiates most of our sex and romance , we make love in crazy places , even a quickie in public toilets lol
Guy there is more to life than just a ring on her finger
You cheated on ur woman with no remorse but if she was the one that also cheated I'm sure by now you would've divorced her , you think she doesn't have feelings abi

Imagine you trying to sleep with someone who always sees you as a fornicator , and you still lay on her and expect her to make love to you happily
In case you don't know , the love your woman has for you died the day she knew about your promiscuity
That's why she finds it hard to talk to you , her silence means anger you fool

Ok let's see things this way niggha
As a man who deflowered a lady , and all of a sudden she becomes so good at sex in different styles , won't you think she must be prolly cheating or learning them from somewhere?

It's ur responsibility to teach her, and if she refused to learn it means you don't know how to make your woman fall for you , it's still ur problem not hers

Una go just wan they fvck Toto but una no know how to make the babe fall with sweet words

Most virgins don't marry the men they love , most of them just want to know how marriage life feels like so it'll take a long time adjust into that kinda lifestyle they weren't brought up with

Guy go and take your wife on a vacation in somewhere around Africa if your money no long
Or somewhere around Nigeria sef
Be romantic and treat her like a queen
Make her understand that you're very wrong by sleeping with another and you take all the blames with ur one knee on the ground in a quiet location where it's just the two of you

Maybe a quiet garden or anywhere romantic

Remind her of the good times and how far you guys have gone , if you're a sweet talker just watch how she'll drop a tear, that tear is all you need bro
If that tear hasn't dropped then you've not even started being sweet

Once you've achieved that teardrop then you're almost there , don't stop talking ensure your hand is holding hers while you're on one knee sweet talking (and say them from ur heart not ur preeq)

Bro you'll see her burst into more tears, that's A YES
offer her your shoulders to cry on , don't tell her to stop crying , let her cry till she's cool
She'll cry that thought of your promiscuity off her head and she'll begin to generate some love for you , don't expect her to forgive you completely , it'll still take time so you have to continue being a good husband

As time goes you'll see the changes yourself, if you see the kind of women outside even DOGGY go tire you
If you fvck kpekus wey carry sickness doggy go tire u

And if you fvck kpekus wey no get grace then you are on your own o, better keep your home together and most importantly respect your wife if you want her to also respect you

If a virgin woman love you deeply , even when you say "babe i wanna Bleep u like a bitch , she go they turned on immediately cuz their body easily react to romantic words
So I'm wondering if you're even romantic at all , work ok yourself o

Go my son and never sin no more , na correct man sabi put home together without other people knowing what's up

Lights up my kpoli in peace

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Ezenwa12345(m): 7:50am On Dec 16, 2020
Nazgul:
Stop being selfish and listen to her. It shouldn't be about you all the time, try to consider her as well.
He probably provides everything the girl wants...
And you're saying he is selfish.... Still the same thing, what do girls contribute in a relationship
Consider say she no want doggy
If it was me , I won't touch her ....

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Olaniyimubarak: 8:07am On Dec 16, 2020
Openbusiness:
Marry a second wife that will give you all the styles. Let this one continue lying down like firewood. Women with boring sex are the BIGGEST sexual turnoffs
i swear u are right gat a girl lik dat mehh i jst lock up her find other one wit good vibes no time
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by Olaniyimubarak: 8:17am On Dec 16, 2020
Dreyton36:
Hmmm listen OP

Marrying a virgin is a big blessing that's number one, men's virginity don't count o
If you see the rate of promiscuity in women nowadays then you wouldn't bother about your wife not giving you super sex positions
Hey man you think it's her fault? No it's not
Can you just for once sit down and ask yourself where you're also getting it all wrong ?

Nigga tf undecided you disvirgined her , she's supposed to be so much into exploring new things , maybe you just don't have the right flow that turns her on

I disvirgined my own girl and she doesn't like anal , she'll just lay on the bed like a log of wood
But you know what?

As her man I know my woman's mumu button , I give her the right vibes which is irresistible
Bro you don't give her the right vibes
You got a virgin wtf u cheating for
What's wrong with these amateur men of these days

I turned my woman to who she is today , from being a log of wood to being all I ever wanted
She even initiates most of our sex and romance , we make love in crazy places , even a quickie in public toilets lol
Guy there is more to life than just a ring on her finger
You cheated on ur woman with no remorse but if she was the one that also cheated I'm sure by now you would've divorced her , you think she doesn't have feelings abi

Imagine you trying to sleep with someone who always sees you as a fornicator , and you still lay on her and expect her to make love to you happily
In case you don't know , the love your woman has for you died the day she knew about your promiscuity
That's why she finds it hard to talk to you , her silence means anger you fool

Ok let's see things this way niggha
As a man who deflowered a lady , and all of a sudden she becomes so good at sex in different styles , won't you think she must be prolly cheating or learning them from somewhere?

It's ur responsibility to teach her, and if she refused to learn it means you don't know how to make your woman fall for you , it's still ur problem not hers

Una go just wan they fvck Toto but una no know how to make the babe fall with sweet words

Most virgins don't marry the men they love , most of them just want to know how marriage life feels like so it'll take a long time adjust into that kinda lifestyle they weren't brought up with

Guy go and take your wife on a vacation in somewhere around Africa if your money no long
Or somewhere around Nigeria sef
Be romantic and treat her like a queen
Make her understand that you're very wrong by sleeping with another and you take all the blames with ur one knee on the ground in a quiet location where it's just the two of you

Maybe a quiet garden or anywhere romantic

Remind her of the good times and how far you guys have gone , if you're a sweet talker just watch how she'll drop a tear, that tear is all you need bro
If that tear hasn't dropped then you've not even started being sweet

Once you've achieved that teardrop then you're almost there , don't stop talking ensure your hand is holding hers while you're on one knee sweet talking (and say them from ur heart not ur preeq)

Bro you'll see her burst into more tears, that's A YES
offer her your shoulders to cry on , don't tell her to stop crying , let her cry till she's cool
She'll cry that thought of your promiscuity off her head and she'll begin to generate some love for you , don't expect her to forgive you completely , it'll still take time so you have to continue being a good husband

As time goes you'll see the changes yourself, if you see the kind of women outside even DOGGY go tire you
If you fvck kpekus wey carry sickness doggy go tire u

And if you fvck kpekus wey no get grace then you are on your own o, better keep your home together and most importantly respect your wife if you want her to also respect you

If a virgin woman love you deeply , even when you say "babe i wanna Bleep u like a bitch , she go they turned on immediately cuz their body easily react to romantic words
So I'm wondering if you're even romantic at all , work ok yourself o

Go my son and never sin no more , na correct man sabi put home together without other people knowing what's up

Lights up my kpoli in peace
respect man u deserve some accolades

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