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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Warripikine: 1:18pm On Dec 22, 2020
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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Goldp5988(f): 1:20pm On Dec 22, 2020
Zzor:
Husband is not scarce but the responsible one's na im scarce


Ozo dem, I guess

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Exc2000: 1:21pm On Dec 22, 2020
Most men this days only marry after pressure from family and the society

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by millionboi2: 1:22pm On Dec 22, 2020
Zzor:
Husband is not scarce but the responsible one's na im scarce
just as women plenty
But d wife among them no dey

TAX Collectors

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by millionboi2: 1:23pm On Dec 22, 2020
OcVoice:


Marriage is still attractive to those who value marriage. People are getting married steady. Infact a lot of people tied the knots even in this covid

They suppose to be more marriage than that

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 1:23pm On Dec 22, 2020
why would they be scared.. when u Abandon the ones working legit..... abeg husband dey nah women wey too dey select

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Allee90: 1:23pm On Dec 22, 2020
The love for money by women is to be blamed

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by omooba969(m): 1:23pm On Dec 22, 2020
Husbands are never scarce.

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 1:24pm On Dec 22, 2020
It's alright.
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by ednut1(m): 1:24pm On Dec 22, 2020
80% of women are chasing 20% of men. Many women have been empowered today but dont want to spend the money and want rich men. Una go tey for una papa house o

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by sammirano: 1:24pm On Dec 22, 2020
This one is ipob media and opionion.
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by BabbanBura(m): 1:26pm On Dec 22, 2020
Zzor:
Husband is not scarce but the responsible women na im scarce

Fixed

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by segebase(m): 1:26pm On Dec 22, 2020
For say na advance countries online dating is good but in naija ..u know d story

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by millionboi2: 1:27pm On Dec 22, 2020
Allee90:
The love for money by women is to be blamed
I don't know why nobody mention this.
Most Women bn too anxious Abt money,scare away men.

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by uthlaw: 1:27pm On Dec 22, 2020
Zzor:
Husband is not scarce but the responsible one's na im scarce
no,so many guys release marriage is over hyped!

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by TheWalkingMind: 1:28pm On Dec 22, 2020
Women should stop looking for who will take care of them.

Marriage is not a charity institution.

Good men are not scarce, dense men are.

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by optimusprime2(m): 1:28pm On Dec 22, 2020
Well these days, many goodlooking and presentable guys have become errrrrrrrh... not straight

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Nobody: 1:28pm On Dec 22, 2020
Zzor:
Husband is not scarce but the responsible one's na im scarce
wetin be husband before If no be responsibility?

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by oguns222: 1:29pm On Dec 22, 2020
Zzor:
Husband is not scarce but the responsible one's na im scarce

Someone as bitter as you will poison the life of any man that comes into your life

I think parents should warn their sons to stay away from you, madam toxic.

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by atakamus: 1:29pm On Dec 22, 2020
The major issue is women over dependent on men. Most women believe that every financial thing in the house must come from the man. This is definitely putting a lot pressures on men. Most married men are hypertensive. Most unmarried ones are afraid to work into that institution. Some see it as an unpleasant union.
Some women that are financially buoyant are not ready to spend their money on the family. Most of them spend on themselves and their father family members. It really a problem.
Some women have nothing to offer in a family but will like to get all from the man. They don't encourage the men, they don't support the men, they don't even bring ideas that will help their men to progress.

Imagine a man only hearing about bills all the time from his wife. No encouragement. I have seen a lot of unhappy married men. Most regret getting married. Although there are still a small number that got very good wives.

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by PartnerusIsBack: 1:29pm On Dec 22, 2020
Oscar Male here. Seeking for working/business class (financially independent) lady for serious relationship. Please take that bold step to send me DM.

Note: I am financially stable too by God's grace.


Thank you.

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by uthlaw: 1:30pm On Dec 22, 2020
RisenPhoenix1:
I think the general trend is:
"Why pay for a cow when milk is publicly available for free"?
100% correct!

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Sonnobax15(m): 1:31pm On Dec 22, 2020
undecided. Thread like this can never change me from marrying in two years time from now..

Marriage na beautiful thing when you've got the right partner....

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by biz2get(m): 1:32pm On Dec 22, 2020
What women fail to realize is ...

A man wey pass your standard no go toast you .

The kind of man you want , might not want your type of lady .

Think about it.

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by millionboi2: 1:33pm On Dec 22, 2020
ednut1:
80% of women are chasing 20% of men. Many women have been empowered today but dont want to spend the money and want rich men. Una go tey for una papa house o
Hahahaha
You sound funny but made alot of point
Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by millionboi2: 1:33pm On Dec 22, 2020
Sonnobax15:
undecided. Thread like this can never change me from marrying in two years time from now..

Marriage na beautiful thing when you've got the right partner....
who hold u

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by mkoabiola: 1:33pm On Dec 22, 2020
The rise in feminists and slay queen make husband scarce.

We no want stress

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by LoveJesus87(m): 1:33pm On Dec 22, 2020
Psych412:
will it last?



that's the problem.



marriages in our generation don't last up to 5 years.
Does that stop you from trying your own? Everybody failing around you guarantees that you too will fail? So because marriage in our generation don't last 5 years your own too will not last 5 years abi?

Kontinu

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by spy24(m): 1:35pm On Dec 22, 2020
The current economic reality in this country has made a lot of things to be very difficult

May God help us all especially the male child

The pressure no be here

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by BabbanBura(m): 1:36pm On Dec 22, 2020
jericco1:
The life expectancy of a man has become low and these days most men don't want to get married because they see women as a burden that brings more pain than joy to their lives.

Very true, plus truly most ladies these days are a bunch of emotional, financial, moral, physical and spiritual burden. One often wonders why bear this kaya when you can have kids and pussy without having to carry this persistent heavy load for the rest of your life.

However, apart from rhe likes of Zzor dem on nairaland, their are quite a sizeable number that one can wife for an everlasting pure bliss and peace. The bad ones make the search for the good ones hard and tricky!!

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by CSTRR: 1:36pm On Dec 22, 2020
It's a TRUE in a way.

Everybody is talking about girl-child which is good.

But What of the boy child?

Why is there no development Program for the boys?

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Re: Why Husbands Have Become Scarce - Blueprint by Seyzcham91(m): 1:36pm On Dec 22, 2020
ah dey tell you grin

can't be said any better bro
jericco1:
The life expectancy of a man has become low and these days most men don't want to get married because they see women as a burden that brings more pain than joy to their lives.

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