Amanda4life:
Mine comes home anytime he likes, no respect for me at all.

Girl friends calls even when your coming back from church together.

The side chick call will just change my gudmood from church.
And will never apologize. Instead he sees as an opportunity to run out more, crawl late more


He doesn't want video call so u don't know his way about.

And dear not call to ask where are u? Its forbidden

Ihe told me I can never be rich


I never wanted divorce in my life.but I can't live all my life in sorrow and presence.

Sincerely sometimes, I feel like ending it

But my children will suffer.

I just want to live my dream. I think I will be happier.

God I need a helper not a sex mate


Someone who can constantly encourage me to live up to.my dreams. Because its almost dead

Sometimes, I just feel like asking. God to give me genuine happiness for 2year s and allow me to go home happily forever. That dying with a whole lots of trauma

Going thru a whole lot

zedegit:
The man doesn't provide for her. He's a loafer; always in one betting shop or the other but feels entitled to food.

He bares her from coming home after 7pm and often locks her out of the house.

Yet same nincompoop comes home anytime he wants. What should she do?

She's tired of his nonsense.

AfroKnight:
Bet shops? He can only get worse. And he will drag your auntie down with him.

There is something about broke people who still bet. They always have unreasonable expectations of good luck while doing the same things that yielded no results before.

Best thing is to leave him. Sorry to say.

But don’t suggest this to your auntie. She won’t listen and she may mistakenly tell her husband. Never advise married people against their spouses. Same goes for people in love. Dem no dey hear word.

oxygen47:
May God strengthen you my dear
You need to forge your life sometimes by yourself
If you have a higher educational qualification,
dust it, get a fair job and upgrade yourself
You can be the best of Amanda you know
Look for intrinsic and extrinsic motivation on a daily basis and stay away from negative people
The Lord is your strength and your shield
Do not be afraid my love

fati2001:


DIVORCE

BECAUSE HE WILL NEVER CHANGE.

Kriss216:

He's now a loafer and nincompoop cos he's broke.

I doubt if you'll call him all that if he's someone like Ned Nwoko.


World people!

zedegit:
What should she do?

She's tired of his nonsense.

justosee:
What is your business? don't destroy what God has joined together.

NairalandDoctor:
hope you know the consequences of your trash islamicaly don't allow like and share get to your head that you started behaving like an unbeliever
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hibeebeeking:
You can't speak for your sister. Let her decide. When its sweet and everything juices, your sister did not complain,now that the man is broke,finding a way out by all means to feed his family, you are now shouting and seeking for advice. Better let your sister stay in her marriage for better for worse. What you have in mind is just to find fought in the man ,so your sis will move out. She will now be looking for man that is not available. Just be careful.

AfroKnight:


You’re in cyprus so?
You obviously have a gambling problem because otherwise, you wouldn’t have responded that way to me.

E say Cyprus. Lol.

One more thing, work on building your self esteem. If you think you mentioning that you are in cyprus is impressive then you have a long way to go.

Starhearts:


Mind u am not am gambler
My take home here in Cyprus can feed ur generation

Continue ur wacko-jacko in foolishness

Pray make God open ur eyes and way .

ylaa:
Never allow what you can't take.
He was like that before dem marry
A domineering man is a man with low self esteem. God forbid e no fit be me.
I respect men, I never argue with men nor talk back but I don't take shit from them either.
She can't go anywhere, the only solution is ENDURANCE. What cannot be CURED must be ENDURED.

ibedun:


Honestly, Africans don't have sense no wonder we dey live inside generational poverty and backwardness.

Amanda4life:
Mine comes home anytime he likes, no respect for me at all.

Girl friends calls even when your coming back from church together.

The side chick call will just change my gudmood from church.
And will never apologize. Instead he sees as an opportunity to run out more, crawl late more


He doesn't want video call so u don't know his way about.

And dear not call to ask where are u? Its forbidden

Ihe told me I can never be rich


I never wanted divorce in my life.but I can't live all my life in sorrow and presence.

Sincerely sometimes, I feel like ending it

But my children will suffer.

I just want to live my dream. I think I will be happier.

God I need a helper not a sex mate


Someone who can constantly encourage me to live up to.my dreams. Because its almost dead

Sometimes, I just feel like asking. God to give me genuine happiness for 2year s and allow me to go home happily forever. That dying with a whole lots of trauma

Going thru a whole lot

ScamHunter:


You must be serving Satan actively. Repent and run to Jesus.

Nusaibart:
And that is why nigerian men are useless broke and wicked

ibedun:
The man is a million times better than Her Hello, just that stupid black people of Nigeria don't know it.

Nwoko is spending public money and living his lavish lifestyle on conversion of public funds.

Before you argue provide us his verifiable source of income, list of functioning businesses and his tax liabilities.

Nonsense!!!!

Amanda4life:


Yes I do.
He kicked against it. And I listend.

Its almost late for such, cause I have seen need to be around my children, long hour Job will take me away from them.

But I will try

9jaRealist:


Not at all an admirer of Ned Nwoko...

And can’t claim to know whose money Ned Nwoko is spending (unlike you), so I cannot hold brief for him...
But suffice it to note that he was a successful lawyer in the UK (where he started as Crown Counsel) before returning.

Meanwhile, it’s not like he was a Governor or Minister, but merely a House member fir 4 years...
Without holding brief for him, a mere member of the House of Reps is not a position that one could embezzle billions.

PS: If we precipitously proclaim every public officeholder a thief...
Then we shouldn’t wonder nor complain why enlightened and capable people avoid public office in NIGERIA.
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slawormiir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright..... always in one betting shop...this is to say he is a real niggarrr
First of all gambling is good....
For every day we wake we are faced with more than a hundred ways to become a millionaire of which gambling is among
A big shout out to all my fellow gamblers, risk takers, high rollers, punters and stakers
Your aunt husband should not quit. Because quitters don't win and winners don't quit

secondly... stop calling him a nincompoop because he is a broke asss niggarrr for now...
Let me tell you a secret son..... being broke is good but staying broke for too long is the bad thing
I can bet my balls he is not going to stay broke for too long.... because brokenness is not of the lord
2 seconds every where go bust....na there area go take scatter ...he go first buy your aunty lexus RX 350...your aunty go begin dey give am different style for za oza room..

Amanda4life:
Mine comes home anytime he likes, no respect for me at all.

Girl friends calls even when your coming back from church together.

The side chick call will just change my gudmood from church.
And will never apologize. Instead he sees as an opportunity to run out more, crawl late more


He doesn't want video call so u don't know his way about.

And dear not call to ask where are u? Its forbidden

Ihe told me I can never be rich


I never wanted divorce in my life.but I can't live all my life in sorrow and presence.

Sincerely sometimes, I feel like ending it

But my children will suffer.

I just want to live my dream. I think I will be happier.

God I need a helper not a sex mate


Someone who can constantly encourage me to live up to.my dreams. Because its almost dead

Sometimes, I just feel like asking. God to give me genuine happiness for 2year s and allow me to go home happily forever. That dying with a whole lots of trauma

Going thru a whole lot

Amanda4life:
Yes I do.

He kicked against it. And I listend.

Its almost late for such, cause I have seen need to be around my children, long hour Job will take me away from them.

But I will try

ibedun:
DON'T make me laugh!!!!!

Successful lawyer in the UK? Do you mean United Kingdom abi somewhere else?

Infact now I am laughing at your ignorance. Queen counsel ko, King counsel ni!!!

ibedun:
The man is a million times better than Ned Nwoko, just that stupid black people of Nigeria don't know it.

Nwoko is spending public money and living his lavish lifestyle on conversion of public funds.

Before you argue provide us his verifiable source of income, list of functioning businesses and his tax liabilities.

Nonsense!!!!

Think9ja:
So why is this on nairaland front page?
She follows him to know he is at the betting shop yet calls him monitoring devil.... Why will your aunty come back late ? Why are you staying in someone's house? Don't you have parents or siblings or a job?


So let me guess...

He just saw your aunty and told her he wants to marry her and she agreed right? They didn't spend some months together to know one or two things about eachother? Like, wtf is this?


There's nothing I hate like seeing marriage lamentations on front page.

When the going is/was good, we don't hear or read testimonies. When it's bad, you wail.

And what are you doing in your aunty's house?
Or she just picks up the phone and start running her mouth abi?
How old are you?

I fuvking hate this
I so hate it.

Tell that your hanty to kill the man so that she can rest. Shey na wetin you want hear? Nonsense

You guys should stop sending nonsense threads like this to front page please.

Nairaland don cast I swear.

Before you'll see one meaningful thread on front page, you'll see about fifteen useless threads. Nairaland mods will just dump rubbish on front page simply because the op is their friend or for traffic. What a useless reason!

The other day I saw a thread on front page where one twenty years old boy was complaining that they don't respect him cos of his stature. I was like, is this thread not too useless to be on front page?
You can't visit nairaland in a day and not see rubbish on front page.

You try to stop visiting the analog site and you just somehow find yourself still coming back.
I tire for this site abeg.

Nonsense!

9jaRealist:


And just btw, the highlighted line says a lot about you - and it’s a truly sad self-commentary...
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ibedun:


Wetin dey Cyprus!!!! Nonsense!

Starhearts:


Better than ur Sithole country
Pray make God open ur way as well..

Let me enlight u about Cyprus pound.

On 1 January 2008, the euro replaced the Cyprus pound as the Republic's monetary unit. In accordance with the Adoption of the Euro Law (Law 33(I)/2007.

Therefore one pound is equal to #460.00 naira.
So calculate my week take home which is 2830 euro