Great Nairalanders, many has happened, many topics have been posted, people lives has been changed as a result of our contributions to posts, but here is a serious issue and yet we smile at it and believes all is well:

Today, ladies easily get to monopause, u can imagine a lady at 39 and say 40 already in her monopause, you begin to ask yourself how? no wonder many rush into unplanned marriages.

but then, do we fault this Young girls? when we the guys, all we do is to sleep with them, have fun with them and eventually go for an innocent girl?

my sweet sisters and friends alike, what do we do, most sincerely, how does a girl know of a truth that the relationship she is into is for real?

must we Court for years before marriage? i feel courtship, within six months and at most a year is enough to get the knots tied.

Hey, friends, stop destroying your bodies with elicit sex all because we feel the guy will marry us by such compensation with sex, as a matter of
truth, a guy sees more prospect in a lady who respects her body. IT TAKES GOD TO UNDERSTAND HUMANS!!!

Courtship period is a period designed to know and get known by your partner. But even eternity is not enough to study a guy, as guys can give you their eyes if you ask for it when their hands have not touched what they want and they can pretend! So needless to date them for 10 years. May the good Lord just save us from the bad ones.

It is every parent's responsibility to teach their child/children the importance of self-preservation.
A woman is born with all her eggs and cannot regenerate more viable cells. A man on the other hand can produce as many sperm cells as possible even at 100 years old.

Young girls are becoming more educated in areas of fertility and child-bearing.

It is my wish that ALL parents will take both their sons and daughters to a birthing center or an abortion center to see what a mangled fetus looks like. I believe they would act more responsible in handling areas of sexuality.

Education is the key!

must we Court for years before marriage? i feel courtship, within six months and at most a year is enough to get the knots tied.

Courtship in modern language means 'sex'!
100% of married couples DO NOT have virgins at the wedding altars.

Hey, friends, stop destroying your bodies with elicit sex all because we feel the guy will marry us by such compensation with sex, as a matte
truth, a guy sees more prospect in a lady who respects her body. IT TAKES GOD TO UNDERSTAND HUMANS!!!

You are preaching to the choiristers!

Then who are all these men marrying 'ashawos' all over the world, while all the "Born-Again" sistahs are left single and freeee around the world keeping night vigils for husbands huh?

Wharrrabout all those virgins that some men have kicked out or the houses in favor of marrying "ashawos" huh?

I read recently that a study showed that girls are maturing earlier and earlier, with 1 in 5 AA girls reaching puberty by age 7. Can you imagine the implications? By 18 years old these women will be biologically feel ready to settle down, maybe menopause will come by 28. 

It takes longer time for men to get ready.

Men must meet those high standards women demand from them now.

So, because of biology, women are 'ready' earlier and earlier, and because of the financial crisis men are 'ready' later and later.

Blazay:

It is every parent's responsibility to teach their child/children the importance of self-preservation.
A woman is born with all her eggs and cannot regenerate more viable cells. A man on the other hand can produce as many sperm cells as possible even at 100 years old.

Young girls are becoming more educated in areas of fertility and child-bearing.

It is my wish that ALL parents will take both their sons and daughters to a birthing center or an abortion center to see what a mangled fetus looks like. I believe they would act more responsible in handling areas of sexuality.

Education is the key!


Courtship in modern language means 'sex'!
100% of married couples DO NOT have virgins at the wedding altars.


You are preaching to the choiristers!

Then who are all these men marrying 'ashawos' all over the world, while all the "Born-Again" sistahs are left single and freeee around the world keeping night vigils for husbands huh?

Wharrrabout all those virgins that some men have kicked out or the houses in favor of marrying "ashawos" huh?

the girls demand is high, they do nt want to persevere anymore, all they want nw is wat d guy has, so they ve 2 live up d consequences of their collective ideas,

skeed19:

Great Nairalanders, many has happened, many topics have been posted, people lives has been changed as a result of our contributions to posts, but here is a serious issue and yet we smile at it and believes all is well:

Today, ladies easily get to monopause, u can imagine a lady at 39 and say 40 already in her monopause, you begin to ask yourself how? no wonder many rush into unplanned marriages.

but then, do we fault this Young girls? when[b] we the guys, all we do is to sleep with them, have fun with them[/b] and eventually go for an innocent girl?

my sweet sisters and friends alike, what do we do, most sincerely, how does a girl know of a truth that the relationship she is into is for real?

must we Court for years before marriage? i feel courtship, within six months and at most a year is enough to get the knots tied.

Hey, friends, stop destroying your bodies with elicit sex all because we feel the guy will marry us by such compensation with sex, as a matter of
truth, a guy sees more prospect in a lady who respects her body. IT TAKES GOD TO UNDERSTAND HUMANS!!!

I beg to disagree.most Naija girls do not go into relationship with the expectation of courtship or marriage,their mindset is always about what they will gain from the guy.so how do you expect a guy to get serious with a lady that wants nothing but money ?
have you ever dated a naija lady that wont ask you for common recharge card ? Ask me what recharge card has to do with love,courtship or marriage !

the world is misterious

Sex unfortunately instead of compensating guys it's taken for the opposite meaning

79% of guys will consider for marriage a lady they have never tasted ,so its rather a great missaplication for any lady going to bed with a guy to sustain courtship


Courtship should be short and not sex demanding-especially for those who have started by sex compensation should get marry on time otherwise-i pity you MADAM FIANCY/FANCY.

a salam.

i never had intetion of replying this but i have to ask you all to read this is from a fellow NL.

Dear Allan,

You are the third person and last person I am sending this message to, reason being that you played a godfather role on my wedding. The other persons are my mother and my mother-in-law.

Both women have given me different opinions which I think are biased based on how this case affects them (my mother on my side and my mother-in-law on my wife’s side)

You are the only neutral person who can give me an objective stance as I struggle to take what would probably be the most critical decision of my life to date.

I am married for 2 years now and I never had any reason to suspect my wife until when I went for an official assignment in Port Harcourt 3 weeks ago. In all, we were 37 people from different branches of my company, lodged in a hotel for 6 days.

There were 7 married women amongst us 3 of which must have each slept with at least 3 of my colleagues. These women looked so innocent and I couldn’t help think my innocent wife might be up to something similar whenever she goes on assignments. It was an evil thought but something that had to cross my mind under the circumstances.

I purchased a phone spy and had it installed on my wife’s phone. What I learnt over the past 4 days has made me sick of this world! My tears are staining the computer as I type this email to you. My wife is having an affair with at least 3 different people.

I didn’t need to confront her when I sent her packing while I clear my head. She thinks I am only suspecting her and don’t have any proof, but I am not sure I should disclose how I got the secret text messages and phone calls I was able to record through the phone spy software.

Please sir, don’t ask me if I am sure of what I am saying, like everyone else has been asking me. When a wife starts telling some rich fools on the phone how sweet his d, k is and how she longs for it, and how its sweeter than that of the clown she has at home and all that…bros, I am SURE!

She has denied it so far, even though she is with her mother now. The story they have come up with is that I want to take another wife so I want to use this as an excuse to chase her out for the new woman.

I have a total of 29 text messages which are very clearly incriminating and cannot be denied, as well as a recording of about 14 calls which will make any man commit murder.

It is against the law to tap into someone’s phones so how do I use this evidence to build my case. I have never been unfaithful to my wife since we got married. We are both active members of our church. We have a 9 month old son whom she has been trying too hard to wean because one of her boyfriends (man friends) complains of the milk that comes out of her bosom when he is sucking it! Can you imagine sir?

I know the boy must now be taken for a DNA test! Certainly!

I am confused bros, really confused. I make love to my wife 3 times a night in at least 4 or 5 days per week. She even complains that I want to kill her with sex! I give her N100k every month in addition to the N80k she earns at work, so we don’t lack anything. The other car you shipped to me last year, I gave to her for our second year anniversary together! What else does this naughty woman want?

What is the next step now? Please help me!

---End

Do you think at the end you will wish to marry and trust your partner.

like my bro say who be the thief and who be the catcher ?

so it better to live just as the world require but remembe r1 thing Heaven and Hell is real !

Woman wahala again?

why guys like keeping long relationship now is because there are wolf in sheep clothen parading a innocent girls. many are testing and will make sure your pregnant before he will go ahead to meet the ladies parents and do others things.

A lot is happening in marriage its only God that will help us.
As for my advice, courtship or relationship no matter how long or short it will be is good as far as they don't allow SIN to envelope them.

I can breathe the FRESH AIR NOW.

Ayoobscom:

Sex unfortunately instead of compensating guys it's taken for the opposite meaning

79% of guys will consider for marriage a lady they have never tasted ,so its rather a great missaplication for any lady going to bed with a guy to sustain courtship



Courtship should be short and not sex demanding-especially for those who have started by sex compensation should get marry on time otherwise-i pity you MADAM FIANCY/FANCY.

a salam.

I have to agree with you on this.most of them think the number of abortion they have for a guy actually qualify them as a future wife.sillly mistake !

what's this all about? can someone please summarize??

Whats this all about.

make boys shine congo jor

continue to shine oh, one day leprosy go bend am

armyofone:

continue to shine oh, one day leprosy go bend am

You mean parkingson disease wey the guy go dey shake like Agama head.

that too but this wey lepros catch, it no fit reach where im dey go.so ride on and keep shinning that kongo @ dk

clem2love:

i never had intetion of replying this but i have to ask you all to read this is from a fellow NL.

Dear Allan,

You are the third person and last person I am sending this message to, reason being that you played a godfather role on my wedding. The other persons are my mother and my mother-in-law.

Both women have given me different opinions which I think are biased based on how this case affects them (my mother on my side and my mother-in-law on my wife’s side)

You are the only neutral person who can give me an objective stance as I struggle to take what would probably be the most critical decision of my life to date.

I am married for 2 years now and I never had any reason to suspect my wife until when I went for an official assignment in Port Harcourt 3 weeks ago. In all, we were 37 people from different branches of my company, lodged in a hotel for 6 days.

There were 7 married women amongst us 3 of which must have each slept with at least 3 of my colleagues. These women looked so innocent and I couldn’t help think my innocent wife might be up to something similar whenever she goes on assignments. It was an evil thought but something that had to cross my mind under the circumstances.

I purchased a phone spy and had it installed on my wife’s phone. What I learnt over the past 4 days has made me sick of this world! My tears are staining the computer as I type this email to you. My wife is having an affair with at least 3 different people.

I didn’t need to confront her when I sent her packing while I clear my head. She thinks I am only suspecting her and don’t have any proof, but I am not sure I should disclose how I got the secret text messages and phone calls I was able to record through the phone spy software.

Please sir, don’t ask me if I am sure of what I am saying, like everyone else has been asking me. When a wife starts telling some rich fools on the phone how sweet his d, k is and how she longs for it, and how its sweeter than that of the clown she has at home and all that…bros, I am SURE!

She has denied it so far, even though she is with her mother now. The story they have come up with is that I want to take another wife so I want to use this as an excuse to chase her out for the new woman.

I have a total of 29 text messages which are very clearly incriminating and cannot be denied, as well as a recording of about 14 calls which will make any man commit murder.

It is against the law to tap into someone’s phones so how do I use this evidence to build my case. I have never been unfaithful to my wife since we got married. We are both active members of our church. We have a 9 month old son whom she has been trying too hard to wean because one of her boyfriends (man friends) complains of the milk that comes out of her bosom when he is sucking it! Can you imagine sir?

I know the boy must now be taken for a DNA test! Certainly!

I am confused bros, really confused. I make love to my wife 3 times a night in at least 4 or 5 days per week. She even complains that I want to kill her with sex! I give her N100k every month in addition to the N80k she earns at work, so we don’t lack anything. The other car you shipped to me last year, I gave to her for our second year anniversary together! What else does this naughty woman want?

What is the next step now? Please help me!

---End

Do you think at the end you will wish to marry and trust your partner.

like my bro say who be the thief and who be the catcher ?

so it better to live just as the world require but remembe r1 thing Heaven and Hell is real !

Oh boy! Ronald and Jacko way kena!

armyofone:

that too but this wey lepros catch, it no fit reach where im dey go.so ride on and keep shinning that kongo @ dk

Na only your Kongo I wan dey shine on a daily basis

okenwa:

the world is misterious

. . .This topic and OP,is over mysterious.

armyofone:

continue to shine oh, one day leprosy go bend am

I dey laff o.

^^ You still dey here dey laff?

^Where I for dey?You seen Randy lately? 
Da killer.

conclusion pls?

I really don't know how this topic made the homepage & as if that is not enough it appears verbatim the way the op headlined it.What does the topic mean,does it make any sense.'Girls Age & Marriageable Age:Is this true Courtship'   Nonsense & ingredient  

@ Poster, which one be elicit sex?

hahahahah!I just tire

ifyalways:

^Where I for dey?You seen Randy lately?
Da killer.

Who is that? Odunnu or Ujujoan?

I think the next step every body must take is to have an optimistic mind. Honestly, there is nothing anybody can do about cheating. If you don't cheat your partner then your partner would cheat you but if none of you cheats then God blessed you guys. As for marriage proposal, whether long or short courtship, what will be will be; with or without sex what will be will be. I cannot afford to have a girl friend who will deny me sex when I am sure she is not a virgin; even if she is, I will not risk to have another guy dis virgin her in my courtship. She better dance to my tone or we shall see another day, but how will I marry a girl I don't know. Therefore, she don't even have any chance of getting married to me. So, what is our debate?

clem2love:

i never had intetion of replying this but i have to ask you all to read this is from a fellow NL.

Dear Allan,

You are the third person and last person I am sending this message to, reason being that you played a godfather role on my wedding. The other persons are my mother and my mother-in-law.

Both women have given me different opinions which I think are biased based on how this case affects them (my mother on my side and my mother-in-law on my wife’s side)

You are the only neutral person who can give me an objective stance as I struggle to take what would probably be the most critical decision of my life to date.

I am married for 2 years now and I never had any reason to suspect my wife until when I went for an official assignment in Port Harcourt 3 weeks ago. In all, we were 37 people from different branches of my company, lodged in a hotel for 6 days.

There were 7 married women amongst us 3 of which must have each slept with at least 3 of my colleagues. These women looked so innocent and I couldn’t help think my innocent wife might be up to something similar whenever she goes on assignments. It was an evil thought but something that had to cross my mind under the circumstances.

I purchased a phone spy and had it installed on my wife’s phone. What I learnt over the past 4 days has made me sick of this world! My tears are staining the computer as I type this email to you. My wife is having an affair with at least 3 different people.

I didn’t need to confront her when I sent her packing while I clear my head. She thinks I am only suspecting her and don’t have any proof, but I am not sure I should disclose how I got the secret text messages and phone calls I was able to record through the phone spy software.

Please sir, don’t ask me if I am sure of what I am saying, like everyone else has been asking me. When a wife starts telling some rich fools on the phone how sweet his d, k is and how she longs for it, and how its sweeter than that of the clown she has at home and all that…bros, I am SURE!

She has denied it so far, even though she is with her mother now. The story they have come up with is that I want to take another wife so I want to use this as an excuse to chase her out for the new woman.

I have a total of 29 text messages which are very clearly incriminating and cannot be denied, as well as a recording of about 14 calls which will make any man commit murder.

It is against the law to tap into someone’s phones so how do I use this evidence to build my case. I have never been unfaithful to my wife since we got married. We are both active members of our church. We have a 9 month old son whom she has been trying too hard to wean because one of her boyfriends (man friends) complains of the milk that comes out of her bosom when he is sucking it! Can you imagine sir?

I know the boy must now be taken for a DNA test! Certainly!

I am confused bros, really confused. I make love to my wife 3 times a night in at least 4 or 5 days per week. She even complains that I want to kill her with sex! I give her N100k every month in addition to the N80k she earns at work, so we don’t lack anything. The other car you shipped to me last year, I gave to her for our second year anniversary together! What else does this naughty woman want?

What is the next step now? Please help me!

---End

Do you think at the end you will wish to marry and trust your partner.

like my bro say who be the thief and who be the catcher ?

so it better to live just as the world require but remembe r1 thing Heaven and Hell is real !

clam2love

c
clam2love please i need the NL I.D of the bros the originaly wrote this note. thaks