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| Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by yeye4live(m): 3:43pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
why is it that a man never worries about his future until he gets a wife and a woman worries more about their future until dey get a husband |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by r231(m): 4:09pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
because two heads are better dan one  |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by MrsChima(f): 4:11pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
Mature men usually think ahead before venturing in marriage. They will complete school first and then search for a job to support a family before seeking a wife. |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by yeye4live(m): 4:13pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
^^^^^ well i tink women re just like a pest that s supose to suck men wen dey get maried,an dats why not all men want to get married at a sane age |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by MrsChima(f): 4:14pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
r231 did it out of order. He went clubbing. He went to school. He dated Granny for 40 years. He got a job. He went into the military, He became a baby daddy. He retired from the military. He got married. |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by yeye4live(m): 4:22pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
^^^^ too bad |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by dealordea(m): 4:40pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
:-x :-x :-x |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by MMM2(m): 4:50pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
becos marriage is like a bondage  it prevent u from cheating unless u re a sharp guy  |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by Beync(f): 5:30pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
w do women never worry about making babies untill they get maried? |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by CuteTj(m): 9:54pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
A man should become serious about his future when he is married because its his responsibility to provide for his wife and children or you want your wife to take over as husband while you become the wife?? |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by kodewrita(m): 8:13am On Sep 06, 2011 |
Men  |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by Cuddlemii: 9:39am On Sep 06, 2011 |
yeye4live: Call it conflict of interest. A matured & responsible man should be ready for whatever punches life throws at him because he has experience & knowledge so thsse kinds have been shaping their future from the inception & don't worry about the future because of a wife or whatever but live life a day at a time to accomplish their goals. Mind you maturity has nothing to do with age but the mind or psychology. You must prepare yourself for the hard knock life. An immature or unfocused man worry about his future when he gets a wife because he had no goals, he was not molded for responsibilities & he was not prepared or tuned his heart for marriage. He still wants more from life outside marriage but he is not hard working. Live life on the fast lane. Women whether matured or unfocused all have a mindset that having a husband is the final bus-stop or the only future they need. So they use all manner of vices & tactics to get one because they feel irrelevant to the society without a man or they feel lesser than their peers. Most women go into it for the fame and respect that comes with it. That is why women suffer more in it because they went in for the wrong reasons or ended up marrying a man who didn't worry about his future before marriage .i.e. men that are not stable & consistent. The best combo are like minds, people who worried about their future before marriage & continued shaping their future after the marriage so that they won't be a liability, they can support each other, take up responsibilities on their own and become a team. They are result oriented & hardworking. 1 Like |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by xynerise: 9:46am On Sep 06, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima:u just read my thought. |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by claremont(m): 11:47am On Sep 06, 2011 |
A man who waits until he gets a wife before he starts "worrying" about his future, is the most miserable of all men. |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by Nayah(f): 11:50am On Sep 06, 2011 |
Hi poster, Men and women don't express themselves in the same way Men worried about their future don't be mistaken the difference it's the pride: fragility and worry are not really seen as "manhood" but their human like us women, and they have the same problem but they handle it differently |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by BMZK: 11:53am On Sep 06, 2011 |
When you get married you will likely one day become a" legitimate parent", then you will begin to appreciate what your parents have gone through to be where you are. I know parents deserve respect in all kingdoms but you will give them more when you become one. There will be a time for every sensible parent to ask the following question:"How will tomorrow will look like for this innocent soul if i happen to be no more today?" No amount of money left behind will shape your children in your absence. THEN BEGING THE WORRIES ABOUT FUTURE. Some of us will not understand because they are still, He who wears the shoe knows where it pinches. |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by kiara11: 11:57am On Sep 06, 2011 |
A miserable single man or woman makes a miserable marriage partner. |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by brainpulse: 11:58am On Sep 06, 2011 |
The reason why a man worries more when he's married is that, With him alone he knows the kind of future he wants and where he's going, but with his wife he's not too sure, because often times, he needs to convince and interpret to his Wife where he is going. A woman some times never figures or can't interpret the picture of what the man is painting about his future and she tends to worry more because she is not sure where the man is taking her to. ILLUSTRATION 1. Before the man can interpret his idea of his future to his wife- it takes the first 5-6 years (amidst quarrel and intense disagreement). 2. Before the woman can interpret the man's idea and think about it logically and accept (8-10 years, and sometimes her concentration on the children may not allow her to think about it again) 3. Before they can both come together, accept, and profer a solution.-Each are even bored about chasing any future and dreams together. Each one chasing individual dreams and aspirations.-back to square1 ). 4. After both getting the clue and the solution, they are both weak and old to pursue any future. Therefore they worry till they die. BEST SOLUTION--DON'T WORRY! BE HAPPY NOW |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by beethoven: 11:58am On Sep 06, 2011 |
women in turn stop worrying about the future once they are married. |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by jaybee3(m): 11:59am On Sep 06, 2011 |
Simply because if you are a singleton then you only have to worry about own responsibility whereas once you take on the husband title and in-turn accept your other half as your additional responsibility then it's only natural to be aware of the need to tighten one's belt |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by splitnaija(m): 12:02pm On Sep 06, 2011 |
kiara11:I totally agree here |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by brainpulse: 12:13pm On Sep 06, 2011 |
The first few years, they fight like Cat and Dogs even Born Agaiin christians o, Pastors, evangelists etc I am very serious. They both worry because they found it hard to undertand each other's idea or concept of the future being painted. Even if they do not fight, certainly one party is confused and decided to result to fate ( well maybe my destiny and worries 4life). The other party begins auto cruise and complains about the other not supporting. Now the question- How do you support what you cant interprete and where do you begin from? |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by moonraker(m): 12:19pm On Sep 06, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima: Holy shit, The shit actually does makes sense!!!! |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by brainpulse: 12:32pm On Sep 06, 2011 |
They tend to ease out worries most times when they meet to share love, but when they remember that they have a future. they are back to square 1. It is always better to get marry to someone you both share ideas, thoughts, believe etc, though not easy to get but at least somethings you can both share ( please not emotion at all) that can take you to each others future. And also alot of people get married for a lot of false reasons and regret early and worry for life. 1. Believe that the man / woman is rich and will support and we will never be poor again. 2. Believe that he/ she has all the connections needed for success. 3. Believe that our children will be beautiful and handsome. 4. Believe that He/ she will be very very good in Bedmatics. 5. Believe i just Like him/her. 6. Believe that He/She speaks very nice, looks very nice carries an aura, awe that draws people 7. ETC. But all these BELIEVES are Traps that MAY set everlasting WORRIES in motion. Because- 1. The rich man/ woman may be a stubborn, nagging, dogmatic and violent person. 2. The He/ she that has all the connection may forcefully want you to chase his/her dreams- alot of worry. 3. Beautiful & handsome may have the worst habits- that can make suicide a good exercise. 4. May not be able to control His/ Herself and might service other people with his/ her gifts. 5. You might find out that he/ her might me the worst person to leave with. 6. And scatters destiny. 7.Find out for yourself. |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by Kx: 1:15pm On Sep 06, 2011 |
yeye4live:IMO, this is not true. How did u arrive at this and went ahead to generalize? |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by pendo89(f): 1:21pm On Sep 06, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima: kiara11: claremont: And so is a woman who thinks that a man is the answer to all of her problems. |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by Nayah(f): 1:22pm On Sep 06, 2011 |
^^^seconded |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by claremont(m): 1:38pm On Sep 06, 2011 |
pendo89:Everyone knows that most women don't consider themselves complete in life until they have a man they can call their own; for such women, a man "answereth" all their problems. We can confidently say that the ultimate goal of most ladies in life is to find a man! |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by BOMANY: 1:40pm On Sep 06, 2011 |
Because after marriage, his future becomes endanger not before |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by Nayah(f): 1:45pm On Sep 06, 2011 |
Claremont the same for guys, as I said the only difference is the expression, men do not express themselves so easily than a woman does |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by BOMANY: 1:46pm On Sep 06, 2011 |
kiara11: Yes indeed, well say |
| Re: Why Is It That A Man Never Worries About His Future Until He Gets A Wife by claremont(m): 1:50pm On Sep 06, 2011 |
Nayah:Our society can accept a man who chooses to remain single, but a single lady is a taboo in most African cultures! |
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