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Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Alexa77(m): 9:10am On Apr 24, 2021
Good day everyone,please pardon my writing Errors,I had a Cousin who came up to me yesterday and open up to me about his life.
This guy has been a loverboy right from time,suddenly he changed.I thought it was a personal decision.but dude said,he got addicted to porn and masturbation.Stopped having feelings for any Lady at all.The one that broke the camel's back was that;He met with his ex yesterday,they decided to spend sometimes together,He couldn't believe his manhood didn't react to the lady's body.he had to watch porn from his phone to make it stand and as soon as he dropped his phone,his manhood went flat again.he said he came within seconds.He confided in me to help him.Please nairalanders,any advice.his love life is doomed.the lady had to leave disappointedly.he deleted all the porn on his phone.but he said he can't sleep without mast**bating.please advices are welcome please.mod pls help push to frontpage please.

Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Grabezz: 9:13am On Apr 24, 2021
Prayer and fasting + constant study of God's words is a quick way, He has to do it himself.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Papertrails(m): 9:13am On Apr 24, 2021
Get him a gf
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Ezemarcel(m): 9:14am On Apr 24, 2021
Just say it’s you..then we send you to rehab

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by yanabasee1(m): 9:55am On Apr 24, 2021
How do people seek for solution when they've already found the problem?


You discover the problem is masturbat!ng, the solution should be stopping the act, right?

He should rehabilitate himself from the act for a while and fight the addiction with all might.... Probably stay off smart phones to avoid temptation and then gradually observe the changes and then have a girlfriend that will meet his fetish sexual desires to give him in reality what he envision from those sites....

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by harmargedon: 10:37am On Apr 24, 2021
get him a girlfriend
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Samakus(m): 12:03pm On Apr 24, 2021
1/3 Pounds Road Aba, Abia State
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Lucasmuyiwa: 12:34pm On Apr 24, 2021
Same here bro, I'm a pro masturbator and I've been marinating for ten years I've tried to fight it but nothing positive happened. I believe I've downloaded half of xvideos but my own luck is just that I still have sexual urges to woman. My advice to him is to get a girl that can romance very well and I believe he himself will have some crazy ideas on romances from the porn he watches

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by heniford2: 1:11pm On Apr 24, 2021
Alexa77:
Good day everyone,please pardon my writing Errors,I had a Cousin who came up to me yesterday and open up to me about his life.
This guy has been a loverboy right from time,suddenly he changed.I thought it was a personal decision.but dude said,he got addicted to porn and masturbation.Stopped having feelings for any Lady at all.The one that broke the camel's back was that;He met with his ex yesterday,they decided to spend sometimes together,He couldn't believe his manhood didn't react to the lady's body.he had to watch porn from his phone to make it stand and as soon as he dropped his phone,his manhood went flat again.he said he came within seconds.He confided in me to help him.Please nairalanders,any advice.his love life is doomed.the lady had to leave disappointedly.he deleted all the porn on his phone.but he said he can't sleep without mast**bating.please advices are welcome please.mod pls help push to frontpage please.
first masturbating doesn't make your dick weak too your friend or brother is suffering from psychological head problem he need counseling, two he was not into her ex again that may be the reason for it

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by blazepascal(m): 1:27pm On Apr 24, 2021
he should stop masturbation for a while

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Kestolove(m): 1:32pm On Apr 24, 2021
let him smoke some weed, he will get erection

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by franklingud(m): 2:46pm On Apr 24, 2021
Grabezz:
Prayer and fasting + constant study of God's words is a quick way, He has to do it himself.
With all these added together, he needs to work on himself.

By talking to his spiritual being, and commanding to resist the urge.

Masturbation is demonic!

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Omotakins(m): 3:44pm On Apr 24, 2021
Lucasmuyiwa:
Same here bro, I'm a pro masturbator and I've been marinating for ten years I've tried to fight it but nothing positive happened. I believe I've downloaded half of xvideos but my own luck is just that I still have sexual urges to woman. My advice to him is to get a girl that can romance very well and I believe he himself will have some crazy ideas on romances from the porn he watches
you can't deal with an immorality by substituting it with another immorality of a different colour. Jesus only is the way. Solution starts with giving his life to Christ, including you. It is a battle he can have victory over with Jesus and not by application of human wisdom.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by DropsMic(m): 4:02pm On Apr 24, 2021
We all know you are one suffering from the effect of chronic masturbation and not your cousin.. Chronic masturbators don't go around telling people about their problems.


To solve your problem, read this book

YOUR BRAIN ON PORN (internet PORNØGRAPHY and the emerging science of Addiction) BY GARI WILSON
make the book above your second bible.



Also you should read the articles below.. if they don't scare you into quitting porn.. Nothing else will


Overindulgence: How Watching Porn Is Actively Ruining Your Life


5 Major Ways Porn Addiction Affects Your Brain

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by DropsMic(m): 4:03pm On Apr 24, 2021
Grabezz:
Prayer and fasting + constant study of God's words is a quick way, He has to do it himself.

Typical black man

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by smartty68(m): 7:18pm On Apr 24, 2021
This your friend's masturbation is entirely on another level. He can even masturbation with a palm as rough as sandpaper.

He has to be psychologically ready to quit masturbation else no amount of counseling would do.

Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by bluefilm: 7:52pm On Apr 24, 2021
Alexa77:
Good day everyone,please pardon my writing Errors,I had a Cousin who came up to me yesterday and open up to me about his life.
This guy has been a loverboy right from time,suddenly he changed.I thought it was a personal decision.but dude said,he got addicted to porn and masturbation.Stopped having feelings for any Lady at all.The one that broke the camel's back was that;He met with his ex yesterday,they decided to spend sometimes together,He couldn't believe his manhood didn't react to the lady's body.he had to watch porn from his phone to make it stand and as soon as he dropped his phone,his manhood went flat again.he said he came within seconds.He confided in me to help him.Please nairalanders,any advice.his love life is doomed.the lady had to leave disappointedly.he deleted all the porn on his phone.but he said he can't sleep without mast**bating.please advices are welcome please.mod pls help push to frontpage please.

Stop mentioning your innocent cousin.

Everyone reading this knows that you are the one.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by AngelicDamsel(f): 10:21pm On Apr 24, 2021
I missed a program hosted by late Kolawole Olawuyi on Galaxy tv named "Nkan be"; meaning "things are happening" their slogan was "strange but true". This story would have made it to the show.




Too much of anything is bad.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by farous(m): 11:31pm On Apr 24, 2021
It is you and not your friend. I don't know why you are covering up and using your friend.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Richy4(m): 12:58am On Apr 25, 2021
The guy said that it was his cousin... Can't some of you just accept what he said and move on if you have nothing to say to him? what if it was truly his cousin?...

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by EbenezerTriumph: 1:05am On Apr 25, 2021
farous:
It is you and not your friend. I don't know why you are covering up and using your friend.
hahahaha grin
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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Drdreyy: 5:38am On Apr 25, 2021
For those condemning masturbation, I think it is a lesser evil when compared with keeping girlfriend(s) or patronising prostitutes.

HIV and other STI are all over the place. Apart from infections, girlfriends/prostitutes are also physically and financially draining. Also men that masturbate can never nurse the idea of rape.

From the religious point of view, keeping girlfriend(s) is also a sin until both of you are legally married.

In conclusion, if we juxtapose the pros and cons of masturbation we can all see it is a lesser evil, but people tend to abuse it and that is why they come here often complaining about loss of erectión and other issues. Moderation is very important in whatever we do in this life.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Kent2020: 6:25am On Apr 25, 2021
Grabezz:
Prayer and fasting + constant study of God's words is a quick way, He has to do it himself.
Medical problem you're talking about prayer and fasting.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Alexa77(m): 8:53am On Apr 25, 2021
no need to say it's my cousin,if this is about me.I will come out and say it as it is.bt God so good.this is a faceless forum.not a hall meeting.so why will i lie on someone then.?just imagining
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Alexa77(m): 8:55am On Apr 25, 2021
thanks to those that made relevent comments,he has seen it already.thank you all.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Chummynoni(m): 10:24am On Apr 25, 2021
flee from all immoralities, and everything will fall back in place.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Nofap2021: 11:31am On Apr 25, 2021
Hahahahahaha NLders no go kee person

Op just own up, say na you smiley
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Nofap2021: 11:35am On Apr 25, 2021
DropsMic:
We all know you are one suffering from the effect of chronic masturbation and not your cousin.. Chronic masturbators don't go around telling people about their problems.


To solve your problem, read this book

YOUR BRAIN ON PORN (internet PORNØGRAPHY and the emerging science of Addiction) BY GARI WILSON
make the book above your second bible.



Also you should read the articles below.. if they don't scare you into quitting porn.. Nothing else will


Overindulgence: How Watching Porn Is Actively Ruining Your Life


5 Major Ways Porn Addiction Affects Your Brain


it has scarred me, no doubt.

Do you know the way forward, like activities books, foods, , lifestyle changes, antidepressants to regain the brain functions and other things.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by Cousin9999: 5:15pm On Apr 25, 2021
This is probably fake. But this is a real problem for some, and it's one of the reasons p*rnography (aka legal h*man trafficking) should be illegal.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Cousin,pls Help by frozen70(f): 6:31pm On Apr 25, 2021
Alexa77:
Good day everyone,please pardon my writing Errors,I had a Cousin who came up to me yesterday and open up to me about his life.
This guy has been a loverboy right from time,suddenly he changed.I thought it was a personal decision.but dude said,he got addicted to porn and masturbation.Stopped having feelings for any Lady at all.The one that broke the camel's back was that;He met with his ex yesterday,they decided to spend sometimes together,He couldn't believe his manhood didn't react to the lady's body.he had to watch porn from his phone to make it stand and as soon as he dropped his phone,his manhood went flat again.he said he came within seconds.He confided in me to help him.Please nairalanders,any advice.his love life is doomed.the lady had to leave disappointedly.he deleted all the porn on his phone.but he said he can't sleep without mast**bating.please advices are welcome please.mod pls help push to frontpage please.

He doesn't need to delete any porn site because he knows where to get them easily

Let him get a girl friend that will always be around him and he has to let her know what he is into and how he intends coming out of it

Her presence will help him and her patience with him will help him reduce and finally

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