Sijo01:

My step uncle (my dad step younger brother) have been married to his wife for close to twenty years with no issue (child) and they’ve being living happily together. The wife as far as some of us are concern is the bread winner of the family. The both family have advise them to get a divorce and try their luck somewhere else but the couple ignored this. The woman has even lost her friendship with some members of her family, but this never disturbed her as she believed God will answer her prayers one day.

The whole story changed about four years ago when my uncle impregnated another lady outside his matrimonial home, the wife was devastated but she never gave up. The lady gave birth to a baby girl. My step uncle immediate family were not only happy but all the love they have for their son’s wife died immediately forgetting what the woman has done for them all.

After sometime my step uncle impregnated the same lady again and she gave birth to a son. In other for the wife to still be seeing her husband as he now spend most of the time outside his home, the wife rented a bigger apartment and they all moved in (including the lady), she meets about 95% of the family needs.

To cut the whole story short, My step uncle and her so called lady that bore him two kids turn the innocent woman into a daily punching bag. Regardless of this, she was still with them in her house until recently (2weeks ago) she could not bear it any more; she packed her things and went to her father’s house.

Now the issue is that my step uncle wants her back, e bi like say hunger don visit him & he new wife and he is trying to use my dad, mom, & my siblings ‘of cause him no say me nor dey send am’ to achieve this because we were the closest to her.

I want to stop him from achieving this because i believe he's doing it for his selfish interest. SO PLEASE NAIRALANDERS YOUR VIEW & ADVICE WILL BE APPRECAITED. The woman is happy now and I believe she will get another man that will treat her nicely.

Sijo01:

My step uncle (my dad step younger brother) have been married to his wife for close to twenty years with no issue (child) and they’ve being living happily together. The wife as far as some of us are concern is the bread winner of the family. The both family have advise them to get a divorce and try their luck somewhere else but the couple ignored this. The woman has even lost her friendship with some members of her family, but this never disturbed her as she believed God will answer her prayers one day.

The whole story changed about four years ago when my uncle impregnated another lady outside his matrimonial home, the wife was devastated but she never gave up. The lady gave birth to a baby girl. My step uncle immediate family were not only happy but all the love they have for their son’s wife died immediately forgetting what the woman has done for them all.

After sometime my step uncle impregnated the same lady again and she gave birth to a son. In other for the wife to still be seeing her husband as he now spend most of the time outside his home, the wife rented a bigger apartment and they all moved in (including the lady), she meets about 95% of the family needs.

To cut the whole story short, My step uncle and her so called lady that bore him two kids turn the innocent woman into a daily punching bag. Regardless of this, she was still with them in her house until recently (2weeks ago) she could not bear it any more; she packed her things and went to her father’s house.

Now the issue is that my step uncle wants her back, e bi like say hunger don visit him & he new wife and he is trying to use my dad, mom, & my siblings ‘of cause him no say me nor dey send am’ to achieve this because we were the closest to her.

I want to stop him from achieving this because i believe he's doing it for his selfish interest. SO PLEASE NAIRALANDERS YOUR VIEW & ADVICE WILL BE APPRECAITED. The woman is happy now and I believe she will get another man that will treat her nicely. 

After sometime my step uncle impregnated the same lady again and she gave birth to a son. In other for the wife to still be seeing her husband as he now spend most of the time outside his home, the wife rented a bigger apartment and they all moved in (including the lady), she meets about 95% of the family needs.

To cut the whole story short, My step uncle and her so called lady that bore him two kids turn the innocent woman into a daily punching bag. Regardless of this, she was still with them in her house until recently (2weeks ago) she could not bear it any more; she packed her things and went to her father’s house.

Now the issue is that my step uncle wants her back, e bi like say hunger don visit him & he new wife and he is trying to use my dad, mom, & my siblings ‘of cause him no say me nor dey send am’ to achieve this because we were the closest to her.

I want to stop him from achieving this because i believe he's doing it for his selfish interest. SO PLEASE NAIRALANDERS YOUR VIEW & ADVICE WILL BE APPRECAITED. The woman is happy now and I believe[b] she will get another man that will treat her nicely. [/b]

Blazay:


Very good!


If you wanto marry a husband. . . never you marry a waka about o!
If you marry a waka about o. . . na so so trobu trobu. . .trrrobuuu!

Even when e drunk o. . . kpom-kpom-kpom. . . I-KPA-GHAAAA on ya face o!
Na so-so kpalava. . . kpom-kpom-kpom. . . .IKPAAAAAAA-GHAAAAAAAAAAAA ON YA FACE O!



Eeeeeeeeh? They always come back to eat their vomits of course. 
USERS!
If she like make she go back. . . that na her business. Once I don comot for man house. . . NOTHING go carry my leg go back dia. . . Lai lai!

 

Wetin she wan take another man do?
If she loves herself, she should concentrate on herself and her child and stop attracting bullies to her life while exposing herself to all kinds of diseases out there. If she is looking for someone to give her a "V" job, she should go and buy one of those cross-eyed Chi-wa-was. . . . cut off all it's teeth and take it with her to her bed with her every night for a gooooooooood licking! That is what all these lonely 'oyinbo' women do. . .with their cats and dogs without looking at any man for MANY years. They live longer without diseases and all these emotional turbulences. When one Chiwawa dies of 'jedi-jedi' from too much 'yeast' from her 'sweeeeet yogurt'. . . . . . she goes and purchases another one. No autopsy needed.

Shioooooooooooor!




Mwaaaaaaaaah!


God bless 'Logan' my dog!

Mu he he he he

ifyalways:

Na wao.

She condoned,accepted and funded a cheat,his mistress and children.

with luv anyfin can happen

Bawss1:

Step uncle?

Dad step younger brother?? Or do you mean your step dad's younger brother. Just asking.

ifyalways:

^True that.

People don't even know how to love themselves or know what love means so Yeah.

True love indeed.

Whatta gwan now?She went back to continue her life-maga job or she started loving herself and moving on already.
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well, not hard anyfin frm dem yet. d last i had was on sunday wen one of my sibling ask me to come back from church early dat dere will be a meeting inrespect of d mater. jst told her to inform d other's dat dey sud let d woman be. i did nt come back home till 7pm.

IyaBasira:


I seem to be missing something here.

So her husband cheated on her and she continued to fund his misdeeds? Even going to the extent of buying a house[size=8pt][/size][/b] for the three of them to live in, and then they were beating her up in HER OWN HOUSE?!

i never said she bought a house but rented a bigger apartment pls.



That's not even the best part. The best part is, she decided she had had enough and she LEFT her house for them. If she had that much money why didnt she hire agbero's to shoo them out into the street to teach them a lesson?

she's not the wahala type.

Damn! No wonder men treat some women so badly. [b]This lady does not have pride at ALL. I feel sorry for her but you don't leave your own house for an abusive husband and his second wife.

dat was uncalled for.

If her eyes have not opened by now, then she will remain blind forever. Sad truth.

Inked_Nerd:

@OP: My heart goes out to the this semi-step auntie of yours. Personally, I'm not the sort to forgive people for such behavior. I highly doubt that your uncle has changed. I know some may say my comment is coming across as mean, but I think you should discourage her from going back to him as much as you can. How can a woman suffer such indignity from her husband?!?!?! I don't care about wedding vows about being with one another for better or for worse, this man has disrespected his wife in a manner that is disheartening. He's a grown man and he knew what he was doing when decided to lay down with that woman and have not one but two kids with her!!! Besides, what woman wants to be with a man who's family has basically slapped her in the face by disregarding his atrocious behavior?!?! She needs stay away from this man and for good. What your uncle and his home wrecking mistress is doing is called abuse!!! Suppose there was no other woman involved in this situation and you heard word of him physically abusing her, would you not tell her to leave he relationship? Surely you wouldn't tell her to stay and "make it work". Beating and financially taking advantage of your wife is one thing but also allowing your mistress to beat her as well--that is a whole new low. He has officially become the scum of the Earth and should be treated as such. If you care at all about this aunt of yours, please don't let her go back. I know ultimately the decision is up to her but how much can one woman take? Can you imagine such embarrassment? His actions are the equivalent to him just spitting in her face. Had your aunt gone out and been impregnated by another man, would you uncle even look twice at your aunt? Would he move him, his wife, and the other man into another place just as his wife has done? i live this questions to the sharp tonge in here to answer.
Your uncle is a douchebag who doesn't deserve your aunt. He was man enough to have a child so he must be man enough to take care of those children on his own without the assistance of his wife. If she has any respect as a woman and as a human being she will leave that beast she calls a husband. .

God bless you for this nice piece.

Sijo01:

I would have really love to reply you all one by one but its kind of stressfull. a big thanks to you all for taking your time to read the long story & commenting, i really appreciate. for d once that posted positive advice i will try and make do of them, for those that was rude try to be compassionate.

Blazay:


Very good!


If you wanto marry a husband. . . never you marry a waka about o!
If you marry a waka about o. . . na so so trobu trobu. . .trrrobuuu!

Even when e drunk o. . . kpom-kpom-kpom. . . I-KPA-GHAAAA on ya face o!
Na so-so kpalava. . . kpom-kpom-kpom. . . .IKPAAAAAAA-GHAAAAAAAAAAAA ON YA FACE O!



Eeeeeeeeh? They always come back to eat their vomits of course.
USERS!
If she like make she go back. . . that na her business. Once I don comot for man house. . . NOTHING go carry my leg go back dia. . . Lai lai!



Wetin she wan take another man do?
If she loves herself, she should concentrate on herself and her child and stop attracting bullies to her life while exposing herself to all kinds of diseases out there. If she is looking for someone to give her a "V" job, she should go and buy one of those cross-eyed Chi-wa-was. . . . cut off all it's teeth and take it with her to her bed with her every night for a gooooooooood licking! That is what all these lonely 'oyinbo' women do. . .with their cats and dogs without looking at any man for MANY years. They live longer without diseases and all these emotional turbulences. When one Chiwawa dies of 'jedi-jedi' from too much 'yeast' from her 'sweeeeet yogurt'. . . . . . she goes and purchases another one. No autopsy needed.

Shioooooooooooor!




Mwaaaaaaaaah!


God bless 'Logan' my dog!

Mu he he he he