MrCuteAndLoaded:


Really? bloody feminist! Im sure you can come here and type rubbish but behind the scene dey bend down dey lick your mans lollypop and still get slapped for no licking it properly. You can go and ask your own man to wash your dishes now...idiot!

yassjib:
You are a fool for telling your husband to wash plate in your restaurant just because he soea not have a job.. Instead of you discussing it with him at home. I swear if I am your husband I will do more than that slap. That's how you women will gradually turn you husband to a ALIVE... Its very bad of you

Hardgun:
That's very bad telling your husband to wash plate

obimag:
if he travels to US he might end up washing dishes in the a restaurant. However, it is all about pride and lack of business IQ. Also a lot depends on your approach. There is absolutely nothing wrong for him to wash the dishes and even join you in transforming the business .

CalmElder:
It would have been better if you guys discussed about him helping out at the restaurant at home, intead of you taking him by surprise, in front of other people.
I once worked for a baker whose husband wasn't working, the kind of errands she used to send the man in front of everyone ehn, he will first look at people's eyes, in discomfort before shamefully carrying it out. The guy will become unnecessarily angry at his wife's workers at the slightest mistake, just to show that he's in charge.
Being broke around women, even your sisters, can be depressing.

Margy:
The man is stupid!

I have seen husband and wife running a business together..and guess what ..it's booming.

Just in front of my yard.. a woman owns a retail shop..the husband stocked it up..the next thing I saw was the husband helping in the sales in the shop..the shop is growing

Another man helps his wife in the restaurant..she does the cooking and the man takes orders, serves the customers and helps out.where necessary...customers keep flowing san-san into the restaurant..

There's a program called restaurant impossible aired on food network.. I see a lot of husband and wife and children running their restaurants.

All I can say is that this man will die a wretched poor man..proud grasshopper with no shi-shi.. yeyee dey smell

Modified:
All of you quoting and abusing me..I cover myself with the blood of Jesus! All your abuses back to sender...

Is it bad if this man helps out? What happens to joining hands and see that nothing is lagging in the restaurant Only a proud man will feel insulted by what his wife said.. and proud people always ends up like grasshopper with no ten kobo..

EaglesEyes1:
If you have that much customers where u can't be washing, u can at least afford a young boy or girl who can wash plates and serve for you. I have seen women who sell by the roadside with less customers, they all have a young girl helping them. Somepeople just hate to see someone doing nothing, they see them as lazy.
Because you are now the breadwinner, your husband now must work for you to have a right to get his daily meal from you. A wise wife knows how to make her husband do things for her without hurting his ego.
Woman stop asking if your actions are right or wrong, go to that friend's house and beg your husband so at least it will prove that you didn't mean any disrespect. Be a wise woman, foolish people will tell you that since your husband can't provide he is useless and you dont need him, if u like follow those foolish advices and not beg your husband, your choice. A wise wife hide the shame of her husband and prays positively for him. Be guilded.

Hardgun:
That's very bad telling your husband to wash plate

Elporo:


Your confused! Are humble because you are poor? Yes, that is not true humility.. its cunning.

omonnakoda:
Life is about reality not idealism.

All humans are cowards. Under the right circumstances all humans will abuse power.

Armchair pontification is one of the easiest things to do .

In life there is a time to slap and a time to be slapped. There is a season for everything

Let us pray to survive our slaps

BruncleZuma:
You don't have a husband (not diminishing the man's efforts), no real man assaults a woman over such issues.

Ohizman73:
love should be the basis of all marriage in the first place. what happened just shows there is no love in that marriage or rather fake love.that is the basis to which most nigerian marriages are built up. if the man really loves his wife he doesnt need to be told by her to assist her in the restaurant in the first place whether to wash plates or not.When he see that she is not finding it easy due to incurrent factors. when he has the chance to help out due to him being at home for the meantime. has he forgotten that he equally has the business in as much as he opened it for his wife. even though he did not open it for his wife. we Nigerian men are shallow minded is he now saying if he goes to his sisters restaurant to see her and he meets the same situation he would not assist her in every possible manner as long as he has the chance.Same with his mum,there is no age or level towards being humble. so knowing the condition of the business ,does he want his wife fagged out. that when she comes home she would be so tired. and when he wants to be intimate with her ,she would not be in the mood.And he would start crying foul.our thought and mentality is still very fallow. it is really unfourtunate.

Margy:
The man is stupid!

I have seen husband and wife running a business together..and guess what ..it's booming.

Just in front of my yard.. a woman owns a retail shop..the husband stocked it up..the next thing I saw was the husband helping in the sales in the shop..the shop is growing

Another man helps his wife in the restaurant..she does the cooking and the man takes orders, serves the customers and helps out.where necessary...customers keep flowing san-san into the restaurant..

There's a program called restaurant impossible aired on food network.. I see a lot of husband and wife and children running their restaurants.

All I can say is that this man will die a wretched poor man..proud grasshopper with no shi-shi.. yeyee dey smell

Modified:
All of you quoting and abusing me..I cover myself with the blood of Jesus! All your abuses back to sender...

Is it bad if this man helps out? What happens to joining hands and see that nothing is lagging in the restaurant Only a proud man will feel insulted by what his wife said.. and proud people always ends up like grasshopper with no ten kobo..

DedeNkem:


How is it bad helping your wife in the only business that feeds the family?

It seems you've the same empty pride and abusive mentality like her husband!

BonPatrick:
A mother of two who pleaded anonymity has taken to social media to ask members of the public whether it was wrong to ask her husband to do the dishes.
According to her, her husband lost his business to scam and she has been the one catering for the family with the little she earns from her restaurant business.
She said: “Truly, My husband was the one who opened the restaurant for me, I cook very well and I still do my cooking by myself as I only direct my staffs on what to do.My husband lost his business to scam and since then it’s been me carrying the responsibilities, most of my staffs left because I could not pay them and at some point, all of them left and I had to do everything by myself.

“My husband is doing nothing yet, he just sits at home and maybe go pick the kids from school and all, so yesterday I had lots of customers in the shop, I was doing everything by myself, so as soon as my husband walked in, I asked him to help me rush to wash a few plates while I serve, and he looked at me in some strange way, I repeated myself and he slapped me in public, and walked out.

“I ignored the embarrassment and even most of my customers left, when I got home I noticed that he moved his things, I called his phone and he said he is in his friends place till he gets a job he will come home, that I should take care of the kids.

“He cut the call I tried to call and the next he blocked me.

“What did I do wrong, who is supposed to be upset? I just need to clear my conscience.”

Jeon:


U for use this power wer you take type this towards the whites for turning our ancestors into slaves.

Oh I don forget say fulani, boko haram and general buhari still dey. SO GO USE THIS FRUSTRATION TOWARDS THEM

Lollittaa where you at?

never mind those coconut head boys

BonPatrick:
A mother of two who pleaded anonymity has taken to social media to ask members of the public whether it was wrong to ask her husband to do the dishes.
According to her, her husband lost his business to scam and she has been the one catering for the family with the little she earns from her restaurant business.
She said: “Truly, My husband was the one who opened the restaurant for me, I cook very well and I still do my cooking by myself as I only direct my staffs on what to do.My husband lost his business to scam and since then it’s been me carrying the responsibilities, most of my staffs left because I could not pay them and at some point, all of them left and I had to do everything by myself.

“My husband is doing nothing yet, he just sits at home and maybe go pick the kids from school and all, so yesterday I had lots of customers in the shop, I was doing everything by myself, so as soon as my husband walked in, I asked him to help me rush to wash a few plates while I serve, and he looked at me in some strange way, I repeated myself and he slapped me in public, and walked out.

“I ignored the embarrassment and even most of my customers left, when I got home I noticed that he moved his things, I called his phone and he said he is in his friends place till he gets a job he will come home, that I should take care of the kids.

“He cut the call I tried to call and the next he blocked me.

“What did I do wrong, who is supposed to be upset? I just need to clear my conscience.”

Hotshisha:


Will you wash plates for your teenage kids?! Even after working your but off getting them a cosy life

I work hard to give my wife a business and she turns around to ask me to wash dishes for her customers

The more I think of this the angrier I get

Jeon:

He's not romantic and caring.

That's why I hate people with pride and ego

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Keep quoting until you guys choke


Lollittaa my winter bear see them