I came across this marriage list from a relative who is about to get married.
In my opinion, i think it's a little bit too much considering the cost of things these days.
What do u think?

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Its too much bro, its like the girls family and kinsmen wants to recover every dime spent on her from this list. He should negotiate very well oo.

You typed it and then post it on nairaland just to trend.

The things people do for clout.

malcom1X:
You typed it and then post it on nairaland just to trend.

The things people do for clout.

Theyveedo:
I came across this marriage list from a relative who is about to get married.
In my opinion, i think it's a little bit too much considering the cost of things these days.
What do u think?

So is ur relative complaining about it..

Some nairalanders be like Nicki Minaj..

Who no fit pound for mortar,make him pound for ground.

This is not bad in comparison to some others I've seen.

What I don't understand is all these umuada, family youths etcetera etcetera. Why will people who had no hand in my upbringing, financially and otherwise get to have a slice of my bride price list?

Thank God we don't do this shït in Ukwuani land.

Stupidity and hypocrisy are when any of you complains that bride price is expensive and cast aspersions on the custodians of your cultures but feels at ease and joyful when spending in multiple folds an equivalent of the same sum doing a White wedding. Low self-esteem breeds self-hate.

Theyveedo:
I came across this marriage list from a relative who is about to get married.
In my opinion, i think it's a little bit too much considering the cost of things these days.
What do u think?

Do also post the marriage list your family do give out to the intending groom that wants to marry from your family, so as to compare.

On top a lady whose virginity she gave out on a platter of indomie without egg

To be honest, this list is fair. If you cost the items on this list, it should be in the range of about 300k.

Not a bad list.

Shouldn't be up to 200k sef.

Your brother or whoever was given the list should quickly go and do the needful before they increase it...

The list is very fair, mine is more than this, infact my inlaws praised me after the wedding that, every items were complete...

I have a kind inlaw, they divided everything I sent to them into two and ask us to come and carry it...

They are not from families who sees bride materials as if their life depend on it....

My wedding was shifted from April, 2020 to july, 2020 due to the COVID-19.

I would look into my photo archive and post it here....

Raggy:
Its too much bro, its like the girls family and kinsmen wants to recover every dime spent on her from this list. He should negotiate very well oo.

My thoughts exactly

Raggy:
Its too much bro, its like the girls family and kinsmen wants to recover every dime spent on her from this list. He should negotiate very well oo.

can you recover what is being spent on a child from infant till adulthood?

Marriage is for men not for boys

Stop seeing something in nothing man

This is absolutely cheap.

Guy,just run and finish up whatever is on that list.

Talking from experience.