Why would anyone, whether man of woman, want someone who has nothing to offer? I'm not saying you should reveal everything about yourself to a potential mate, but no one wants a worthless person. You could be bringing a curse on yourself and your children. Taking behavior to the extreme will create havoc in one's life. Trus me, all the men who are financially buoyant will just chop your woman like hot rice. It's best to show yourself as a man.

Lucrativress:

This shouldn't be done to every woman
Imagine an ideal woman who is self progressive and just the proper woman,there is no brain in she accepting that low picture of you
So all in all,pay heed to the kind of woman before thinking of lying or else you might just be missing a good choice cause of your scepticisms

You they mind them,warp brains all around,both gender have their expectations from the opposite gender,and not to forget 85% of women can never marry down.

wany:

You they mind them,warp brains all around,both gender have their expectations from the opposite gender,and not to forget 85% of women can never marry down.

Where did you get this percentage?

Please speak for yourself.

My advice to the OP is look for a well to do lady too. Don't marry down because you will be the bread winner of your family and her family.

Remember we are talking about marriage, it's a journey of many years. This is the person you would spend the next 70years of your life with.

Pray, Pray very well. Open your eyes and see too.

Remember money has wings, it can be with a person today and might not be there tomorrow. When the money is not there, what will remain of the marriage?

You need a partner that will be with you in thick and thin of life.

The truth is the stormy periods will always come but can she stay with you? can she support you with her financial resources pending when you pick up again?

Pray very well.

Go for a well to do lady, with good home training.

You cannot find love only with poor ladies or ladies from a poor background.

Some well to do ladies are well behaved, honest and looking for true love too. Prayerfully go after them.

Klass99:


Lol , you've got a mouth on you.

I've mostly met men who were real about their achievements, no faking it, no exaggerations and no pretence either.

Maybe they were honest, maybe you have just not noticed the exaggeration.

RightToReject:
No. Vulnerability is one of the true tests of compatibility and, by extension, a sign of a mutually healthy relationship. If you have a woman in your life, and vice versa, who, giving a chance, will take advantage of you/cannot stand firmly for you/treat you respectfully after seeing you in your vulnerable state, then she does not worth your closeness and trust - love and its benefits in general. Provided that you are coming from a conscientious position with a set standard in place, you can never get it wrong.

Absolutely, I see no need to down play oneself.

For me the test of maturity is how you handle people in their most vulnerable state.

Raydans:

What's your right track ?

It's personal bro

oldienavie:

This is the kind of women we always tell a man to run away from, a woman who would say this has a very shallow mindset, very common amidst women from the Southern part of Nigeria.
They do not understand the concept of loyalty and sacrifice in marriage, they are very greedy and materialistic and only understand the language of money, such women are only loyal to a mans money and sell their body to the highest bidder if the man has financial challenges and that is why a man needs to be discreet and humble when looking for a spouse so as not to attract such women.

By the way I am a southerner but the truth has to be told.

This is deep but the bitter truth, even in the north is the same but honestly southern women Love money more than our women

Hi

Learnt sth