jesmond3945:
hmmm. I think she doesn't trust you thats why.

harjay1986:


bros if I may ask how old are you ? because you reply is like someone who stilll stay under his parent .... in life no matter how wealthy you are someone will surely render help for you directly or indirectly that does not mean they have benefitted from you in the past .... nobody is laying entitlement mentality here

okay imagine I came to you knowing well that you are a well to do an uncle (so what help would you want from me because is the little one that suppose to look for elder) for an assistance that will only require your influence or direction and you turn me down I never for once ask for any financial assistance from you because i know fully well that you too have some financial obligation you need to attend to ...... bro reasone am

as per goin to france one day that has been deleted from my diary mainly business wise

twind111:
This issue is of different categorie
1 AJUNMOBI O KAN TAANU.. It's a Yoruba proverb , for someone to be your close relative doesn't guarantee that he or she will help you, some prefer to face their immediate family I mean kids and wife only.

2 PAST FAMILY HISTORY.. many rich family member didn't get help too when they are struggling. So you expect them to be of help too when they eventually arrive.

3 FAMILY ISSUE.. Take for instant you get a loan for a family member and he or she refuse to pay even when they can. If you persuade them too much they will say are we not family member.

4 MOST WICKED ENEMY SOMETIMES COME FROM THE FAMILY.. I mean spiritually. As a Nigerian you should understand this better.E.G. how can only you build 3 houses when we have none WAHALA. At your age I was still in form 4 and you say you need money for school fee in a university abeg wait till next year.e.t.c

5 ONE RICH MAN IN A POOR FAMILY.. when you have only just one rich man or just a few of them in a family what do you expect. how many do you think they can help .. when the pressure is too much they will distance themselves from family..

NOTE: it's only those sent by God that can help.. And if you receive help from a family member please don't misuse the opportunity it may hinder help of another family member.. If you didn't receive help from any family member now please don't have the wicked mindset that you too will not help .

pansophist:


Why pm when my email address is on my profile ? Send me an email

leofab:
it’s only the black man that want to be more English than the English.. continue

twind111:
This issue is of different categorie
1 AJUNMOBI O KAN TAANU.. It's a Yoruba proverb , for someone to be your close relative doesn't guarantee that he or she will help you, some prefer to face their immediate family I mean kids and wife only.

2 PAST FAMILY HISTORY.. many rich family member didn't get help too when they are struggling. So you expect them to be of help too when they eventually arrive.

3 FAMILY ISSUE.. Take for instant you get a loan for a family member and he or she refuse to pay even when they can. If you persuade them too much they will say are we not family member.

4 MOST WICKED ENEMY SOMETIMES COME FROM THE FAMILY.. I mean spiritually. As a Nigerian you should understand this better.E.G. how can only you build 3 houses when we have none WAHALA. At your age I was still in form 4 and you say you need money for school fee in a university abeg wait till next year.e.t.c

5 ONE RICH MAN IN A POOR FAMILY.. when you have only just one rich man or just a few of them in a family what do you expect. how many do you think they can help .. when the pressure is too much they will distance themselves from family..

NOTE: it's only those sent by God that can help.. And if you receive help from a family member please don't misuse the opportunity it may hinder help of another family member.. If you didn't receive help from any family member now please don't have the wicked mindset that you too will not help .

Tomesocial:


Ask questions when you need to that's how you learn sir/ma..
And yes real ID and SSN..

heniford2:
she has forgotten her action towards me and my family this particular lady made me watch my mom shed tears mom sold all her clothes everything she was wearing turn to rag, my fat mom slim down to "i" the started saying she has AIDs blah blah the make mockery of my mom in front of me i watch her talk trash of my mom all of them will test it from to zee

Olodo24:
Exactly. I have an older half brother who's in the US. He only sends money when a family member dies

yemi1504:


Very common among the so-called S0phisticated tribe! I guess sophisticated in oppressing other family members with one's riches should be the refrain!

yemmit90:


This is exactly what we are saying. Must we benefited from helping one another? Must we always be self centred? Must everything revolves around us? Must we always dominates or want people to worship us.

This mentality will keep making Nigeria and other underdeveloped Africa countries remain backwards for centuries to come. We are just too selfish and ignorant to create an egalitarian society.

jesmond3945:
if your uncle turns you down he has every right to do so. He doesn't owe you. He has right to help anybody he desires. Ask yourself why did obi cubana make chiefpriest who is not his brother his bar man? You know why mutual benefit. Chief priest has something going in for him and obi cubana know investing in him would bring returns. It is only a politician that would help you when you approach as his relative without expecting any benefit. You talk as if you don't know this. I remember when I went to my uncle's house, I just went to visit and go home. I converted myself to errand boy, even fell sick in the process. When I was leaving, he gave me a fat envelope. Why, because I was of benefit to him. If I just came to his house for a favour, he might not honor my visitation next time. Summary don't impose your request on anyone, every body has right to do as he pleases with his money.

DonroxyII:
A non egalitarian brain can not create egalitarian anything ....

Imagine you help someone infact you sacrificed like 50% of your energy just to get the person to the top and they added their own and established at the top only to use the Potentials to witch hunt you .....

If help has never given you mental health issues before , just stop talking .... from families to friends to colleagues ......

Here in Africa, be selective of those you help !

yemmit90:


Calm down, we are still saying the same thing. Those you helped to the top that used their positions to witch hunt you are the group of selfish Nigerians we are talking about.

No one live in isolation, and everyone needs help at one point in life (be it government or individual), it is the behaviour of these wicked fellows that makes our society what it is today including our leaders who would rather watch you die or live in abject poverty than to do the right thing.

Drizzy5001:
Oga, why are you trying to derail from what I posted, did I mention my mother's brother not helping his own brother?

Tomesocial:


Ask questions when you need to that's how you learn sir/ma..
And yes real ID and SSN..

udorazzi:
Always have dis at d back of your mind, NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING

grossintel:
The major reason Is mindset, wickedness and greed biko. In my family we help each other, I find a business that works I replicate it for each and everyone of my family.

If any family member doesn't have capital we contribute money! At some point everyone of my family member was making cool 400k per month even my 50 year old mom from a business I introduced to them. Of what need would it be if na only me get money for my family and my brother dey beg!

Abeg we show each other road biko, make all of us get the money enjoy am.

Orente21:
Pls can you adopt me in your family? And wat business r u guys doing?

grossintel:
Lol, if it was that simple. It's not a business I would love to share, it's 100% legit and it works. That's all I can say.

punisha:



Good luck to you and your useless crack head son o. Peace out ✌�

Lordhades21:


The one i Bleep my drunken olosho mama give myself.... Make i Shut up and be educated. I have an Empty skull.

Macadamemmy:
We rise by lifting others... Dats what I know

punisha:




Fixed...
U don't have to bring your sick family issues here. Kpele o.

Lordhades21:


The effort to edit ...u would be surprise(d) the effort my papa wey be fool put in to give a word ..lol...more pains and replies please...I dey feel my mama wretchedness .

punisha:




English hard I know.
No fear. Write some more okay? I got u.

Lordhades21:



LOL... I am Pained... I never tire my guy

mydivinely:
some wont help because they dont want you to prosper or to be more than their biological children
i wrote jamb scored high in a school my uncle was then Head of Department, he promise heaven that i should relax n strt preparing for school, that was deception. at the end he asked me why cant i wait till my elder brother graduate but his own children didnt wait for one to graduate before another, finally i left my state to a state i know no man. and God helped me today i graduated without any family support... That call we made was the last call am not angry with him, but my phone CAN NEVER DIAL HIS LINE TILL HE DIE OR I DIE,

i learned a great lesson to always rely on God , He then can decide whom he wil use to help me.
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Jeremiah 17:5 KJV: Thus saith the LORD; Cursed be the man that trust in man...