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Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by sirjamesjnr(m): 8:12pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
Age: 26....30 Graduate Working-class Live in Lagos From Ibo Fair in colour( not bleaching) Strictly for marriage. If you tick the above-mentioned box. I like to introduce you to my good friend. He is a graduate, 33 years old. Businessman. From Ibo Stay in Lagos Very clean, comfortable and cool-headed. He is a Christian. Please let me know if you are interested. Two of you can start as friends then see where it lead to. Trust me you won't regret you ever try. This is my email.... sirjamesjnr@gmail.com Send your number I will contact you N/b. He picks me up in his car, we ended up at where I can get some food then I ask him why he will take me to a restaurant when we can enjoy homemade food... That is how we dive into the marriage issue. So I got his approval to go in between for him. I want to be at his wedding before I Japa. Please only serious-minded people. My friend hates drama a lot. We can start with hanging out somewhere cool then he is man enough to heat it. He is an Ibo guy so he is bold enough to take this ministry to the permanent side. |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by Raalsalghul: 8:24pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
Drfunmisticglow could recommend one of her friends, I'm sure of that. |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by lilvicky68(m): 8:25pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
You sure say no be you be the friend? 2 Likes |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by Raalsalghul: 8:27pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
lilvicky68: He's not the one, believe me. |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by sirjamesjnr(m): 8:37pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
Raalsalghul:. My girl does not have IBO girls in her circle that is the reason. |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by sirjamesjnr(m): 8:38pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
lilvicky68:Nope I am not. Don't allow the Dr to break my head this night. |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by sirjamesjnr(m): 8:39pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
Raalsalghul:I am not. My friend is not fortunate to have good girls around him. He doesn't like going out a lot. Very decent kind of man. I wish I was a girl. |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by lilvicky68(m): 8:46pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
sirjamesjnr:Stitches can come in very handy.. you are covered.. |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by sirjamesjnr(m): 8:47pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
lilvicky68:. Nope I enjoy my peace |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by Raalsalghul: 8:49pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
sirjamesjnr: Oh I see. I wish him good luck because the journey he's about to embark on is not an easy one. Left for me, I'd say he avoids it all together but oxytocin and testestorone can play a fast one on him. |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by lilvicky68(m): 8:56pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
Apart from villages you will hardly see any fair Igbo girl that is not bleaching.. If una like call am organic cream.. |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by sirjamesjnr(m): 8:56pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
Raalsalghul:. There are still good girls around. Only take time and patience |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by sirjamesjnr(m): 8:57pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
lilvicky68:. They are many of them. Stop this stereotype. 2 Likes |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by lilvicky68(m): 9:01pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
sirjamesjnr:Goodluck in your findings.. just make sure you compare her now color with any childhood picture . |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by peacefulhome(f): 9:23pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
After your friend had sample all the Lagos babes. You forgot to tell us your friend age . We also need to know if he matches with our dream man. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by sirjamesjnr(m): 9:31pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
peacefulhome:. Nope you are wrong. I was the first person who ask him to take me to a club. He is a decent guy. He try his luck with few girls but didn't work out. I honestly hope he is within the age bracket of 27....32. I am sure of that. |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by sirjamesjnr(m): 9:32pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
peacefulhome:. I don't like unnecessary assumptions please be open-minded. |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by mrsteel: 10:02pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
sirjamesjnr:If u don't know your friend's age, then u people are not close friends. 5 Likes |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by sirjamesjnr(m): 10:10pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
mrsteel:. I am not a petty type. Still can't tell my brother birthday until yesterday I ask him. He is my senior bros. I mind my business. 1 Like |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by mrsteel: 10:16pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
sirjamesjnr:Lol bros this obviously has nothing to do with pettiness! U don't need to know his date of birth or month, but u should know the year if u were close friends! If u don't know the exact year your friend was born, then u people are not close friends & I don't think u should be doing this for him, so that should incase who ever u recommend choose to misbehave tomorrow, he will still trust enough to believe u. It has nothing to do with pettiness. 3 Likes |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by sirjamesjnr(m): 10:24pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
mrsteel:. Kind of understand with you but truth be told, even in decades I may not ask him how old are you unless it's important. We are on good terms and he is an honest soul that's all I can say. I know he will make a good husband. |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by Vision101(m): 1:18am On Aug 22, 2021 |
The marketing is too much. Ladies beware!!! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by GTCO: 4:12am On Aug 22, 2021 |
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Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by efficiencie(m): 5:23am On Aug 22, 2021 |
sirjamesjnr: Dude fixing criteria like this is what screws up a ton of marriages. You said she must be a "Graduate Working-class, Live in Lagos, From Ibo, Fair in colour( not bleaching) and Strictly for marriage". However, some expired ladies may meet this criteria, some ladies may fulfill this criteria and yet have it mind to have some send-off sex with her last BF, get pregnant and dump the child on your dear dude and worse is that some ladies may fulfill your criteria and turn out to be a literal nightmare. You will be there for your dear friend's wedding but you will most likely not be there when he starts to have depression for breakfast, high-blood pressure for desert, emotional pain for lunch and tears for dinner due to a marriage gone wrong. I believe marriage was started by GOD and only He understands you well enough to decide who will suit you best. Drop all these criteria and follow GOD's lead all the way. You will not regret it. 3 Likes |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by sirjamesjnr(m): 8:54am On Aug 22, 2021 |
Calling females expired ladies shows that you are one of those men from either a dysfunctional family, single parent or a child from a deadbeat dad. There are lots of bad men and women out there but that doesn't give you a right to body shaming and name-calling. I didn't open a thread for that nonsense. I believe that you are learned, common sense should make you know how to engage your emotion. My friend is an adult and he has a life and knows what he want. So you have no right to give some useless assumptions. Stay in your lane. He wants a lady he can live with. It is called his spec. So deal with it. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by mrsteel: 11:22am On Aug 22, 2021 |
sirjamesjnr:He is telling u truth! U are the emotional one here, calling female expired is figurative & u should understand that! It simply means bad female may meet your stated condition outwardly, but will cause serious trouble for your friend when they start showing their bad inward character after marriage & u won't be there to save your friend when it starts. Humans can pretend, see how Paul's wife stylishly arrange taking her children to abroad when she was already planning to divorce Paul. If a married woman can pretend that much, what about an unmarried one trying to get married?? Women can be very desperate when it comes to marriage & pretence is one of their most effective tool! Better tell your friend to contact his relatives to help him search for a girl whose record history is well known to them, so he doesn't end up putting a Jezebel in his house. If u had a female friend that was single u have know for quite sometime, it would have been a different case, but coming online to seek for stranger for your friend no follow. He should use his relatives, mom, sisters, cousin etc. & if he is a christian, I am very sure he would find one in his church, take time to study her, there must be people that can help him run background check on her in the church, before making her his wife. No go package trouble give your quiet friend all in the name of trying to help o! 2 Likes |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by sirjamesjnr(m): 11:37am On Aug 22, 2021 |
mrsteel:. I understand with you. My friend doesn't want his family to do that, he believes they will likely give him a girl they can influence. He tries the church but it was a disaster according to him. He trusted money into the girl's hand, she couldn't give account of it. So remove Church and family members out of the equation. Trust me, he is a very smart person, he can deal with any pretense. Four girls he has tried his luck end up sucking him because he is generous. I am hoping he can get someone online, build friendship then see where it lead to. Trust me there are lot of ladies out there but getting a wife that fix your standard is one hell of a game. 1 Like |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by Caramia2020(m): 11:56am On Aug 22, 2021 |
I will advise u look within ur location or someone close to u should recommend for u, bcoz since u put working class expect more of leeches from here. |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by sirjamesjnr(m): 12:03pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
Caramia2020:. I have few single ladies in my circle very decent but only focus on their job. They don't want to marry. Again He doesn't want to be with another tribe only IBO. |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by Caramia2020(m): 12:04pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
sirjamesjnr:Ok o, den go to ur village n u won't wait for too long before ur desires will be fulfilled. |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by sirjamesjnr(m): 12:11pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
Caramia2020:. I don't have a life in my village. I am a total stranger there. What is wrong with the online arrangements? I met my girl on nairaland and it's going well between us. He can also try his luck. 1 Like |
Re: Looking For A Decent Girl For My Good Friend by RightToReject(m): 12:15pm On Aug 22, 2021 |
Your friend might be smart, as you have posited, but he's certainly neither discerning nor clever, just as you, for the following reasons: - He ought to have known long ago that you as his friend discernment and cleverness aren't your forte - conceit is - therefore, you're not the kind of person to assign a task like this, its unnecessariness notwithstanding. - He ought not to have been needing someone to help him look for a woman to marry in this age out of lack of option, his supposed gentleness/reclusiveness notwithstanding, and couldn't have had difficulties distinguishing reasonable women from the unreasonable ones quickly anywhere. - The four previous girls in his life that took advantage of his assumed generosity would not have succeeded in their shenanigans. Yes, there are both good and bad women everywhere, this forum inclusive, but a clever and discerning person in your position could have easily identified them within a short interval and reach out to them privately, and wouldn't need to advertise in this manner, which is a recipe for disaster waiting to happen to your friend. Because with the amount of desperate disingenuous and opportunistic women that abound here and everywhere - of course, these bad qualities aren't exclusive to the female gender alone - this route you've taken will likely consume your friend in the long run. My submission might sound bitter to your hearing, but truths have to be told, so no apologies. 4 Likes |
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