anochuko01:


Being temperamental cancels the "good".
A "good" person should be slow to anger and quick to forgive.

Bornsinner7:
How do you mean?? Good in what aspects??

Let say he meant good as in having the characteristics required for a successful relationship..

Mutual respect, trust, honesty, good communication, anger control, tolerance etc

If both parties have these.. how then can they have a bad relationship..

alizma:

Have you read about temperaments? Two opposing temperaments from two good people cannot hold a relationship.

Bornsinner7:
How do you mean?? Good in what aspects??

Let say he meant good as in having the characteristics required for a successful relationship..

Mutual respect, trust, honesty, good communication, anger control, tolerance etc

If both parties have these.. how then can they have a bad relationship..

Fulaniherdmens:
It's a lie. Idea shared together, qualities added, workforce to set goals, embrace the teaching of our Lord Jesus Christ.



At bolded will cleanse the temperaments issues

festacman:
Of course, marriage is about two COMPATIBLE individuals and not two GOOD people. That's why two 'crazy' people can marry and enjoy their marriage for long while two level-headed people struggle.

Because there is no 100% compatibility, it doesn't even guarantee stable marriage especially where MUTUAL sacrifices are not willingly being made by couples concerned.

In short, marriage has no ALMIGHTY formular. It is like any other project that should be worked at. That's it.

Mmadu2:
Whoever disagrees with this guy on this matter is still far behind in knowledge and understanding.

mastermaestro:


You don't understand one bit of the person you quoted! He didn't mention 'temperamental', he said read about temperaments. I know you will start arguing right now. But let me help you with a few concepts, and then go look them up for your own enlightenment.

1. Choleric.
2. Sanguine.
3. Phlegmatic.
4. Melancholic.

Go and study, my friend.

alizma:

You are using the word temperament in a wrong way

Kondomatic:
Compatibility in relationships and marriage is a myth.

There's no two compatible people anywhere as far as I am concerned.

In marriage, adaptability is the key not compatibility.

Acidosis:
No such thing as "two good people"

Better to say: Two people who are good to each other.


When two people are good to each other, they can NEVER have a bad relationship.

anochuko01:


Oh okaaay... I understand all those stuffs actually but I've never been a fan of them. People most times use them as excuses to cover their bad behaviors.

Acidosis:


I disagree with him.

The question is who is a good person? "Good" will always be subjective whether we like or not. The subjective nature of "good" invalidates his argument.

If two "good" people can't have a healthy relationship, it simply means they're bad from their individual viewpoints.


Ask yourself, why would you want to leave a "good" person? Isn't that madness? No be juju be that?

It's either the "good" person is bad, or you're the bad one and you don't measure up somehow. Either ways, one is bad.

Make una no dey rush digest motivational quotes.

Acidosis:
No such thing as "two good people"

Better to say: Two people who are good to each other.


When two people are good to each other, they can NEVER have a bad relationship.

phazotron:


Rephrase it to "2 imperfect people striving to make the relationship perfect"

bukatyne:





Honestly, as knowledge increases, confusion sets in.

bukatyne:




Is this the remix or updated version?

Gistblog9ja:
Singer Timi Dakolo took to his page on Instagram and said that the fact two people in a relationship are good people doesn't guarantee the success of that relationship.

Timi Dakolo wrote on his page: "Two good people can have a bad relationship."


"https://www.instagram.com/p/CTkMO24Ld16/?utm_medium=copy_link
Read more on Gistblog9ja
https://www.gistblog9ja.com/2021/09/two-good-people-can-have-bad.html

tosinhtml:


You are far behind in knowledge and understanding.