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so how do you talk to ladies at work

or you work with men only

Do you have an anxiety disorder?

Nonsense

Can i b ur gf?

@MzDarkSkin, thx a lot. it seems odas dont understand wat i am going thru. A combination of factors made it possible for me to remain a virgin till date. Like I said, not necessarily because I said so

Dont mind them. The problem is that some ladies will be crazy about you but they are usually the types u don't like. Start by this, once you see a lady around you that you like, don't toast her. Just start by being very nice to her. With time she will begin to appreciate you and then you can express your intentions. She may find it saying no at this spot. ELSE check urself u may have G>A>Y tendencies.

op
since u re still a virgin @ ur age,
u need 2 go 2 a brothel and disvirgin ur self with ashawo.

2 avoid insult from ur wife when u get married.

Oya go and do it now.

Good Luck!!!

M M M 3:

op
since u re still a virgin @ your age,
u need 2 go 2 a brothel and disvirgin your self with ashawo.

2 avoid insult from your wife when u get married.

Oya go and do it now.

Good Luck!!!

the guy mite just get HIV becuz

of your "advice". Smh. 

i like this thread and i hope it gets more replies

At this stage I pray you find someone who's ready to take the 1st steps with you, listen and understand "where u come frm".
Anything else will just break u into pieces.
Work on ur self-esteem. I wish I could give you a more practical advice but just to encourage u, note that some ladies find shy guys cute

I agree

shy guys are very, very adorable.

My advice to you - don't go to an ashawo or what the is,


Talk to God - ask him to send someone to you - he will send you the perfect mate

Be yourself - just be yourself - because that is the self that you bring to a relationship

You are a workaholic so you spend more time @ work and on your own self-development - now it is time to open yourself up to others - there could be the perfect woman on your job just waiting for you.  Do you attend a church?

Go to a church and talk to your pastor - ask your pastor to introduce you to someone - as the pastors usually know the congregants and has observed them and probably would suggest a good mate to the "you that you already are" - so you don't have to change into someone else to acquire a bit of bravery to approach her.  I strongly encourage you to be yourself.

Talk about things that you like --- don't keep the conversation on a technical level or a work level because you will lose your audience (women) if you do that, observe her---what she laughs at, what she seems interested in and focus on those things in your conversations.   Discuss social issues without getting too political or religious in your conversational approach.  Movies, songs, dances, upcoming events, concerts, fashions (read up on those things so you are aware of what is going on around you).

just a few tips from me to you.

@Tricici, u look cute!  .

Poster, guys like you would neva cheat on hs girl coz of d hel they went thru 2 get hr.

Talk 2 me. . .sighs

@op. Are you trying to play Mr perfect gentleman? .

Scooby1:

@Tricici, u look cute!  .

skydeep:

@op. Are you trying to play Mr perfect gentleman? .

skydeep, he's just trying to be nice nah.

Come, none of us is Mr perfect when it comes to women. For many of us, our heartbeats race faster on the first approach especially if u truely love the person in question. However, we are able to build up confident on the way which allow us to finish well or nearly well   Come to think of it, the same way you speak to your sister, that same way you speak to ladies.

For you, meeting a lady shouldnt be too much of hazzle since you are fairly okay financially. Many ladies will jump at your offer of ride without you saying much. So, just take some time to stroll out with your car and try to offer ride to ladies. Start by saying she is beautiful and we love to drop her wherever she is going without a prize imagine or unimagine. Try and insist as many ladies believe they have to play hard to get. Dont shout or try to stop them physically so that you wouldnt get a slap   Just be subtle by pouring hon her more compliment. If she refuses, dont run after her or grief. She prolly have a boyfriend with better ride or aura than you. What is comforting is that many girls are not sure of how their relationship will turn out, that is why that keep adding potential boyfriend to their list of friends to be handy on the raining day! Once inside your car, ask her general questions like her school or work. talk briefly about yourself, your work. Always listen to ladies and take her up on what they say. Disagree if you have to and support it with intelligent reasons. Do not argue blindly or too much even if you know she is wrong. Allow ladies enjoy their ignorance! Dont leave without fixing date. Some guys/players could end in a ladies pant on the first meeting. That is not for you anyway. Just take ur time

You do not have to be a rocket scientist to approach or talk to a woman/lady. Just be yourself and if she likes you she will respond accordingly.

Please do not ask anyone who you should talk to or approach because only you know what you like and don't like. When you meet the right woman/lady it will come natural to you what you should do. Trust that. Good luck.

Miss yah (My skype has been tripping , lol)

D-sense:


Miss yah (My skype has been tripping , lol)

Awww. I sent you something via FB.

You mean your status? . . .

Kindly visit my post https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=673878.msg8378340#msg8378340

Mrs, Chima:

I got the memo and replied

OP maybe God want u to be a Rev. Father. So dnt be bothered.

OP.

Get a dog