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If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by zeenaman: 1:47pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Contrary to the impression held by many, women actually make marriage proposals. Because people see men going down on their knees popping the typical "will you marry me" question, they feel men are the ones in charge of fixing a date. But this is not true. I arrived at this after having discussions from a few married friends of mine, and my own experience too as a married person. Left for me, I didn't see myself married in three years time from the year I married considering my financial situation. There were many goals I hoped to achieve before getting married, but my fiancée changed my mindset. She knew my financial capacity, she made the analysis and convinced me that we can do it. Alhamdulillah, that's the best decision I have ever made in my life. Three of my friends had similar experience, if not for their wives they won't have been married by now. While men see problems, woman seem to see solution. For people that may think she was desperate, I married her at 22, extremely beautiful and untouched by any man. Back to the question, if not for your wife, will you have been married by now? Note : I'm only referring to good women that are focused and marriage oriented. Same as men. Mod, please help move to front page 116 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Tony5050(m): 1:48pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Over to the married people in the forum. Btw if there is money, more money and plenty money den it is finished Kindly check my signature for your Academic research, Assignments, project, etc.. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Davash222(m): 1:48pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
. I married her at 22, extremely beautiful and untouched by any man. Congratulations man. 143 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by ifytrik(m): 1:52pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Well the truth is that 60 to 70 percent of married guys bellow thirty years of age would have being single if not that love blinded them and made them make the wrong decision, The fact is 90 percent of married guys bellow the age of thirty years are in deep regret today either because they are not able to achieve their goals in life or that they are now counting children instead of millions, my advice to every youth out there is, don't let a woman change your plans in life, this is because most women(especially Nigeria women) have nothing else to offer in marriage aside sex and babies, set goals for yourselfs, achieve it all or atleast achieve 70 to 80 percent of your goals before getting married, make sure you are financially okay to avoid living a life of regrets. 302 Likes 32 Shares |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Geestarry(f): 1:53pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Here to read comments 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by mariahAngel(f): 2:04pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Not to burst your bubble op, but you will hardly get the response you expect because this forum is filled with mostly bitter souls with only negative things to say about marriage. 185 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Manq(m): 2:20pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Got married to her at 25, have a kid and the only regret I have was me not getting to know her before I met her.. she get soul that's my wife 51 Likes 1 Share
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Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Ahmed0336(m): 2:31pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
mariahAngel: You're right. I got married at 29 no regrets.... 50 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by ifytrik(m): 2:32pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Manq:congratulations man, he who finds a good wife finds long life, i wish everlasting happiness 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by DonTim1: 2:55pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Naaaa, wouldn't have married then 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Nobody: 3:02pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
During my time I got married at 16 and my husband was 20 as at then and we thank God for life so far.I'm a happy grandma at 60+,its good to marry early but children of these days won't listen to advise, they want to have everything before considering marriage which is bad. You can start small,all you need do is to find a partner that's ready to cooperate and work with you in your life journey.I'm 60+ but 60+ isn't me. 100 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by NwaAmaikpe: 3:48pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
If not for my wife, I won't have been married till today. But I pity the woman I married because if she was even quarter as wise as me, she'd never have settled for a jerk like me. But love conquers all, innit? 180 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Nobody: 4:16pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Imagine... Sincerely, I miss the good old days when men were men. When men who knew the Value of marriage and treated it accordingly existed. When marriage has not lost its Glory and meaning. God bless those men who made us look forward to marriage. 43 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by MufasaLion: 4:23pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
This is not my thread. 10 Likes |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Generaloluseye: 4:44pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
zeenaman: I will come back when Glo calls us. Lol 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Omakraid(f): 4:52pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
Hubby probably wouldn't have gotten married till date oo. I remember when we were planning to settle down years back and just 4/5 months to the time we were planning to settle, he came over and broke the news of being relieved of his job thinking I would say we should suspend plans. He was shocked my response was that we'll cut our coat according to our cloth. We only went to court and did trad plus God really really surprised us. Till date, we still joke about it and he'll tell me I would have settled down with a rich man by now "lol" while he wil still be very single. 101 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Acidosis(m): 5:14pm On Oct 24, 2021 |
ifytrik: And what makes you think staying single till you're 40 will make you a billionaire? Is there a particular allowance the federal govt pays the 40s and single people that suddenly makes them wealthy? The money you think you're saving at age 40 would still be spent on the same family, wife and kids you tried to avoid at 28. You will still spend that savings and even more, so why lie to yourself? Whatever can make you broke while married is capable of turning you to a dejected and frustrated single man at 50. 174 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Manq(m): 7:29am On Oct 26, 2021 |
ifytrik: Thanks brother man 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Oizee(f): 11:13am On Oct 28, 2021 |
I will answer for my brother, capital No... Thank God for the wonderful lady. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by zeenaman: 6:02pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Lalasticlala please move this to front page 1 Like |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by ClassicMan202(m): 6:18pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Single people like us 8 Likes
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Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Crowwe(f): 6:18pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
I wish I become Nigerian president one day so I can make simps that get married to any of these useless Nigerian women pay huge tax and are also placed on a forceful curfew that won't make them know what it is like to be outside when it's sunny. 7 Likes |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Ezemarcel(m): 6:18pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
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Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by chris4gold(m): 6:18pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
See question |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by AmuEbule: 6:19pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
My wife actually played no role in my marriage timeline. My loving mother made that request because she wanted to see grand kids from me. Thank God I listened to mum and got married to a woman i never even dated. After15 years and 4 amazing kids, that decision has turned out to be the best decision I have made 91 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by LofP(m): 6:19pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
No. |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by wunmi590(m): 6:19pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
Honestly, my wife was the one who engineered my fast wedding if not, I go still dey look for wetin no lose up and down... That woman nah sweet woman and home maker, it was so difficult letting her go or delaying her more... When she told me she has an empty account we can save our wedding g money togther, my head just straight, nah like that me and she saved up to 2+ million to do wedding apart from the little change family gave us... I dey enjoy the woman until now... As you celebrate your birthday come 4th of november, I wish you more success as my wife.. 147 Likes |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Vinnie2000(m): 6:19pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
OP because You married a young Virgin now, you come dey DengePose! You nor wan allow person see Road! 30 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by Baawaa(m): 6:20pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
You are partially right, 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by abobote: 6:20pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
If not that she gave me two boys as baby mama, I would have still been single by now 3 Likes |
Re: If Not For Your Wife, Would You Have Married The Time You Did? by McOluOmo: 6:20pm On Oct 28, 2021 |
After helping her cross the water..... She said "Thanks Oga" and ran away Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind 13 Likes
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