My ex wife will be speaking at a singles program with the title romance and finance. I wonder what she will be talking about. I probably should attend in disguise. I just want to know how she thinks now. Same woman that gave me hell for almost 10 years. Same woman that was never satisfied even though I gave her my all. Same woman that constantly compared me to other men. I just wonder. Though I'm remarried with a son . I really would love to know. Same woman who had no ish going about with other men even while married. She's now a committed sister in a church in this Lagos and a lead speaker in a conference . What will she be teaching the attendees. I should attend.

If you weren't providing enough,then one of her key statements should be the financial responsibilities of the man in the home.

....singing no romance without finance.

I don't think she is going to preach you. She'll likely preach the mistakes she made during her youthful exuberant age.

I did my best o. Trained her in school, bought a car for her, supported her parents, paid their rent sometimes, supported the siblings too. My house was a mecca for them. Even bought a bus for the dad for transportation. But she wanted more. God knows if I had the means to do more I would have. She wanted the big life, ikoyi, VI life, the big babe life. Well, after the separation she lived it for a while, driving Prado, latest cars etc but nowadays she's so humble. The humility in her voice these days ehn. No more Prado, no more Honda SUV.
Life. Now it's every day church and posting #whatgodcannotdodoesnotexist

She go don change now

tonak:

Though I'm remarried with a son . I really would love to know. Same woman who had no ish going about with other men even while married. She's now a committed sister in a church in this Lagos and a lead speaker in a conference . What will she be teaching the attendees. I should attend.

Let it go!

Kobojunkie:
Let it go!

End of discussion.
Don't go and start falling in love o. Next thing, one for the road and boom, una don start.

tonak:
My ex wife will be speaking at a singles program with the title romance and finance. I wonder what she will be talking about. I probably should attend in disguise. I just want to know how she thinks now. Same woman that gave me hell for almost 10 years. Same woman that was never satisfied even though I gave her my all. Same woman that constantly compared me to other men. I just wonder. Though I'm remarried with a son . I really would love to know. Same woman who had no ish going about with other men even while married. She's now a committed sister in a church in this Lagos and a lead speaker in a conference . What will she be teaching the attendees. I should attend.

She is in the best position to speak based on her own experiences...hopefully she has changed for the better though

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tonak:
My ex wife will be speaking at a singles program with the title romance and finance. I wonder what she will be talking about. I probably should attend in disguise. I just want to know how she thinks now. Same woman that gave me hell for almost 10 years. Same woman that was never satisfied even though I gave her my all. Same woman that constantly compared me to other men. I just wonder. Though I'm remarried with a son . I really would love to know. Same woman who had no ish going about with other men even while married. She's now a committed sister in a church in this Lagos and a lead speaker in a conference . What will she be teaching the attendees. I should attend.

It is either you still love her or you resent her, otherwise, you would not know or care what she does with her life.
Either way, you harbour some feelings towards her which you need to let go for your own peace of mind.

Mtcheeewww.

I would really love to see that lady's transformation. It's been over ten years. You expect her to remain the same all this time?

mejai:

End of discussion.
Don't go and start falling in love o. Next thing, one for the road and boom, una don start.

No Na!!

I'm married now with a kid and very loyal to my woman.

Klass99:


For some reason I can't explain your first sentence cracked me up real good. I am still smiling as I type this.

I am a flawed and imperfect being, but that doesn't stop me from sharing the valuable lessons learnt or the good things of life with others, to help them along in their journey.

She may just share some of the mistakes she made, the do's and don'ts of dating, marriage relationship, investments etc. Don't write her off completely because of your negative experience with her. Some young girls who attend may actually benefit something from her session.



I think I vaguely recall your story. Is this the same ex wife who came back to plead after the first time she walked away, right? You first shared this tale more than 6 or 7 years ago, right?

You are right. Apparently she thinks marriage/relationship is a game. She actually told someone that she was some how hoping we'd get back together until she realised I was married and with a kid too. I do not resent her, I actually do wish her well. She has apologised to me and all is well. I still send monthly allowance for the sake of my son and school fees. Last week she called me to come and take my son for the weekend. He was with me from Thursday till Sunday evening and it was beautiful. I just curious to hear her speak.

Magnoliaa:
I would really love to see that lady's transformation. It's been over ten years. You expect her to remain the same all this time?

5 years

Op, why do you care so much? You are still bothered enough to want to disguise just to attend? You are not over her? Let it go, you are married with a son, her lifestyle right now shouldn't be your concern, she has moved on,

BTW, if you did all you said you did for her, she wouldn't have left, so stop all this sob stories, of course you'd paint her bad while you were the saint that never did wrong.

You sound pained.

Move the fuçk on. Mo'fuçker.

U do really have time to think so much about an ex.

She might have changed and have plenty to share....great people learn from experience.

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@Op; why not mind your own business now that you are married to another person? Why are you still this pained about your ex? You’ve made yourself look like you had no fault in the breakdown of the relationship between you and your ex. You have painted your ex as a terrible person forgetting that if we call your ex here now to tell us her side of the story, we’ll learn about all the terrible things you did to her as well. But now, because she is not here to defend herself, you are saying all this terrible things about your ex. You have also made yourself look like a saint without telling us your own fault and your contribution to the breakdown of the relationship between you and your ex.

I’m sure if your current wife knows that you are planning to attend a program organised by your ex; she’ll not be too pleased or happy about your attendance. I say it again; face your new family and leave your ex alone. ENOUGH SAID.

tonak:
I did my best o. Trained her in school, bought a car for her, supported her parents, paid their rent sometimes, supported the siblings too. My house was a mecca for them. Even bought a bus for the dad for transportation. But she wanted more. God knows if I had the means to do more I would have. She wanted the big life, ikoyi, VI life, the big babe life. Well, after the separation she lived it for a while, driving Prado, latest cars etc but nowadays she's so humble. The humility in her voice these days ehn. No more Prado, no more Honda SUV.
Life. Now it's every day church and posting #whatgodcannotdodoesnotexist

hmmm

tonak:
I did my best o. Trained her in school, bought a car for her, supported her parents, paid their rent sometimes, supported the siblings too. My house was a mecca for them. Even bought a bus for the dad for transportation. But she wanted more. God knows if I had the means to do more I would have. She wanted the big life, ikoyi, VI life, the big babe life. Well, after the separation she lived it for a while, driving Prado, latest cars etc but nowadays she's so humble. The humility in her voice these days ehn. No more Prado, no more Honda SUV.
Life. Now it's every day church and posting #whatgodcannotdodoesnotexist

Hahaha ur last statement sha

tonak:



You are right. Apparently she thinks marriage/relationship is a game. She actually told someone that she was some how hoping we'd get back together until she realised I was married and with a kid too. I do not resent her, I actually do wish her well. She has apologised to me and all is well. I still send monthly allowance for the sake of my son and school fees. Last week she called me to come and take my son for the weekend. He was with me from Thursday till Sunday evening and it was beautiful. I just curious to hear her speak.

in case u decide to go ,I go tag along I wan hear wetin she go tell this our females wey no d hear word

Mryacks:


She is in the best position to speak based on her own experiences...hopefully she has changed for the better though

shut up..and don't be a simp. Who told you that a leopard change its spot.

Mariangeles:


It is either you still love her or you resent her, otherwise, you would not know or care what she does with her life.
Either way, you harbour some feelings towards her which you need to let go for your own peace of mind.

An ex-wife or ex-husband will always be in your mind no matter what, It's not something you can let go easily my sister. No be boyfriend / girlfriend relationship. You will always have soft spot for your ex-wife. So feelings still dey, albeit still very angry.

Biglittlelois:
Op, why do you care so much? You are still bothered enough to want to disguise just to attend? You are not over her? Let it go, you are married with a son, her lifestyle right now shouldn't be your concern, she has moved on,

BTW, if you did all you said you did for her, she wouldn't have left, so stop all this sob stories, of course you'd paint her bad while you were the saint that never did wrong.

Why are you so angry though?

tonak:
I did my best o. Trained her in school, bought a car for her, supported her parents, paid their rent sometimes, supported the siblings too. My house was a mecca for them. Even bought a bus for the dad for transportation. But she wanted more. God knows if I had the means to do more I would have. She wanted the big life, ikoyi, VI life, the big babe life. Well, after the separation she lived it for a while, driving Prado, latest cars etc but nowadays she's so humble. The humility in her voice these days ehn. No more Prado, no more Honda SUV.
Life. Now it's every day church and posting #whatgodcannotdodoesnotexist

She must have learnt her lessons and it could also be the other way round that not been able to sustain that life style made her focus on church for succor. One thing is certain though, she will give a great lecture that will impact the attendees.
One or two request from me, please go and update us on the keynotes of her speech, we could have one or two to learn also considering all that you did for her. And if she does impress you, please walk up to her and give her the thumbs up.

truthsayer009:


Why are you so angry though?

Clearly you must have physically seen me fuming and turning red in the face in your dreams correct?

tonak:
My ex wife will be speaking at a singles program with the title romance and finance. I wonder what she will be talking about. I probably should attend in disguise. I just want to know how she thinks now. Same woman that gave me hell for almost 10 years. Same woman that was never satisfied even though I gave her my all. Same woman that constantly compared me to other men. I just wonder. Though I'm remarried with a son . I really would love to know. Same woman who had no ish going about with other men even while married. She's now a committed sister in a church in this Lagos and a lead speaker in a conference . What will she be teaching the attendees. I should attend.

You need to attend and gain one or two things too