During preparation 4 marriage. A lot of scenarios do occur such as using the name of God profess love to the opposite sex. The funny thing is that a lady might have gotten about 10 'thus says the Lord'. We all know full well that God cant direct 10 men to a lady.

Is it that guys and ladies are just sanctimonious with the platitude 'thus says the Lord' or they really said God's mind for their lives? Which gives me the benefit of the doubt why many marriages crumble early. I have always prayed to God never 2 make mistake in marriage.

I do not undastand, all i know is i want TerryG

D-sense, God's will for your life is iyatrustee.

If God tells me that then . . .On my way to Nile River

Ow abt 190 n Ogaga?
*190 nor brk my head o*

God's wil for me is Hotie Tima.

D-sense:

If God tells me that then . . .On my way to Nile River

ROFL
If you did that then you could be missing out.


Anyways, @OP
Its always best to listen to and pick God's will for your life, no matter what

songs of solomon.keep it real

Godmother:

ROFL
If you did that then you could be missing out.


Anyways, @OP
Its always best to listen to and pick God's will for your life, no matter what

Heading to River Nile wouldn't miss me anything . . Iyatrustee? . . . Never!!!

Buhahahahahahaha

Not all those who call him Lord will enter the kingdom. So, its not evry1 dat hears the voice of God concerning marriage. But don't limit God cos He alone can do & over do!

190:

God's will in your life is b[i]orn2f[/i]uck

Dyt:

Buhahahahahahaha

Notice how she doesn't deny it.

2buff:

Notice how she doesn't deny it.

i knw God's will in my life and it is marvellous in my sight!!

Omolola1:

I do not undastand, all i know is i want TerryG

lmfao

@GODMODA, God bles u. @ upendo, tanks 4 sayin ur mind abt mariage nd u almost convince me. Bt i quite disagre 4rm ur view on spiritualizin mariage. Now, d bible say, God is a spirit nd we mst worship him in trut nd in SPIRIT, u cnt serve God efectively wit a spouse who does nt see wat u see abt God dat made u serve him. And as a mata of fact,u cnt cut away spirituality in any tin u do as d spiritual atmosphere determines d physical. Also, God gave adam a wife nd it is so wit every1. On pagans, God is a respecter of no person. U cld b a pagan nd unknwinly follow his principles 4 mariage. Paul ws suprisd when got to athens, when he found an inscription on an altar. "TO AN UNKNOWN GOD" romans 17:23. Dese felows worshipd God bt knw him nt. As u wld agre wit me, dere are blisful mariages of blivers nd unblivers nd d oda crumblin 1 on bot sides. It is a mata of obedience nd keen adherin to His principles. Nd 1 of his principle 4 mar4age is nt by nt by marying any1 dat coms ur way. U said dere ws no mariage in heaven. 100% correct bt av u also 4goten we (xtian) ar goin 2 b marid to Christ. Nd christ dnt just chose any1 to b his bride. Dere are conditions,som of which are, a virgin(d story of d 10 virgins), spotles, wrinkles, stainles, a perfect bride (church). U foda said love is natural, u cn go 4 any girl/guy u love. Yes, love is natural, bt nt any body u can feel erotical abt.4 u 2 say go 4 any girl or guy. Dats nt love. It is LUST, INFARTUATION. As u cnt love i mean eroticaly 2 more dan 1 spouse.nd dats d more reason u shuld b careful b4 tiein d nuts. U eida love a woman or lust afta a lady. @ silentscream, a gud stat, bt i tink, u dnt only hear God's voice b4 u knw God's. Dey are jst monotonous. God speaks in diverse ways. Hebrew 1:1. God speak tru signs,geinue dreams, geniue prophecy, tru ur parents nd of cos directly.

Marriage: Man and woman living together. Wedding: Telling everyone you have resumed

i have always desire a good marriage and i worked hard for it by praying and fasting and i also kept myself since my year one in school, infact even before then. now am 30 and married, my husband is heaven made for me, infact, he is a God made for me. it works to pray and know the mind of God. you can imagine, we are both lefties!

Folks use "Gods will" to get out of tight situations and even break a guy/ladys heart  

The most important question should be about Who are you and What are you bringing to a relationship? .
What are you bringing to the market?

Ask God for discernment, because its not like if God gives his will that we are always glad to follow it. What if he is blind or she has one leg? You need to trust that God is on your team and hence whatever decision good/bad is for a good end. Some decisions might look good today and bad for the future or vice versa. Discernment to see a glimpse of the bigger picture is very important.

Bible says God will give you the desires of your heart. So if you find a wife who is the desire of your heart, marry her! However you need to seek form God's approval.

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If you choose a wife that works with you and not walk by you, that understands you and knows your goals and aspirations and helps you work and plan towards achieving them. Then you inadvently have chosen God's will for you as a wife.

I believe its only in rare cases God actually points to an individuals and say "thats her". More often than not its a case of what ur heart desires.

If you choose a wife that works with you and not walk by you, that understands you and knows your goals and aspirations and helps you work and plan towards achieving them. Then you inadvently have chosen God's will for you as a wife.

I believe its only in rare cases God actually points to an individuals and say "thats her". More often than not its a case of what ur heart desires.

@ dankol.  right

I like saying marriage is an earthly institution ordained by God. It serves its purpose here and when we die its over.I wont rise up as Mrs .Upendo.
Who rules the earth? well we all know.But we are in the world but not of the world'
Now not everything is spiritual.Eating food isnt spiritual for instance but we pray over it cz we are christians.neither is making love. I doubt that anybody prays before or after making love.(will it kill the mood ? come to think of it).Well it doenst sound soo good.Just dont stress God. The former satisfies the body while the latter the soul where our emotions are. Education satisfies the soul too.Its not spiritual.
I think we mean the same thing but we interpret diffrently.See,if am christian and I meet a fellow christian then we marry then the union becomes spiritual.Why?? coz we r both spiritual beings and our marriage is based on God's solid principles .In other words we spiritualise the marriage.
By saying its not spiritual is coz gays are getting married,lesbians too,thugs just anybody can.
A Godly marriage is sealed by God Himself.Now does God seal a lesbian/gay marriage?? No.But is it marriage? Yes according to the laws of the country.
To summarise this I will say, christian marriage is performed under country's gorvening laws and sealed by God Himself,While a gay /lesbian marriage is still performed under the country's governing laws BUT not sealed by God. Thye are both marriages on earth.But we all know that the laws in heaven are diffrent.Thts why God wont allow our earthly marriages in heaven. Some suck for real.

And when it comes to searching.Oh I totaly believe in God's guidance. BUT for God's sake do your part too.Pray and search
Dont pray blindly.God gives you the desires of your heart but he also says 'seek and ye shall find'.
If you expect angels to go get you a wife or husband cz uv been fasting and praying you will wait 4 eva.
If you expect God to pop up a wife or husband in your dream then you need lots of wisdom too.
Pray and be normal. I have seen people dating abnormaly cz they are christians.They even meet in church and call that date.
Visions can be very deceiving.If you love smbody and kp visualising them the whole day then you will defnately dream.Tht doesnt mean that its God's will
Balance balance. cheers