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Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by MisterBash(m): 2:58pm On Nov 21, 2021
I feel it's not normal and someone earlier mentioned you should wait till you begin to notice any rough play.
Hmmm I feel you shouldn't option for that,reason being that; since stalking them isn't your daily job, why would you wanna wait till then? Before it will even comes to your attention, things fit don spoil and might not be easily corrected again. Please stop them now that you can.
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by Double0h7(f): 3:32pm On Nov 21, 2021
Fash20:


You mean they hate eachother

No, I mean they are at an age where they prefer to play with their own gender. The boys play with the boys and the girls are friends with the other girls.

In this case there's only the two of them so it's understandable that they play together but bathing together is not ideal and that's the decision of the adults in the house.
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by Rajman45(m): 4:34pm On Nov 21, 2021
Wtf.......u should stop them immediately. I wasn't up to 8yr when i started having feelings for ladies.
Creating gang and going after ladies within our age bracket.

That was 1996.
Barack life bad o.
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by Koolspot(m): 4:57pm On Nov 21, 2021
It is very normal because they see themselves as family and doing things together is a sign of family bonding.

Yes they will want to explore at some point but trust me they won't want to explore with each other because they will think either one will expose each other.

But it's better to start separating them now since you are having concerns.

You will have to be careful and apply wisdom in trying to separate the so they don't end up hating each other.

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Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by Cardealer2021(m): 4:58pm On Nov 21, 2021
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by Fash20: 5:27pm On Nov 21, 2021
Double0h7:


No, I mean they are at an age where they prefer to play with their own gender. The boys play with the boys and the girls are friends with the other girls.

In this case there's only the two of them so it's understandable that they play together but bathing together is not ideal and that's the decision of the adults in the house.

I get you but hate is a strong word in that case
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by Ishilove: 6:45pm On Nov 21, 2021
They see themselves as siblings and best friends hence the bond. In time, when they are approaching puberty and are beginning to be aware of the differences in their bodies, they on their own will put a stop to it without any external pressure.
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by Amedino99(m): 7:15pm On Nov 21, 2021
Ishilove:
They see themselves as siblings and best friends hence the bond. In time, when they are approaching puberty and are beginning to be aware of the differences in their bodies, they on their own will put a stop to it without any external pressure.
True but then it is not automatic. If your statement was completely true, there wouldn't be incest. The puberty stage comes with increased sexual tension in the body and given there is opportunity to test out or release the tension to the available outlet, the knowledge that they are siblings will be hanged somewhere till everything comes down in their body.
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by Double0h7(f): 7:15pm On Nov 21, 2021
Fash20:


I get you but hate is a strong word in that case

How does not liking eachother equate to hate?
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by Kingdemu: 7:55pm On Nov 21, 2021
Double0h7:


Why F would you say you didn't have an erection for your nieces They are your blood and it has nothing to do with the way you were raised. This is an awkward statement to make undecided
Blood kee you there. We marry our cousins in the North. Not just Hausa/Fulani but lots of northern tribes allow marriage between cousins.
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by flokii: 8:12pm On Nov 21, 2021
It's wrong o.. call their parents attention to this ASAP. They need to be aware and look for ways to prevent stories that touch.

While it may look innocent.. it's still a boy and girl we're talking about. One of them might have been exposed to sexual materials and will take advantage of the other.
No small pikin outside nowadays.

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Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by Daytrader1: 9:52pm On Nov 21, 2021
Flahyuq:
I'm just being curious about what I'm about to ask with my plain,simple mind....Please don't take it like something else

I have 3 siblings,big sis,big bro n a younger sister....we are 4,I'm d 2nd guy and d 3rd born
My big brother,he isnt married yet but he has a male kid with his baby mama and he doesn't live with d rest of d family,he is based in Lag finding ends and meet....the boy is 9yrs
My big sister too has female kid and she is divorced,she lives with us...the girl is 10yrs
.
The male kid of my big bro comes around every friday to spend d weekend with us n lives on sunday while d female kid of my big sis lives with us permanantly


What I'm curious about is that,whenever d boy comes around to do his weekend,the boy n d girl do everything together,the sleep together,eat together n all that....but what suprises me n find disturbing is that they also bath together......Pls is it normal for both kid to bath naked together??
With d way things are going in d world dz days,i find it so disturbing

A 9yr old boy n a 10yr old girl both naked n bath together....pls whats ur view about this??

The girl is in basic 4 and the boy is also in basic 4


Please Educate me,is it normal or Not??

cc Lalasticlala

Not Norma, separate them ASAP, hormones don't lie
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by Originalsly: 10:53pm On Nov 21, 2021
Not a pervert. There is nothing wrong with the two sleeping and bathing together. At this age ... with information they have access to ... it is inappropriate to have them bathing together. There is nothing to explain to them.... but as an adult ... you should sit down with other adults in the home and let them know it is time to start separating the two in settings that can sow the seed of intimacy. The bathing together need to stop first ... by laying down agreed rules like who should bathe first and at the same time teaching the girl how to cover herself after bath ... and allowing her privacy in dressing. Well the boy.... hmmm.... let him find his own way!
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by femi4: 5:04am On Nov 22, 2021
Flahyuq:
I'm just being curious about what I'm about to ask with my plain,simple mind....Please don't take it like something else

I have 3 siblings,big sis,big bro n a younger sister....we are 4,I'm d 2nd guy and d 3rd born
My big brother,he isnt married yet but he has a male kid with his baby mama and he doesn't live with d rest of d family,he is based in Lag finding ends and meet....the boy is 9yrs
My big sister too has female kid and she is divorced,she lives with us...the girl is 10yrs
.
The male kid of my big bro comes around every friday to spend d weekend with us n lives on sunday while d female kid of my big sis lives with us permanantly


What I'm curious about is that,whenever d boy comes around to do his weekend,the boy n d girl do everything together,the sleep together,eat together n all that....but what suprises me n find disturbing is that they also bath together......Pls is it normal for both kid to bath naked together??
With d way things are going in d world dz days,i find it so disturbing

A 9yr old boy n a 10yr old girl both naked n bath together....pls whats ur view about this??

The girl is in basic 4 and the boy is also in basic 4


Please Educate me,is it normal or Not??

cc Lalasticlala
You better separate them. You shouldn't allow a boy n a girl "baff" together
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by femi4: 5:07am On Nov 22, 2021
Ishilove:
They see themselves as siblings and best friends hence the bond. In time, when they are approaching puberty and are beginning to be aware of the differences in their bodies, they on their own will put a stop to it without any external pressure.
Easier said than done. There is an attraction between cousins and nieces these days
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by SocialJustice: 7:49am On Nov 22, 2021
Flahyuq:
I'm just being curious about what I'm about to ask with my plain,simple mind....Please don't take it like something else

I have 3 siblings,big sis,big bro n a younger sister....we are 4,I'm d 2nd guy and d 3rd born
My big brother,he isnt married yet but he has a male kid with his baby mama and he doesn't live with d rest of d family,he is based in Lag finding ends and meet....the boy is 9yrs
My big sister too has female kid and she is divorced,she lives with us...the girl is 10yrs
.
The male kid of my big bro comes around every friday to spend d weekend with us n lives on sunday while d female kid of my big sis lives with us permanantly


What I'm curious about is that,whenever d boy comes around to do his weekend,the boy n d girl do everything together,the sleep together,eat together n all that....but what suprises me n find disturbing is that they also bath together......Pls is it normal for both kid to bath naked together??
With d way things are going in d world dz days,i find it so disturbing

A 9yr old boy n a 10yr old girl both naked n bath together....pls whats ur view about this??

The girl is in basic 4 and the boy is also in basic 4


Please Educate me,is it normal or Not??

cc Lalasticlala
No be una teach them? Mind your business abeg, when the girl breast start to come out, she will excuse herself.
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by Bennysam: 8:28am On Nov 22, 2021
[quote author=luvmijeje post=107822981]Oga it is not normal o. But all the adults in your family are irresponsible o. How can you allow it to get to the stage of them taking their bath together.

With immediate alacrity, sit them down and draw the line. [/que
Everybody won't be like you and your family
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by IJOBA11: 9:15am On Nov 22, 2021
novia22:
Pls stop them asap before you have a case incest amongst you......they can eat together and play together but bathing and sleeping together is a No No.

No matter how disciplined you are or your family is, there are things you don't joke with. These kids go to school and mix up with other kids whose background you know nothing about.

There is a saying in my language: You don't use the tool for cleaning ear to clean the eyes...do you want to burst the eyes?

Don't let this eyes burst under your nose.
WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY INCEST DID THEY SUCK THE SAME BREAST
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by Tallesty1(m): 10:17am On Nov 22, 2021
Sonnobax15:
And trust me,I didn't for once have any erection at all....You know why,it was because of how we were brought up....
.
Seeing your blood relation unclad isn't arousing, it's embarrassing and annoying but that was before the world became mad.
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by novia22(f): 1:35pm On Nov 22, 2021
IJOBA11:
WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY INCEST DID THEY SUCK THE SAME BREAST

Werey.....
Incest means a crime of having sexual intercourse with a parent, child, sibling, or grandchild.

Those kids are as good as siblings.....
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by IJOBA11: 6:49pm On Nov 29, 2021
novia22:


Werey.....
Incest means a crime of having sexual intercourse with a parent, child, sibling, or grandchild.

Those kids are as good as siblings.....
REALLY I DON’T KNOW WHY A MERE MORTAL LIKE YOU IS TRYING TO RE-WRITE THE LAW OF GOD
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by novia22(f): 12:11pm On Dec 08, 2021
IJOBA11:
REALLY I DON’T KNOW WHY A MERE MORTAL LIKE YOU IS TRYING TO RE-WRITE THE LAW OF GOD

I give up on you.
Re: Please Don't Call Me A Pervert,i'm Just Being Curious by IJOBA11: 8:58am On Feb 12, 2022
novia22:


I give up on you.
WHY GIVING UP ON YOURSELF BRUH

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