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Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:41pm On Nov 25, 2021
Please is it compulsory that a lady must know how to cook before marriage? What if her fiance accepts her like that, should she still entertain any fears or she should go learn before the marriage.

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by MufasaLion: 9:42pm On Nov 25, 2021
It's not a must for lady to know how to cook. Well, that's my own opinion.

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by habsydiamond(m): 9:42pm On Nov 25, 2021
It depend on the kind of guy u want to marry.. If u are marrying a white guy u do t need to know how to cook.. Na eatery go suffer am.. If Na big naija Boi same Na restaurant, eateries go suffer am but if Na the average guy.. U marry nobody go tell u b4 u go go learn for utube or go get teacher wey go teach u.. Cos if dem use food frustrate ur life fear go catch u.... Most men for lovey lovey stage will accept anything from their ladies oo. But get married first Na den u go know say an hungry man is an angry man.

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by wunmi590(m): 9:42pm On Nov 25, 2021


It is a must for every woman to know how to cook, that's why majority of our African mother make sure that all their daughter learn the art of cooking....

Women stay home more when they get married, so Inturn dish better food for the children and be able to protect them from what they eat...

Even white women wey dey eat yanma yanma self dey cook...

One of the reason I married my wife is because she's a great cook, I can't go near any woman that doesn't know how to cook

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by KingEverest: 9:44pm On Nov 25, 2021
Depends on the man she's about to marry, if he's ok with it or not undecided

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Nov 25, 2021
MufasaLion:
It's not a must for lady to know how to cook. Well, that's my own opinion.
What of her inlaws,will they be OK with it?

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 9:44pm On Nov 25, 2021
Iyaebe:
Please is it compulsory that a lady must know how to cook before marriage? What if her fiancee accepts her like that,should she still entertain any fears or she should go learn before the marriage.
It isn't mandatory except if you make it so for your own self and your relationship. undecided

Marriage is not one-size-fits-all. That contract is between a man and a woman to design as they see fit. undecided

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by ojun50(m): 9:45pm On Nov 25, 2021
Real men don't play with food.

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by MufasaLion: 9:47pm On Nov 25, 2021
Iyaebe:
What of her inlaws,will they be OK with it?

Is the union for the in-laws or for the man? Moreover, in this modern day that people don't even live close to their family, there shouldn't be much or no problem.

Well, nobody can dictate to me what to do with my life.

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Nov 25, 2021
KingEverest:
Depends on the man she's about to marry, if he's ok with it or not undecided
The man is OK with it and she told him the truth without hiding anything but should she be worried about her In-laws? especially the mother in-law to be

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 9:47pm On Nov 25, 2021
ojun50:
Real men don't play with food.
You were raised believing that is why you think that. undecided

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by ojun50(m): 9:48pm On Nov 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
You were raised believing that is why you think that. undecided

No wonder you are always eating gala nd pesi

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Treasure17(m): 9:50pm On Nov 25, 2021
Not compulsory but it's necessary.

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:50pm On Nov 25, 2021
Kobojunkie:
It isn't mandatory except if you make it so for your own self and your relationship. undecided

Marriage is not one-size-fits-all. That contract is between a man and a woman to design as they see fit. undecided
The fear of the in-laws not accepting her is the main issue but the fiancée is OK with it.

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:50pm On Nov 25, 2021
She must learn how to cook ooo, because the way to a man's heart is through his stomach wink
Make e no con go another woman house go dey chop better food for there.

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 9:51pm On Nov 25, 2021
ojun50:
No wonder you are always eating gala nd pesi
I don't eat Gala and Pesi since I can actually cook myself a good meal whenever I want. undecided

So, unless the next person is a world class chef, meaningless things like whether my partner can cook or not is not a stressor in my life and relationship. undecided

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:51pm On Nov 25, 2021
ojun50:
Real men don't play with food.
Is it enough reason to end a relationship

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by KingEverest: 9:52pm On Nov 25, 2021
Iyaebe:
The man is OK with it and she told him the truth without hiding anything but should she be worried about her In-laws? especially the mother in-law to be
Mother inlaw will never accept definitely

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by ojun50(m): 9:54pm On Nov 25, 2021
Iyaebe:
Is it enough reason to end a relationship

It depend

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Kobojunkie: 9:54pm On Nov 25, 2021
Iyaebe:
The fear of the in-laws not accepting her is the main issue but the fiancée is OK with it.
If her in-laws are the kind to intrude in her marriage and business, I would advice her to refuse them first. undecided

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by advanceDNA: 9:54pm On Nov 25, 2021
Money ...dem no get...
Vagina...dem don dash like 25 men with several abortions to match...
Just to sabi cook.??.. u still want make the man accept you like that...
na only fvck you wan come do for inside marriage?? Well done

Anyways ... wahala for guys wey wan marry

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Flexherbal(m): 9:56pm On Nov 25, 2021
That is between the girl and her husband to be.

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Nov 25, 2021
KingEverest:

Mother inlaw will never accept definitely
That's the problem especially how important mother in-laws are but the fiancée won't tell anyone she can't cook

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Nov 25, 2021
Beebah2000:
She must learn how to cook ooo, because the way to a man's heart is through his stomach wink
Make e no con go another woman house go dey chop better food for there.
Not all men,cooking skills ain't that important to some men

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Nobody: 10:01pm On Nov 25, 2021
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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by KingEverest: 10:03pm On Nov 25, 2021
Iyaebe:
That's the problem especially how important mother in-laws are but the fiancée won't tell anyone she can't cook
He can't hide it forever, she'll visit, she will come for omugu grin

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Nov 25, 2021
Iyaebe:
Not all men,cooking skills ain't that important to some men
na true sha smiley
Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Olunmercy56(f): 10:18pm On Nov 25, 2021
Yes

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by TheeDetective: 11:02pm On Nov 25, 2021
@Op; YES IT IS COMPULSORY

That said, you don’t need to wait until you are getting married before you know how to cook. Both male and female should KNOW HOW TO COOK. There are different avenues to learn how to cook and YOUTUBE comes to mind. Learning how to cook shouldn't be a huge task.
Iyaebe:
Please is it compulsory that a lady must know how to cook before marriage? What if her fiancee accepts her like that,should she still entertain any fears or she should go learn before the marriage.

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by Truvelisback(m): 11:04pm On Nov 25, 2021
Iyaebe:
Please is it compulsory that a lady must know how to cook before marriage? What if her fiancee accepts her like that,should she still entertain any fears or she should go learn before the marriage.
It is compulsory.

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by crackhaus: 11:11pm On Nov 25, 2021
This one that almost everybody is just talking about man and husband... cheesy

My own is, a woman that doesn't know how to to cook, how will she be able to feed her own children properly?

This is just one example of the many problems bedeviling you so-called modern women – una nor dey ever gree think further than the length of your wigs and fake eyelashes.



Iyaebe:
Please is it compulsory that a lady must know how to cook before marriage? What if her fiancee accepts her like that, should she still entertain any fears or she should go learn before the marriage.
As the fiancé has accepted her like that, should the unborn kids who will require good nutrition for proper growth also accept her like that?

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Re: Is It Compulsory For A Lady To Know How To Cook Before Marriage? by AdaSunshine(f): 11:54pm On Nov 25, 2021
Yes, it is very compulsory for a woman to know how to cook before marriage, if not for anything, for the sake of her children.
How can you as a woman nurture healthy children when you don't even know how to cook, how much more cook nutritional food?
A woman who does not know how to cook should endeavour to learn how to cook first before getting married.

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