Nlanders will not kill me with laughter o. He's 28 and the last time he had sex was 20years ago!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Be smart, something is not adding up about your babe, I'd better be wrong about my suspicion.


You are 28. why wait for 5 years? There is no law against getting married as a student. children issues can come much later.

but really, which kin guy u be @6, how old was d girl you pot?

didn't know semen cures bacterial infections.

Creamish:

[b]Firstly . . your 28 and uv not had sex for over 20yrs . . . when did u first have sex? wow . .

2ndly . . .the Doc has given u his advice based on experience. There is a greater being than the Doc. If indeed u intend to wed her after her service year, talk to God about it. He can do all things. Secondly, if its a bacterial infection, there are drugs for it. He is not insisting that it will be frequent if u guyz r not married . . . he is just saying it can be averted with frequent sex. There is a possibility she may not have it again even if she dosnt get married in 5 yrs . . .

Good luck. [/b]

man, I was thinking the same thing. He stopped when he was about 8, maybe he started in his mother's womb.

Loveangel:

Hahahahahaha there is only one tin i culd make out of dis purportd story.is likely d gal in question wants u to start f.uckin her b4 sumone else does and she doesnt knw hw to tell u directly.women r so crafty,it hs happened to sum guy i knw lol.i wil sugest u demand for d doctors report or alternatively make out tim to visit her in sch and den follow her to anoda hospital for a fresh test,there culd be posibility she is lyin to u(jst my opinion sha)-----AND secondly bros u too much oo,so u startd f.uckin wen u were six yrs and stoppd wen u were eight yrs?infact i hv deduced dat two of u r bloody LIARS****mcheew****

Roland17:

Nairaland and exaggeration, why nollywood no go blossom, with creative story tellers like this one, do you mean you had sex wen you were 8yrs? common man, we don old pass that lie.that lie don spoil the story, better luck next time,

You can interpret dis story in wateva way u want, its ur opinions as u earlier said, just want you to realise that it is not evry story that u tink was formulated. Am jst a frnd lookin for help.

Da Doctor:

Nice one dear, You used the word may, and that is good.

There are many ways to this,

Yes it can be cured , but you arent the one who carried out the preliminary diagnosis so you cant say for sure and to worsen it, the poster is not the patient here, he is just a relay.

FROM MY LITTLE EXPERIENCE, BACTERIAL INFECTIONS CAN BE CURED LIKE YOU ALSO SAID, But thorough andd repeated diagnosis should be done cos doctors of varied ideologies and school of tots exist.IMAGINE THE SEX THERAPY ADVISED BY THE DOCTOR.


I STILL RECOMMEND A RE-EXAMINATION/DIAGNOSIS AND SAME SHOULD BE DONE TRU A SPECIALIST GYNAECOLOGIST.

Tanx bro, you hav really been so helpful. I'll do as u say.

bababuff:

Kai! what a story, you lying thwart.  

But I believe you, cos my kid sister started having sex at age 4 and had a baby at age 6. Then she stopped having sex.
Now, she is 21 years and thinks she is a virgin.

You can say wateva u like or call me wateva u like, its ur opinion.

Wait a minute,Hw r u SURE dat your babe is truely a virgin??any fingerin examination??be smart man though u too dey form virgin for her,RODFLMAO

The devil specialises in raising charges against any situation will attract the blessing of God. With no doubt i see the acusing finger of the devil in the whole matter. Think about the bacteria its not of God but satan's tools of destruction. What about the doctor's statement? Its nothing but a lie with the aim to bring fear in you ( fear the enemy of faith), also the devil's tool. My brother, please don't be scared, wait for her and focus on the blessings of undifiled marriage. God bless you

OMG,i dont believe the story

Far be it from the poster to put the details, but has it occurred to some people here he may have been sexually abused at a  young age?  It may be safe to say he's not good as explaining himself as clearly as he could, but from his comments but that's the only reason to have sex at 6 or 8, willingly or unwillingly.  That is not impossible and this is not unknown to happen in Nigeria.

He does not need to go into details if he doesn't want to. The fact that he's said little about it says a lot, whether it's seen as a Nollywood story or the truth.

DeCleff:

The devil specialises in raising charges against any situation will attract the blessing of God. With no doubt i see the acusing finger of the devil in the whole matter. Think about the bacteria its not of God but satan's tools of destruction. What about the doctor's statement? Its nothing but a lie with the aim to bring fear in you ( fear the enemy of faith), also the devil's tool. My brother, please don't be scared, wait for her and focus on the blessings of undifiled marriage. God bless you

Tanx for the enkoragement bro, God bless you.

N101:

Far be it from the poster to put the details, but has it occurred to some people here he may have been sexually abused at a young age? It may be safe to say he's not good as explaining himself as clearly as he could, but from his comments but that's the only reason to have sex at 6 or 8, willingly or unwillingly. That is not impossible and this is not unknown to happen in Nigeria.

He does not need to go into details if he doesn't want to. The fact that he's said little about it says a lot, whether it's seen as a Nollywood story or the truth.

Jst as u said, i dont want to really go into wat happened to me at my tender age, was a bitter experience. But i tink da issue hear is not abt me, its abt my frnd and dats y am askin for advise from frnds on the forum. My own issue is history now, the present is wat am concerned abt. its not jst a story, its da reality am facing now.

This diagnosis and treatment get k leg o. Are you sure your girl is not just tired of waiting for you to pop the question. How does bacteria in the stomach gets cured from having sex.

stupid faggotz!! was there anyfin like sex age
even kidz of 5 do finger themselves!!!
at 8 i already had sex, sweet bangin!!

Anyway, just go for a second opinion. It may be a serious medical issue. You need to get more information about it and the proper cure.
Or, it could be that she is ready and does not know how to tell you. I'll also suggest that you get her to read all these comments.

Your girlfriend is tired of Waiting.

She can not proposed to you so she brought up this story to make you hurry up the marriage.

So marry her right away else you stand the risk of losing her if the opportunity presents itself.

well, even if it is not true, pls contribute to the solution. what i can say is that you get second, third opinion to know what is up with her. Above all be calm and trust God.

Well if wat u ar saying is true, I fink u should be grateful unto God for given u a Virgin as a gift, as for the doctor’s prescription. I fink u should go and sleep, because whatsoever dat God have said no body can change it. Nothing will happen to her, the only thing dat u need is faithfulness unto God and never commit fornication, because obedient is better than sacrifice, obey God and reap the fruit of God’s blessng

@longone
so you believe he was sexually active at 8? with who, except he was raped or abused.
@OP
as much as you need help, do not exaggerated stories, if you were born in 1983, you mean you had sex in 1991 wen you were 8, when the level of moral discipline was still very high? sorry i don't believe that, if u were a generation x baby, i would i have given it a tot, because kids of nowadays are bad.

Another reason to thank God is the the infection is curable; and luckily you have the cure. Apply the cure my brother. What would you have done if the doc had pronounced it incurable.

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This story is filled with lies, I wonder why it's on the front page.

(1) He had sex at age 6 and stopped at 8 and for 20years, has not had sex, boy, when did you enter puberty?
(2) She is 21 and thinks she is a virgin
(3) The worst part is the part concerning the Doctor and the so called medical advise.

Bros, please go and get a job, I feel angry reading your post

@spyker
Thank God say no b only me c am, Nigerians are danmmmm to gullible and make judgement based on emotion and sentiments, that is one reason why the country is where it is today. lets read that post properly and analyse it.

@ Roland17


It is possible. Assuming he was the adventurous male who saw mummy and daddy doin’ it/watched animals on discovery channel mate, and decided to practice it on the house girl? No offense intended.


Or someone older fancied him (say his senior sisters friend) and decided to try him?


Point is, there are lots of sick people out there (p.e.d.o.p.h.i.l.e.s.), maybe not too many in Naija, but out here man, u can never tell.


As someone rightly said, the fact he doesn’t want to disclose any more details speaks for itself, u guys should give him the benefit of the doubt and advise him on the main issue.

ItsModella:

man, I was thinking the same thing. He stopped when he was about 8, maybe he started in his mother's womb.

I tire oh, another Toronto gist.

RUBBISH. Since when did Sex became an anti-bacteria. I never heard or read that the fluids from both sexes contain antiseptics )
She doesn't have STD's

Please get another opinion from a different physician, A reputable one from a reputable hospital.

Both of you will need to see another specialist doctor to confirm the issue. A Doctor may diagnose wrongly, remembre Chief. Gani Fawehinmi? His cancer was wrongly diagnosed and treated as something else!

d fluiid in d pouch of douglas cannot be cured with intercourse, mayb d doctor advised her to get married to stop sleepin around, virgin indeed

@OP:
Your girlfriend is not telling you the full story. She's boldly lying to you. Based on what you 've narrated: she most likely has pelvic inflammatory disease. No doctor, I repeat no doctor will tell her to get married as soon as possible because of a "stomach" infection. Rather I am sure the doctor told her that she may have difficulties becoming pregnant in future because of the STD she has. You better shine your eyes, before this woman stampedes you into marriage or premarital sex. There many unfortunate fools who are deceived into marriage by women hiding their history only for the truth to come out when they cannot become pregnant. My advice to you is to end this relationship.

emans:

d fluiid in d pouch of douglas cannot be cured with intercourse, mayb d doctor advised her to get married to stop sleepin around, virgin indeed

^
Agree 100% with this.

Halo pals

Am into a very serious relatnship which i pray will end up in marriage. My friend happens to be a virgin and i tink i will classify myself as one too since i have not had sex for over twenty years now. We had promised each other sex only after our marriage. Now,our challenge is dat, she had an irregularity in her menstraul period last month, after wch we decided it is neccessary she sees a doctor. After seeing the doctor, he said she had some bacterial infection in the stomach and prescribed some antibiotic drugs for her. He also said the only way to reduce such infections later is for her to get married on time cos frequent sex will reduce such, shez just 23 now and about to graduate and am 28 though am working. Am really afraid cos i dnt want to break my vow. I intend to settle down in da next one or two yrs after her service. Pls your advice will go a long way to help us overcome dis situation especially on medical grounds.

Tnx.

Not until you tell me when you began having sex will i release my advise to you since you claimed it was 20yrs and you are 28 now. Trust me

ogb5:

Your girlfriend is tired of Waiting.

She can not proposed to you so she brought up this story to make you hurry up the marriage.

So marry her right away else you stand the risk of losing her if the opportunity presents itself.

word. if u love her then go to registry after she graduates. But women sha!

Without making references I think there are a whole bunch of ignorant people here. Just because you started having sex at 21 doesn't mean others didn't start earlier than that but because you live in your little bubbles which you consider your universe you've placed a cap on age at sex. Let it be known here that I know someone who started at the age of four. If you think it's not possible ask guys who grew up in households filled with aunties and other female relations. You may call it abuse or whatever but then that was when they started having sex. Pull your wise heads out of your buttholes!!

I was thought that some anatomical malformations can predispose an individual to recurrent urinary tract infections(UTI). What my lecturers failed to teach me is that frequent sexual intercourse reduces the chances of UTI(in fact, it actually enhances it). I'm at lost here. No doctor who's worth his onion will give you such an advice. You have to do more to convince me that you are not making up stories. The logic seems absurd, medically. You guys should not attribute the cock and bull stories of yours to people in the noble profession. Be aware that learned people visits NL. Therefore do not turn this elite forum into an avenue to spew out bullshits or misinform people.

While such infection, pelvic inflamatory disease (PID) is mostly due to STDs, some people can be unlucky and the cause is idiopathic: unknown cause. The vagina for example is bursting with lactobaccili and totally normal. But for whhatever reasons, they can move up into cervix, womb, the tubes and even beyond. Now those areas are used to being sterile and invasion by bacteria that are totally at home in vagina can cause infections there.

We all witness thunderstorms frequently but sometimes some unlucky random  person is killed by thunderstrike. Also happens in PID.

First seek an O&G doctor if the previous one was not. Seek second opinion.
Poster may not have explained the matter properly. Also some Naija doctors can be patronising and give a very simplistic explanation.
Repeated PID can lead to infertility. Since you're more likely to have another PID if you've had one before, the doctor might just have meant marry soon and start your family soon (knowing the virginity story)as the lady could  have her fertility decline faster with age  more than those who never had PID. Doctors have some experience in practice which books may not mention. There are also some drugs doctors use in exceptional cases that are not officially registered for that particular  illness BUT it is known to work often by unknown pharmacological mechanism.

WHILE WE TALK OF MIRACLES as Africans always we tend to forget that the fact that many diseases that were incurable and untreatable/uncontrolable 50 years ago now have medication/therapy is ALREADY a miracle.
THE attitude of waiting for manna to fall from heaven as miracle baffles me.
An excuse to escape reality and abdicate our responsibilities??