Hey fellas in the house, its been a while as am super duber busy doing my honey moon online with my wifey to be but it's good to see the beautiful and ugly faces on NL world once again.

I happen to struck up a conversation with my friend of recent and his comment regarding women and quality of life. It went like this, if you cant provide for her why should she stay around. As sadly a statement as it sounds, I come to agree in many situations, men have no chance at a successful relation if they cant provide finances, stability, and other check lists many women have regarding essentials for a relationship. I cant help to think are we as a society that shallow, bypassing good people for holding out on material gains, and loosing characteristics, chance at love in the name of materials? I realize there are some that have inner fortatude and dont succume to that, but I cant help realizing that many bypass what they value as meaningful to a succesful relationship.

What is your view on the topic?