NovesaTillie:
You married a slay queen like me and you want her to be a full wife Material

You don't have many options now than to make do with the content in the package you came home with.

Wow I like your smartness to easily decipher another slay queen like yourself

Don't tell me you come with those package too

Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.

bablon20:
Oga OP u said u married her in January (which year) because we are still in January o. Now she's already 4 months pregnant, how did you do it. Hope it's not your ere gele with her that forced you into forceful marriage with her?

Slynation:
Omo... it's not easy oO

Some of you always fond of saying "you didn't see it during dating/courtship" I find this phrase ridiculous because we all know some of this gender are two facets...!! This are dsame people that will serve you breakfast in bed, clean the whole house before you even wake up, wear big polo and cook variety of food and store in your freezer that can last you for 2 weeks, then within you, you will say YES, she's the right one for me, but immediately after you married her, she will start raining hell, fire and brimstone... that was how they scammed my cousin brother and now he couldn't even complain because my uncle detected the scam and warned him ahead of time but Baba was blinded by fine face, big ass and big boobs...

Since I'm not the one in this position, this marriage complains sounds like cruise to me...!! Person go knee down propose to wahala spend money pay bride price of wahala, then call friends,family and well wishers to witness a union between him and wahala... now e come here dey complain give us...!!

Mom007:
Kikikikiiii sharwama, pepper soup and sugar cane in one hand got me rotfl!
Oga see ern, I have no pity for you what so ever! The sooner you men learn that you cannot eat your cake and have it, the better for you. There was something my father used to tell my sis and I back in the day... He used to say wife material is different from girlfriend material and a sensible man knows how to differentiate between the two. You sir, are obviously not sensible that's why you carried a girlfriend material and made her your wife! The time and dedication some women put into this makeup of a thing us enough to clue you in to what class of woman she is but no, you didn't see it. Any lady that always has full face beat or whatever they call it of makeup whenever you see her is not a serious person. That thing takes at least 1hr to do. How can a person that uses 1hr to make up per time be serious? Then pls, her love for zeeworld and sharwama and pepper soup didn't start today. Its possible those are the things you used to snatch her from her ex boyfriend sef! .
Oga, if I even tell you what to do to correct this scenario, you cannot even do it as I am looking at you so pls, carry your cross and continue to do as you are already doing. What has been joined together, is it me that will put it asunder?

NovesaTillie:
You married a slay queen like me and you want her to be a full wife Material

You don't have many options now than to make do with the content in the package you came home with.

Landmack:
It’s obvious those that married for beauty are the ones sending epistles and gracing the FP of Nairaland. Single men better open ur eyes and learn from these guys.

After marrying big ass,big breast,fine face and pointed nose..u come back here to disturb us with marital questions.
Since Christmas on NL all we have been reading is reports by husbands of slay queens

NovesaTillie:
You married a slay queen like me and you want her to be a full wife Material

You don't have many options now than to make do with the content in the package you came home with.

NovesaTillie:
You married a slay queen like me and you want her to be a full wife Material

You don't have many options now than to make do with the content in the package you came home with.

BigJoe19:
Lol, like we forced them to marry.

frozen70:


She looks lazy because you do things for her most times

By the time she puts to bed, you may be the one to nurse the baby while she breast feed the baby and that's all

At times, we use madness to correct nonsense behaviours

Let her keep subscribing until she can no longer do so, you can watch match on your phone subscription

You have to fashion a way to handle her before you finally becomes the house help

Even if you buy the car, you will be the one to service and fuel it

Let her show signs of commitments before you invest or spend more

Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I

teegurl2:
But what's with all the He married a fine girl Slay queen bla bla, and fine girls don't cook and clean?
Na was!

So na only ugly girls without big nyansh dey cook and clean?

Am a fine girl, please. I have two kids! I have help but I do all the cooking, I clean sometimes too cos my husband is a neat freak so everywhere must be neat at all times.

This holiday season my help left, I have been doing ALL. When you see me outside without my kids you won't even believe am married.

So it's not about Slay Queen abeg.

That lady is just lazy or she prolly has not settled into marriage life yet.

Secondly, a lady that is already working before marriage will make a better wife. Cos she don see life, she no go dey waste money anyhow.

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
Op please wait, let the pregnancy period pass, when she give birth and she still behaving thesame way, know that you've made a mistake. But I'm sure she will change

NovesaTillie:
You married a slay queen like me and you want her to be a full wife Material

You don't have many options now than to make do with the content in the package you came home with.

virginchaser:
Bros work on her. Wake her up dead in the night and explain what you want from her. Also pray with her. She may possibly reason with you and change. It is always a gradual process.

My former landlord's wife refused to follow her husband to village for new year celebration because DSTV network in the village couldn't pick up ZeeWorld.

Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.

Fred166:
I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.