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Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by HardMirror(m): 8:02am On Jan 07, 2022
I remember a pastor back then saying married people should try and watch porn once a while so that their marriage would be interesting. He claims sex is one of the issues in marriage and you need to work on it to make the relationship work.

So it is ok for married people to watch porn in order to improve their sexual relationship?

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by CAPSLOCKED: 8:07am On Jan 07, 2022
HardMirror:
So it is ok for married people to watch porn in order to improve their sexual relationship?

WHY VISIT XVIDEOS WHEN YOU CAN VISIT A CHURCH AND PRAY TO IMPROVE SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP?
THERE'S NOTHING THAT PRAYER DOESN'T SOLVE. IN FACT, FOR OVER 3 MONTHS I HAVEN'T SEEN MY PHONE OR ANYTHING. I JUST SAY SOME PRAYERS AND THESE THOUGHTS APPEAR ON NAIRALAND IN WRITING.
GOD IS THE GREATEST.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by Comedian2019: 8:07am On Jan 07, 2022
Mummy GO says they are going to hell.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by HardMirror(m): 8:11am On Jan 07, 2022
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WHY VISIT XVIDEOS WHEN YOU CAN VISIT A CHURCH AND PRAY TO IMPROVE SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP?
THERE'S NOTHING THAT PRAYER DOESN'T SOLVE. IN FACT, FOR OVER 3 MONTHS I HAVEN'T SEEN MY PHONE OR ANYTHING. I JUST SAY SOME PRAYERS AND THESE THOUGHTS APPEAR ON NAIRALAND IN WRITING.
GOD IS THE GREATEST.
ok sir. That is one solution

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by Ibaaboy(m): 8:25am On Jan 07, 2022
Noted

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by hakeem4(m): 8:25am On Jan 07, 2022
As a sane and normal person, it is not a sin cause it does not harm anybody.
But why is sex seen as sacred to religion?

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by HardMirror(m): 8:38am On Jan 07, 2022
hakeem4:
As a sane and normal person, it is not a sin cause it does not harm anybody.
But why is sex seen as sacred to religion?
as a sane person, sins dont exist only crimes

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by MistarT(m): 9:00am On Jan 07, 2022
Romans
1:29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 1:30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents
1:31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
1:32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that THEY WHICH COMMIT SUCH THINGS ARE WORTHY OF DEATH, NOT ONLY DO THE SAME, BUT HAVE PLEASURE IN THEM THAT DO THEM.


Watching porn is having pleasure in lawlessness and obscenity and that's a very grievous offence before The Heavenly Father, if a man or woman has an inept sexual capacity he or she should meet the originator of sex (God himself) the devil is too daft to instigate such supernatural process (sex) so go back to the manufacturer because all the organs used are created by Him

God is The Supreme Deity and the world will begin to see another great dimension of Him.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by HardMirror(m): 9:05am On Jan 07, 2022
MistarT:
Romans
1:29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 1:30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents
1:31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
1:32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that THEY WHICH COMMIT SUCH THINGS ARE WORTHY OF DEATH, NOT ONLY DO THE SAME, BUT HAVE PLEASURE IN THEM THAT DO THEM.


Watching porn is having pleasure in lawlessness and obscenity and that's a very grievous offence before The Heavenly Father, if a man or woman has an inept sexual capacity he or she should meet the originator of sex (God himself) the devil is too daft to instigate such supernatural process (sex) so go back to the manufacturer because all the organs used are created by Him

God is The Supreme Deity and the world will begin to see another great dimension of Him.
thanks for your contribution. So it is a sin. And you have given good reasons why Christians even married should not watch porn for any reason

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by MistarT(m): 9:12am On Jan 07, 2022
HardMirror:
thanks for your contribution. So it is a sin. And you have given good reasons why Christians even married should not watch porn for any reason
You're welcome.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by tillaman(m): 9:14am On Jan 07, 2022
According to statistics
75% of couples are battling with their sex life, more like the women are sex starved, So if it’s the porn that will spice up your sex life I don’t see why not!
Quick question: why is it wrong to self-service life out of yourself but it’s okay to get a hand job from a lady, is it not the same thing as wanking yourself to climax, shebi hand na hand either left or right

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by HardMirror(m): 9:15am On Jan 07, 2022
MistarT:
You're welcome.
I hope others would defend their stance as you did. Cos it is not a joke. Sex is a big issue in marriages

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by MistarT(m): 9:53am On Jan 07, 2022
HardMirror:
I hope others would defend their stance as you did. Cos it is not a joke. Sex is a big issue in marriages
You see my brother, the issue the world is having about marriage(s) is that "people marry who they want not who they need" God is not interested in wants (especially when it comes to key life issues like marriage) He is interested in NEEDS.

Philippians 4
[19]And this same God who takes care of me will supply all your needs from his glorious riches, which have been given to us in Christ Jesus.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by HardMirror(m): 9:57am On Jan 07, 2022
MistarT:
You see my brother, the issue the world is having about marriage(s) is that "people marry who they want not who they need" God is not interested in wants (especially when it comes to key life issues like marriage) He is interested in NEEDS.

Philippians 4
[19]And this same God who takes care of me will supply all your needs from his glorious riches, which have been given to us in Christ Jesus.

should good sex matter in Christian marriages?

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by LilMissFavvy(f): 10:23am On Jan 07, 2022
It is sin to watch another person's unclothedness. How much more watching people committing fornication. That's why we dress to cover up our private areas when in public. In all animals, you will notice that the private organs are located in hidden areas or even covered. This shows that private organ is supposed to be kept private as much as possible, and not for public view.

So many people are battling how to break free from this same porn you are talking about. They can't break free from porn and masturbation addiction. I do not think that couples who watch porn have a better sex life, but I believe that couples can improve their sex lives without watching porn.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by CAPSLOCKED: 12:42pm On Jan 07, 2022
tillaman:
Quick question: why is it wrong to self-service life out of yourself but it’s okay to get a hand job from a lady, is it not the same thing as wanking yourself to climax, shebi hand na hand either left or right

I'VE TALKED ABOUT THIS IN THE TRP THREAD BUT NOBODY WANTS TO LISTEN TO ME.
APPARENTLY, IT'S NOT A GOOD THING FOR A MAN TO WÀNK, BUT IT'S ALRIGHT WHEN A WOMAN GIVES HIM A HAND OR FOOTJOB.
CLEARLY THIS IS ONE OF THOSE GIMMICKS APPLIED TO ENFORCE WOMEN ON EVERYTHING CONCERNING MEN'S HAPPINESS AND ENJOYMENT.

2 OR MORE WOMEN RELAXING, PARTYING AND ENJOYING AND DOING NOTHING WORTHWHILE IS CALLED SISTERHOOD AND BONDING, AND WOMEN UPLIFTMENT.
2 OR MORE MEN WORKING TOGETHER TO BUILD SOMETHING REASONABLE OR EVEN EXERCISING ALONE ARE SUSPECTED TO BE MISOGYNISTIC HOMOSEXUALS WHO MUST STOP DOING ANYTHING WITHOUT INVOLVING WOMEN (EXCEPT VERY DEMANDING THINGS LIKE WARS AND MAKING MEANINGFUL CONTRIBUTIONS TO THE SOCIETY). IT'S ALL A GAME PLAN TO MAKE MEN CONTINUALLY REVOLVE THEIR LIVES AROUND WOMEN AT THE EXPENSE OF ALL THEIR MONEY AND HAPPINESS.

NOT A DISCUSSION FOR THIS THREAD ANYWAY.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by HardMirror(m): 1:22pm On Jan 07, 2022
CAPSLOCKED:


I'VE TALKED ABOUT THIS IN THE TRP THREAD BUT NOBODY WANTS TO LISTEN TO ME.
APPARENTLY, IT'S NOT A GOOD THING FOR A MAN TO WÀNK, BUT IT'S ALRIGHT WHEN A WOMAN GIVES HIM A HAND OR FOOTJOB.
CLEARLY THIS IS ONE OF THOSE GIMMICKS APPLIED TO ENFORCE WOMEN ON EVERYTHING CONCERNING MEN'S HAPPINESS AND ENJOYMENT.

2 OR MORE WOMEN RELAXING, PARTYING AND ENJOYING AND DOING NOTHING WORTHWHILE IS CALLED SISTERHOOD AND BONDING, AND WOMEN UPLIFTMENT.
2 OR MORE MEN WORKING TOGETHER TO BUILD SOMETHING REASONABLE OR EVEN EXERCISING ALONE ARE SUSPECTED TO BE MISOGYNISTIC HOMOSEXUALS WHO MUST STOP DOING ANYTHING WITHOUT INVOLVING WOMEN (EXCEPT VERY DEMANDING THINGS LIKE WARS AND MAKING MEANINGFUL CONTRIBUTIONS TO THE SOCIETY). IT'S ALL A GAME PLAN TO MAKE MEN CONTINUALLY REVOLVE THEIR LIVES AROUND WOMEN AT THE EXPENSE OF ALL THEIR MONEY AND HAPPINESS.

NOT A DISCUSSION FOR THIS THREAD ANYWAY.
you have a point. Do you know that men with pented up sexual urge, tend to go extra length to please women. But masturbating releases this sexual desire and you ain't eager to please the opposite gender any more. Most times a man thinks about a girl it is konji, masturbate and know if if you truly love/like a girl beyond her relieving your sexual urge

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by MistarT(m): 1:53pm On Jan 07, 2022
HardMirror:
should good sex matter in Christian marriages?
Of course yes, it's one of the numerous key things God orchestrated in a marriage, however it shouldn't be the only drive because love and love making alone cannot keep a marriage here is what God says about it.

Proverbs 5
[15]Drink water from your own well—     share your love only with your wife.

[16]Why spill the water of your springs in the streets,having sex with just anyone?

[17]You should reserve it for yourselves.Never share it with strangers.

[18]Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth.

[19]She is a loving deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts satisfy you always.     May you always be captivated by her love.

[20]Why be captivated, my son, by an immoral woman, or handle the breasts of a promiscuous woman?

[21]For the lord sees clearly what a man does,examining every path he takes.

Remain Blessed.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by Karleb(m): 2:30pm On Jan 07, 2022
This is one of those questions that causes hard core Christians to stammer.

Me, I hate conditional sins.

It's just the way Deeper Life would say trouser is a sin but it's not a sin during NYSC.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by Image123(m): 3:00pm On Jan 07, 2022
HardMirror:
I remember a pastor back then saying married people should try and watch porn once a while so that their marriage would be interesting. He claims sex is one of the issues in marriage and you need to work on it to make the relationship work.

So it is ok for married people to watch porn in order to improve their sexual relationship?

Lol, people should improve their marriages not really their sexual relationships. So many great sexual relationships with irreconcilable differences these days. Improved sexual relationships don't have answers for infidelity, irresponsibility, abuse or hate. Stop chasing a mirage.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by Image123(m): 3:06pm On Jan 07, 2022
HardMirror:
should good sex matter in Christian marriages?

Can you have good sex without pornography? Yes. Good sex, good food, good biology or physics, all those ones na 10% inside good marriage. There are situations people face in marriages that surpass making good food or sex. Anyway, what do single sinners know about happy godly marriages. No be hostel family life wey you see for poly oh.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by HardMirror(m): 4:28pm On Jan 07, 2022
MistarT:
Of course yes, it's one of the numerous key things God orchestrated in a marriage, however it shouldn't be the only drive because love and love making alone cannot keep a marriage here is what God says about it.

Proverbs 5
[15]Drink water from your own well—     share your love only with your wife.

[16]Why spill the water of your springs in the streets,having sex with just anyone?

[17]You should reserve it for yourselves.Never share it with strangers.

[18]Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth.

[19]She is a loving deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts satisfy you always.     May you always be captivated by her love.

[20]Why be captivated, my son, by an immoral woman, or handle the breasts of a promiscuous woman?

[21]For the lord sees clearly what a man does,examining every path he takes.

Remain Blessed.
hmmmm. Thanks again

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by mumumugu(m): 5:20pm On Jan 07, 2022
How will married people learn different styles like wheelbarrow styles

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by HardMirror(m): 6:16pm On Jan 07, 2022
mumumugu:
How will married people learn different styles like wheelbarrow styles
is it neccessary?

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by HardMirror(m): 7:46am On Jan 09, 2022
Should married Christians spice up their marriage with porn as some pastors claim married people can and should watch porn to help their sexual relationship
Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by Nobody: 7:52am On Jan 09, 2022
Direct highway to hell fire.

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by AntiChristian: 7:53am On Jan 09, 2022
cool
Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by HardMirror(m): 8:03am On Jan 09, 2022
emeernest:
Direct highway to hell fire.
I heard missionary is the only heaven approved style. Is it true?

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by chelsea1116(m): 9:49am On Jan 09, 2022
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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by Nobody: 9:49am On Jan 09, 2022
HardMirror:
I remember a pastor back then saying married people should try and watch porn once a while so that their marriage would be interesting. He claims sex is one of the issues in marriage and you need to work on it to make the relationship work.

So it is ok for married people to watch porn in order to improve their sexual relationship?

Not exactly

Porn's problem is that it gives an unrealistic view of sex. What turns a porn star on may not turn your woman or man on, and also porn stars have bodies that are to some extent very unrealistic as well (a porn film is a film, and films have characters who don't look like most people in real life.)

I suggest it is better a married couple work together to find out what turns them on.

Also, good sex begins with good relationship. If your relationship with the spouse is not good enough, no amount of porn is going to fix it.

Good sex also begins with good diet, hygiene, exercise, etc etc....

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Re: Is It A Sin For Married People To Watch Porn? Some Pastors Said No by itoldu: 9:49am On Jan 09, 2022
Hell fire straight! No £200 for passing “go”. Hell fire straight!!

On a serious note. Porn might help them get through it otherwise, if a physical 3rd party is added into the knowledge acquisition phase, things can fall apart!!!

Lastly, in the marriage, if one party is the one suggesting spicing up things, then the person “knows” what he or she wants and should work towards getting it from the Partner. If it is an external party advice, watch that porn! And practice real-time!

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