A friend who always wanted to have at least three children, after having the third child, the wife insisted they add one more, after enough quarrel the man accepted to add one more, the wife got pregnant for him and gave birth to quadruplet (4) children at a time, now making the total number of their children seven. He is very bittered now and not ready to take responsibilities for those innocent children. What advice would I give to him now.

children are blessings from God
i know of a man who left his wife and children simply because he told the wife he waz ok with just 3 children but the wife went ahead to concieve the 4th time and this annoyed him and he moved out of the house. the baby is almost 4yrs old now and the man still has not returned.

the solution to this issue is simple yet with grave implications. the Men should do a VASECTOMY, while the women have their Womb removed. that way, they can be having sex and not fear for extra children being born

Lorile odi gobe! Mehn, dis is serious. He have no choice dan to accept it bt some women no dey hear word

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ur friend should be happy,

or
dey won sale d babies?

Argh! that's what separates men from boys.
By the way just cz u can sire a child doenst make you a man.
Its how you tackle challenges.
This one is a loser.

No haba he is still in shock, he will soon be back.

what a blessing even though things may be hard.


he should get a vasectomy if he doesnt want any more children.

so who is living with him now and is the person on birth control.

some men never think practically. If he's not careful he may end up with 20 kids from various women.


the wife too should go and beg him.


and why cant he use a condom. The thing sweet am?

while some people are crying their eyes out to have something, others get it for free and still blame God for it.

The man isn't acting responsibly. he's just using the kids as an excuse to leave the home. And when those kids grow up to become great, he'd proudly claim paternity. Nonsense.

u can imagine that there were up 2 30milion sperm tryin 2 get 2 d ovary but only 4 made it. It definately means these kids has got a purpose comin 2 earth 2 fulfil, dnt make any rash decisn now because its worth d investment in d future. God has brought them 2 d earth 2 fulfil 4 uniquely different purpose.