eyinjuege:
Please move on.
She deserves better and has had enough of the disrespect.
You'll be alright last last

olabrinks:
How old is your wife and how many kids do you have

Mariangeles:
Going by your previous threads, you’ve done so so much to deliberately hurt your wife, and in every possible way a man can.
If you sincerely want your wife back, you have to work to win her heart all over again. No be chyce!
You have to woo her all over again.
You have to find a way to get through to her, though it might take time for her heart to trust you again, considering what you’ve put her through, but there might still be hope.
She’s your wife and she’s worth fighting for.

Mariangeles:
Going by your previous threads, you’ve done so so much to deliberately hurt your wife, and in every possible way a man can.

If you sincerely want your wife back, you have to work to win her heart all over again. No be chyce o!
You have to woo her all over again.
You have to find a way to get through to her, though it might take time for her heart to trust you again, considering what you’ve put her through, but there might still be hope.
She’s your wife and she’s worth fighting for.
My Father told me it's all over after talking with her .my mum said same thing.i begged her best friend to beg on my behalf but all to no avail.I really hurt her and all I can do now is wish her the best and hope she finds better love in future

ollins:


My Father told me it's all over after talking with her .my mum said same thing.i begged her best friend to beg on my behalf but all to no avail.I really hurt her and all I can do now is wish her the best and hope she finds better love in future.

ibechris:
Truly men are polygamous in nature but not when u do it to the detriment of her.

Some reasonable men out there don't joke with their wives yet they do runs.. but I guess u were so stupid to the extend that you prioritised your senseless girl friends over your family.

Who does that? only fools will do that.

To add more to this,truly u have lost your wife. Your father can't be wrong. Just pray she does not poison u at the injury time.

Blue86:
JESUS CAN HEAL THE HURTS.

RUN to The Lord Christ for help, not Run from.

emmanuelbrown26:
op since u hv tries yourpossible best, to win her back and it didnt yield positive result, just move on, after all u no kill anybody na only cheat u do.
Op are u afraid of being alone or u are afraid of something we are yet to know

ollins:
I am have been having serious issues with my wife over the years but after a very deep self soul search some days back and honest discussion with an elderly friend,you know those kind of conversation which hits you with the bitter truths.

Men I just realized say na me dey mess up,I have been begging my wife for forgiveness but I think I have pushed her to the limit as she is no budging anymore and I just realized I have lost a good woman and my marriage.

One lesson I have learnt now in Life is never to take a woman love and patience for granted and I believe that will help me in future,and also guys,only marry a woman you truly love from your deepest part of heart,forget about whether she loves you the same,when a man sincerely loves a woman,most women will always respond in kind.

My foundational problem was that I didn't love my wife deeply and that was why all the unfaithfulness from my side.

I just didn't know all the pain and ache I was causing her but I have learnt my lesson even though it's kind of late now.
She has told her family and mine that she is moving on .

My father told me it's all over,that when a woman makes up her mind,it's all over.how true is that?

Mariangeles:


How unfortunate.

What about you?
What do you really want?
Are you willing to give up without trying to win her back?
Is she not worth fighting for or is it that you just don’t love her?
Are you going to just let 12years of marriage go down without a fight?

ollins:

Trust me I am ready to fight for my marriage,I have cut off all ties with my lady friend.i have stopped going to club like I used to.
I called on the elders in her church to intervene in the matter,they too tried their best but all to avail,l see my wife and I see a new person I don't know again,I have lost her,she had stopped marital bed things with me for almost a year and intially I was so angry with her and upset over that but it's just of recent I now know that care and attention meant more to her than sleeping with me.

ollins:

Trust me I am ready to fight for my marriage,I have cut off all ties with my lady friend.i have stopped going to club like I used to.
I called on the elders in her church to intervene in the matter,they too tried their best but all to avail,l see my wife and I see a new person I don't know again,I have lost her,she had stopped marital bed things with me for almost a year and intially I was so angry with her and upset over that but it's just of recent I now know that care and attention meant more to her than sleeping with me.

ollins:
I am have been having serious issues with my wife over the years but after a very deep self soul search some days back and honest discussion with an elderly friend,you know those kind of conversation which hits you with the bitter truths.

Men I just realized say na me dey mess up,I have been begging my wife for forgiveness but I think I have pushed her to the limit as she is no budging anymore and I just realized I have lost a good woman and my marriage.

One lesson I have learnt now in Life is never to take a woman love and patience for granted and I believe that will help me in future,and also guys,only marry a woman you truly love from your deepest part of heart,forget about whether she loves you the same,when a man sincerely loves a woman,most women will always respond in kind.

My foundational problem was that I didn't love my wife deeply and that was why all the unfaithfulness from my side.

I just didn't know all the pain and ache I was causing her but I have learnt my lesson even though it's kind of late now.
She has told her family and mine that she is moving on .

My father told me it's all over,that when a woman makes up her mind,it's all over.how true is that?

ollins:
Let me cut the story short. Had a fling with this girl, along the line she got pregnant. You know all that talk of "if you could sleep with her, then you must marry her" "if you got her pregnant then you must marry her", Iooking back now, I wished I hadn't listened to all those voices.

I knew in my heart that I didn't love her, even she knew but the pressure from the family was too much, I had to marry her. On my marriage day I was practically crying within me.

Her character is just opposite of all I wanted in a woman, she's barely educated, loud and loquacious.

That's my cross I am carrying today, stuck in a loveless marriage.

The warmth and Romance is absent from our home, we have not had intimacy since beginning of the year till now, we just have no interest anymore in each other. We are just living together for the sake of our child.

My question now is how does one cope�? Is this how I am going to live the rest of my life?

Ishilove:

What made you change your mind?

Ishilove:

What made you change your mind?

baby124:


Obviously this OP has been convincing himself that he’s too good for the woman he can sleep with unprotected. I now see the reason why he thinks he can give her 12 miserable years and demand she accept him back immediately.

He’s convinced he’s better than her. Lol. Most likely the outside girl used and dumped him terribly. Now his eyes have cleared and it’s looking like he has lost at both sides.

Truvelisback:
Bro, already, it's too late. U don already Shit for Church.

ollins:

I am not afraid of anything,the truth is that I destroyed my marriage with my own hands and I feel bad about it.