Nugesboi:
This is my story.

I am a man, 38years old, married, with 3 children (2 girls and a boy). I was with a financial institution for more than ten years before my appointment was terminated 16months ago. During this period, I started a building project which I channeled both my salaries and savings toward the completion. At a point I borrowed money (from individuals) to enable me complete quickly so as to avoid renewing my rent. This loan was supposed to be paid back monthly from my monthly salary.
Then I got the sad news the week we moved in. I was devastated, broken and confused. At that point the only thing on my head was how I would repay the loan since the building project had eaten up my savings.

Today made it 16months that my appointment was terminated and I’m still jobless. In order to take care of some basic things in the house (children school fees, utility bills etc) I was introduced to online loan platform and that was my greatest undoing and right now am deep into it and will only take the grace of God to save me.

My wife’s family lives in a neighboring state and MIL always sends foodstuffs to us every month. I mean every month for over a year(God bless her).
I had applied and still applying for job both online and offline no breakthrough yet. I even got a recommendation letter from a federal house of rep member that letter too amount to nothing.

I’m so tired of the situation and am gradually getting to my breaking point. I have had so many suicide thought but I believe that is for cowards. The only thing that keeps me going are my family (wife and children).

Please I live in Abuja and am ready to do any job as this would enable me pay my overdue loans and also provide for my family. The online loan Apps are threating to send message to my contacts.

I'm tired of my situation please help me.
Thank you.


nugesboi@gmail.com
09155345571

Kajaard:


At the boldfaced, you don't have a job, yet you went to take a loan. How did you expect to repay the loan if you have no means of income? You deserve absolutely no pity. Carry your cross.

miccoy:


Oga, it's well with you!

Let loan sharks send messages to your contacts. Let all these small small nairaland pikins hurl insults on you. Even though you had no income source, you took those loans so your family will not go hungry. God bless you for that!

Keep pushing, don't mind the noise. The universe will hear your silent cry. Believe me, you will come out strong.

ImaIma1:
Collecting loans without a source of income to pay is a recipe for disaster. You as a former staff of a financial institution should know that.

Was it a bank you worked in? What unit?

timy21:
Please sorry about the predicament you are facing, sir. God will see you through. I will advise you to take a teaching job that can pay at least a reasonable amount of money which will help you to take care of some basic needs while you lookout for a good paying job and possibly go for a skill acquisition training.
Please be strong, positive and prayerful, you will overcome this temporal challenges.

Nugesboi:
This is my story.

I am a man, 38years old, married, with 3 children (2 girls and a boy). I was with a financial institution for more than ten years before my appointment was terminated 16months ago. During this period, I started a building project which I channeled both my salaries and savings toward the completion. At a point I borrowed money (from individuals) to enable me complete quickly so as to avoid renewing my rent. This loan was supposed to be paid back monthly from my monthly salary.
Then I got the sad news the week we moved in. I was devastated, broken and confused. At that point the only thing on my head was how I would repay the loan since the building project had eaten up my savings.

Today made it 16months that my appointment was terminated and I’m still jobless. In order to take care of some basic things in the house (children school fees, utility bills etc) I was introduced to online loan platform and that was my greatest undoing and right now am deep into it and will only take the grace of God to save me.

My wife’s family lives in a neighboring state and MIL always sends foodstuffs to us every month. I mean every month for over a year(God bless her).
I had applied and still applying for job both online and offline no breakthrough yet. I even got a recommendation letter from a federal house of rep member that letter too amount to nothing.

I’m so tired of the situation and am gradually getting to my breaking point. I have had so many suicide thought but I believe that is for cowards. The only thing that keeps me going are my family (wife and children).

Please I live in Abuja and am ready to do any job as this would enable me pay my overdue loans and also provide for my family. The online loan Apps are threating to send message to my contacts.

I'm tired of my situation please help me.
Thank you.


nugesboi@gmail.com
09155345571

Nugesboi:
I quiet understand your point but you were not in my shoe. I took those loans so my children can go to school and not for my personal use. its not like I had other options.

ImaIma1:


That means you didn't have the intention of repaying, no matter what you used the money for. Because when these loan apps start dragging you, they won't care if it was for kids' school or anything important.

Kajaard:


At the boldfaced, you don't have a job, yet you went to take a loan. How did you expect to repay the loan if you have no means of income? You deserve absolutely no pity. Carry your cross.

yemmit90:


Just pray you dont find yourself in a situation that you will gladly accept anything withiout thinking twice. Humans are quick to judge others when they are not in their shoes. Never mock anyone in life because the life is so unpredictable.

ImaIma1:


That means you didn't have the intention of repaying, no matter what you used the money for. Because when these loan apps start dragging you, they won't care if it was for kids' school or anything important.

yemmit90:
OP, this period will definitely pass away, and you will be happy again. Just be focus and seek help from those that matter, I am sure your helper will locate you.

baby124:
So your wife no get work abi? But you
Will beg money and take from so called rude and unmarriageable working class women here aka Night Newspaper abi wetin dem de call dem. Better tell your wife to find work and you too find work. These days all over the world, all hands must be busy to sustain a home because, life is so unpredictable.
Borrowing money to build house and to survive when both of you have two hands and two legs. You probably believe working some jobs are below you. Some people here are working jobs you will never, yet you will gladly collect their money.

Keep borrowing from loan sharks. They will drive you to suicide.

Nugesboi:
Please note that am not here to beg for money. I only need help on how to get a job and bounce back. Concerning my wife, sadly she's not working and this is due to health related issue.

Thank you.

Nugesboi:
This is my story.

I am a man, 38years old, married, with 3 children (2 girls and a boy). I was with a financial institution for more than ten years before my appointment was terminated 16months ago. During this period, I started a building project which I channeled both my salaries and savings toward the completion. At a point I borrowed money (from individuals) to enable me complete quickly so as to avoid renewing my rent. This loan was supposed to be paid back monthly from my monthly salary.
Then I got the sad news the week we moved in. I was devastated, broken and confused. At that point the only thing on my head was how I would repay the loan since the building project had eaten up my savings.

Today made it 16months that my appointment was terminated and I’m still jobless. In order to take care of some basic things in the house (children school fees, utility bills etc) I was introduced to online loan platform and that was my greatest undoing and right now am deep into it and will only take the grace of God to save me.

My wife’s family lives in a neighboring state and MIL always sends foodstuffs to us every month. I mean every month for over a year(God bless her).
I had applied and still applying for job both online and offline no breakthrough yet. I even got a recommendation letter from a federal house of rep member that letter too amount to nothing.

I’m so tired of the situation and am gradually getting to my breaking point. I have had so many suicide thought but I believe that is for cowards. The only thing that keeps me going are my family (wife and children).

Please I live in Abuja and am ready to do any job as this would enable me pay my overdue loans and also provide for my family. The online loan Apps are threating to send message to my contacts.

I'm tired of my situation please help me.
Thank you.


nugesboi@gmail.com
09155345571

Nugesboi:
I'm not here to argue or justify my decision to take loan. I'm here to seek for help. please if there's anyway you could help me to get on my feet again. please help.

Kajaard:


At the boldfaced, you don't have a job, yet you went to take a loan. How did you expect to repay the loan if you have no means of income? You deserve absolutely no pity. Carry your cross.

yemmit90:


Just pray you dont find yourself in a situation that you will gladly accept anything withiout thinking twice. Humans are quick to judge others when they are not in their shoes. Never mock anyone in life because the life is so unpredictable.

ImaIma1:


That's why I asked if it was a bank you worked in, and what unit you were in.