Kestolove:
Igbo people

Kestolove:
Igbo people

post=111440348:
I'm an Urhobo

Vickyvice:
My brother. No nah. E no dey happen for urhobo land.

Oluromantic:
I fear igbo culture o. But who's with the house documents?

Besides you're accusing your elder brother of being a weakling. Do you have spiritual odechi?

Kestolove:
Igbo people

psucc:
If you can stand your ground, follow him bumper to bumper. Don't give him breathing space but note, he may attack spiritually, are you there?

WBworldwide:
Good day everyone,

My daddy died January this year and even though the burial rites has not been observed, the eldest son(my step brother) wants to claim everything including where we stay.

My daddy married 3 wives, the first wife had 7 children for him and the woman eventually left the marriage in the 1990's. My mother was the second wife with 8 children as well. When my dad married the first wife, he built an apartment for her and her children, the compound with tenants inside has been the same place all the children from the first wife grew up from after their mom left the marriage.

My dad also bought a house for my mom which i and my siblings grew up from. The last wife, also had a place after my dad married her.

After the mysterious death of my very young mother(not sick, just died from two days cough) my dad followed, barely two weeks before he died too which was not too surprising cos he has been sick and my mum has been the one taking care of her. That loneliness and lack of bond. The first son which has been an enemy of my dad and the most hated son due to his aggressive nature towards inheritance even when my dad was alive, came and lock the family house.

My own elder brother(same dad and mom), a weakling has been away since claiming to be busy and can't come home, he has even abandon the property belonging to my mum thus leaving my unmarried sisters to nothing. I visited home last week to see that my house was locked by my step brother and the apartment which my younger brother occupied was rented out by this step brother too.

I don't know what to do, so when we had a family meeting recently, i told the elders that we were locked out of our house and my siblings are scared of being attacked spiritually citting the death of my mother. Yet, the elders insist that all the properties belong to the eldest son. I don't even know what to do. I was the closest child to my dad when he was alive, i was so close that I had access to even his land and other documents but i never thought a day like this would come, if not, I would have advised him to make a will.

Is it the right of the eldest son to inherit all the properties ?

What would you suggest I do now ?

Ever8090:
Polygamy has many problems, even if you die it's even the genesis of the wahala!..

stacyadams:




Why will ur mom choose to be a second wife?

WBworldwide:
Are u stupid... What concerns my mom and this now ?

Know your lane... Nor even play go der for ur miserable life

stacyadams:
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your a very stupid.miserable .wimp...shebi na outside ur step brother don lock u..go fight am nah

InTheCloudySky:
Your step-brother's greed is absolutely disgusting. I'm assuming the elders supporting him are from the side of his family.

WBworldwide:
Hmmm, I suspect that's how u disrespect ur who-re mother that failed to teach u that you should respect the dead and the mother of others.

WBworldwide:


My own elder brother(same dad and mom), a weakling has been away since claiming to be busy and can't come home, he has even abandon the property belonging to my mum thus leaving my unmarried sisters to nothing. I visited home last week to see that my house was locked by my step brother and the apartment which my younger brother occupied was rented out by this step brother too.

I don't know what to do, so when we had a family meeting recently, i told the elders that we were locked out of our house and my siblings are scared of being attacked spiritually citting the death of my mother. Yet, the elders insist that all the properties belong to the eldest son. I don't even know what to do. I was the closest child to my dad when he was alive, i was so close that I had access to even his land and other documents but i never thought a day like this would come, if not, I would have advised him to make a will.

Is it the right of the eldest son to inherit all the properties ?

What would you suggest I do now ?

stacyadams:




Why will ur mom choose to be a second wife?

stacyadams:


If your LovePeddler mother had sense,she for go find her own husband...don't go and reason with ur step brother and lie down and beg him...na outside u go sleep tonight

WBworldwide:
Good day everyone,

My daddy died January this year and even though the burial rites has not been observed, the eldest son(my step brother) wants to claim everything including where we stay.

My daddy married 3 wives, the first wife had 7 children for him and the woman eventually left the marriage in the 1990's. My mother was the second wife with 8 children as well. When my dad married the first wife, he built an apartment for her and her children, the compound with tenants inside has been the same place all the children from the first wife grew up from after their mom left the marriage.

My dad also bought a house for my mom which i and my siblings grew up from. The last wife, also had a place after my dad married her.

After the mysterious death of my very young mother(not sick, just died from two days cough) my dad followed, barely two weeks before he died too which was not too surprising cos he has been sick and my mum has been the one taking care of her. That loneliness and lack of bond. The first son which has been an enemy of my dad and the most hated son due to his aggressive nature towards inheritance even when my dad was alive, came and lock the family house.

My own elder brother(same dad and mom), a weakling has been away since claiming to be busy and can't come home, he has even abandon the property belonging to my mum thus leaving my unmarried sisters to nothing. I visited home last week to see that my house was locked by my step brother and the apartment which my younger brother occupied was rented out by this step brother too.

I don't know what to do, so when we had a family meeting recently, i told the elders that we were locked out of our house and my siblings are scared of being attacked spiritually citting the death of my mother. Yet, the elders insist that all the properties belong to the eldest son. I don't even know what to do. I was the closest child to my dad when he was alive, i was so close that I had access to even his land and other documents but i never thought a day like this would come, if not, I would have advised him to make a will.

Is it the right of the eldest son to inherit all the properties ?

What would you suggest I do now ?

Rubbiish:

Why would u refer to your brother as a weakling?? What do u want him to do? Is he the first son? [b]In the absence of a will, the first son inherit every properties. [/b]Though he is now supposed to share it fairly among the rest siblings. Your dad should have written a will! It was a very big mistake on his part.