A cousin of mine was telling me of what transpired in church last week.

A lady that was wickedly infected with HIV by her husband was brought to share her experience with everybody in church
and what she said was that the whole world has turn promiscuous. That no lady can be trusted any longer (mine excluded sha), she now made the statement that all the ladies are doing it, even those in church And that those that that claim to be descent would have slept with like 3 men! I was shocked to hear that

My first question was where she got the statistics from. Though I have been taught not to trust anyone but I know some descent ladies who have NEVER tasted it before talk less of been laid by 3 men

What do you think guys? Do you think there are still ladies you can vouch for? if you are lady what do you say to this?

I can vouch for my lady. She is pure.

congrats man 4 your lady. You should be very proud of her!

My regards to her

i don't believe the statistics at all and it should definitly not be accepted. There are still some very decent ladies out there, all ppl need to do is look. Not that hard to find tho

Instead of her to knock the head of the husband that infected her with HIV she is complaining about the women that slept with him. Typical of women, they only love to attack their own kind.

i agree with seun why this woman attacking the other woman, it was her husband that strayed and she that did not keep her man happy. why blame anyone else?

true--->women are so CRITICAL of each other. and that woman is SO incorrect. i know a gang of virgins!!!! and i live in the good o' U.S. of A., the promiscuity capital of the world!!! it's safe to say that a majority (or large minority) of NAIJA women wont ever make it to 3 bed partners!

yes there are still girls out there you can trust, in places like nigeria(deeper life girls) but i'm not sure about UK girls. as per the HIV woman i think she's suffering from anger or anxiety, does she know the meaning of decent at all, even if she thinks her opinion is true she shouldn't say that in church. people in da church will be like ta lo koba e

chinani:

i know a gang of virgins!!!! and i live in the good o' U.S. of A., the promiscuity capital of the world!!!

I also know a gang of them. So this statement took me unawares. I wonder what my reaction would have been if I was in service that day.

Learnt the woman has started something like a campaign. That is why he is saying all that.

Ladies a u dear mine i can vouch 4 myself u no
im no sey na oly him no be sooo
is only a sex freak that can be guilty of these am not bordererd [color=#770077][/color]

Instead of her to knock the head of the husband that infected her with HIV she is complaining about the women that slept with him. Typical of women, they only love to attack their own kind.

actually watched oprah the other day where women were discussing their husband's infidelity and one of them actually said it was the "other" woman's fault. its really baffling how some women don't like facing up to realities.

anyways, this woman is being so unreal, how did she get the figure?

she musthave slept with 3 men 2 diz one she tend 2 know such thingz and who knowz whether itz really her hubby dat gave it 2 her dat one na story, ppl 2 dey talk

I agree with hotstepper,d woman might av been speakin 4rm experience n she has slept wit at least 3 men.So she thinks she knows best n can cook up some statistics 4 d church members 2 swallow in faith.It s jus like sayin every1 is doin n thr aint virgins.I av 4 beautiful friends[2 r models]whom i cn bet my life on dt they r pure n we r in a schl dts acclaimed 2 av d most indecent girls.If she's gonna point fingers let r do dt 2 r husband n mayb r ex-partners

chinani:

i know a gang of virgins!!!! and i live in the good o' U.S. of A., the promiscuity capital of the world!!! it's safe to say that a majority (or large minority) of NAIJA women wont ever make it to 3 bed partners!

bolaoni:

I also know a gang of them. So this statement took me unawares.

Be careful of what and who you believe. I also thought I knew a gang of virgins until my eyes saw and my ears heard. A lot of girls lie about it.

l would think that the reason she said it in the church is for people to learn from her mistakes and stay away from adultery and fornication.

ah! whether church or skool, i hate when ppl generalize things and dunno why in diz century ppl would be lying of been a virgin, if u r not, noone is gonna cut of ur head, I get pissed when ppl lie about dat,

And again i would not vouch for them girls in Naija, not all of them sha , majority of them can do anything  for money .

True to dat Hotstepper, but then the church is where u get your soul fed and all dat . i think it'
s a good ground to sound such alarm for ppl to abstain from adultery and sort.

yea, true onyii

reniks:

I av 4 beautiful friends[2 r models]whom i cn bet my life on dt they r pure n we r in a schl dts acclaimed 2 av d most indecent girls.

UNILAG i suppose

I run my biz in Unilag, Consult, U can holla @ me anytime.

Bolaoni u guessed right.Wow!Lag's got a reputation o,i didn't even av 2 mention d name.Anyway its really not as bad as ppl think.Pls remind me where Unilag consult is again,av spent 5 yrs in d schl n i keep 4gettin places.

Unilag Consults is like an island. It is the building facing ISL, UC, It is also on the road to Educations, from the second gate.

I'm in the UNIDO Office at the top floor.

BTW, what course are you studying?

English Language/Arts

OK now!

I do come to the Arts dept to meet a lecturer in the geography dept.

Do you know Dr. Kemi Lawanson? Think she is in art as well

Hope to see you one of these days.

I don't know r,maybe she's in a different dept. U kno yr 3 n 4 r on hols now,we'd probably be home 4 2-3 months.

First off it's no one's business how many men a woman has slept with unless she's in a physical relationship. Even then the number is not necessary, only the papers saying that she is free and clear of diseases.

Secondly, this woman is focusing on the wrong problem. The problem is that her husband was unfaithful to her and not only that, but he was irresponsible enough to have unprotected sex with a woman he didn't know. I use the term didn't know because he did not know her health condition. Why would anyone sleep with someone without protection is beyond me.

Why are we so busy wondering what someone else is doing? We seem to look so hard into someone else's life, we can't see the leaks and holes in our own. Sad.

@};~

Since when did 'DECENCY' become a function of how many men u've shagged

Mystique:

Since when did 'DECENCY' become a function of how many men u've shagged

Abeg, help me ask am o.

And I still don't know any woman who goes around telling the world how many people she's slept with. That's something between you and your partner, IF you choose to reveal it to them. People should learn to mind their own business. 
That woman is sufferring from a disease that is too common in Naija/African women. Like Seun said, she should deal with her problems (and her husband) and stop putting blame where it doesn't belong.

I say that lady is right but there are still some ladies who are pure.In a society where everyone is jumping from one partner to another and not thinkin twice about it--its hard.Teenagers on almost every part of the globe are becoming promiscuous and all their parents have to say about it is"use a condom" or "I knew u would be having sex so i bought you some condoms" what type of shit is that?even parents of the christian faith are saying stuff like this to their kids, my uncle even asked me if my brother had a girlfriend-- when i sed no he sed my brother should be carryin condoms with him!!!! this guy is my aunts husband,talkin like this! so with this attitude why wouldnt kids be having sex? I'm a teenager myself and I'm happy to say I don't do typical teenager stuff like have sex/do drugs/drink, i intend on saving my self for marriage, no matter how sex-crazed society is!

God help U gurlly

Guys haba look around you, sex is so cheap you can hear some1 banging right now; even the so-called decent girl are like 1% of the entire population; they pretent to be so nice, decent and all that but by the time you make that move. am even talking, guys who visit places like kuramo will tell you that they saw girls from their area who form decent girl look wild at kuramo. I live in lere and I met a girl at ikotun lloking very decent some months back only to find her at the popular joint in surulere, in order to be sure I called her phone and I saw her deep her hand into her bag pick my call and when i asked where she was, she claim to be on her bed. you see?

there are decent girls but they are not born yet, even my girl i don't trust her; I love her just the way she is, at least she meets most of my heart requirements; she doesn't need all the decency; am a decent guy technically. my advice is simply enter the place if you must but protect your partner that is the koko

How will you really know the amount of men a woman has slept with unless she tells you?