Mentorkaryhm:
Never bang a door when going out, because u don’t know whether you might still need to pass through that door

irunoko:
Young ladies need to learn this and stop being stupid or making enemies were There is no need for it

irunoko:
madammmmmm don't bring sexism into this.this issue or situation has absolutely nothing to do with sexism so don't deviate from the issue.wrong is wrong irrespective of the gender doing it.stop justifying rubbish under the pretext of sexism.the girl was unnecessarily rude and that's being STUPID Because even if you are upset with your teacher, that was not the right way to display your displeasure.after the ceremony you could have confronted her respectfully and table your grievances logically.

Lamasta:


Most Nigerian teachers act this way which is very very bad now tell me if a student that has been frustrated to this extent how will that student shake those teachers in public if the need for such arises

9jaRealist:




It’s not Nigeria…

School “recommendation” in the US are your grades.
While the law courts will reward her handsomely if denied her transcript.
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irunoko:
this is where maturity and emotional intelligence comes in.choose your battles wisely and avoid fighting with some people (e.g your teachers) despite the provocation it's unnecessary.humility,tact and wisdom always wins.

In life you have to take some shiii to get to where you are going but that girl has created unnecessary and avoidable battles for herself just because she didn't know how to choose her battles

9jaRealist:


Typical backward Nigerian mentality…

Thinking that “a husband” is the greatest accomplishment for females…
Meanwhile, hopefully enlightened folks (including in-laws) see someone who won’t stand for crap.
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TPound:
You dare not try this with Mr Bizzo in LASMOCK badagry...

Those who attended the school in the late 90s to early 2000s should know him...

Na to wipe am lab hose for back be that

Backpedal:

She can get a recommendation from another teacher
Except she is a very shitty person
There is always that one person that will give you tht recommendation letter

Mentorkaryhm:
Never bang a door when going out, because u don’t know whether you might still need to pass through that door

9jaRealist:


They cannot…
She has already EARNED the certificate. It’s not PRIMITIVE Naija!
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irunoko:
One of the 48 laws of power says don't outshine your master

9jaRealist:



Sadly, sexism is so ingrained in so many Nigerians, they don’t even notice it…smh
Of course, not necessarily their fault as much of Nigerian culture is inherently sexist (even misogynistic).
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irunoko:
well except that but even if it's not nigeria her uncouth attitude Will make a mess of her certificate Because what's the use of a certificate when the owner has an unattractive and irritating attitude

Mentorkaryhm:
Never bang a door when going out, because u don’t know whether you might still need to pass through that door

StagethemTVee:
This is the shocking moment a lady ignored congratulatory hand shake from her teachers as she walked across the podium to receive her certificate. This must be for reasons best known to her as she may have gone through hell on earth in the hands of the teachers.
Some of the teachers were visibly shocked at her behaviour but went on to award her certificate.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R4J1lHB6Fvg

9jaRealist:


You keep going on about her “attitude” perhaps because you are not used to (or don’t like) seeing females stand up for themselves…smh
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irunoko:
oya point out the sexism or misogyny there since you want to be more western than the oyinbos

Even oyinbos value respect thats why you see men and women bending their knees to greet the queen of England.all these African American wannabes.always trying to copy their lousy attitude and import it INTO nigeria under the umbrella of woke philosophy, make una import sensible behaviours too like innovation and advancement in technology

9jaRealist:


You don’t need “48 laws of power”, just need a MORAL COMPASS!
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9jaRealist:


The fact that it’s been highlighted TWICE and you’re still clueless merely validates that’s it so inherently ingrained in folks like you…smh
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Lamasta:

That happened in US and not Nigeria hope you know? Cos over there rule of law works very well

Mentorkaryhm:
Never bang a door when going out, because u don’t know whether you might still need to pass through that door

Regex:
She stupid, but she thinks she woke.

irunoko:
basic courtesy and respect is not a respecter of location.it works anywhere in the world

irunoko:
of course a husband is not any greatest achievement however it's One of the boxes a woman must tick as far as she's in Africa

Secondly not that in-laws opinion really matters but anytime any issue arises in that family, that girl's action will always be a reference point albeit negatively.e.g don't be like Tayo.etc

irunoko:
exactly my point

irunoko:
lol smh
.even morality demands respect for your leaders and basic courtesy since you want to play the morality card

irunoko:
basic courtesy and respect is not a respecter of location.it works anywhere in the world

9jaRealist:

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Why? She came and made exactly the point she wanted to make…
She is not like so many Nigerians who continue to suffer and smile.
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Abbeyme:
But her point was pointless.

irunoko:
you didn't point it out.you were only justifying her Unreasonable behaviour