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Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by darichlife: 7:44am On Jul 09, 2022
Artzdanielsz:
One girl once told me that a girl that loves you will get wet for you anytime she set her eyes on you.
Hearing your voice on the phone alone makes her wet as well.
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by Nobody: 8:41am On Jul 09, 2022
Zaheeddudu:
my broda u bam one big stout 4 u
that's the system
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by UptownVibes(m): 8:49am On Jul 09, 2022
Sammy101111:



A woman can disgrace person oh
Because the other girl bought new iPhone
The other girl say the girl they do big girl for her
Na so she expose the girl they talk say she come shop food for her place last week now she by iPhone 11 Pro Max they expect make she greet her first

I just sit down for work they laff inside .
I no even put mouth I just learn from them
Damn! grin Some women en..
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by feezy(m): 9:07am On Jul 09, 2022
What's her zodiac and yours as well(I guess cancer).... Let's start from there.
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by donproject2(m): 9:12am On Jul 09, 2022
LoveUdie:
We've been married for two years and have no child. I’m not surprised that we haven’t been able to have a child but what I’m surprised about is my wife’s attitude towards the fact that we don’t have a child.
Yesterday she called me impotent. Some days ago she called me sterile. I warned her, “The next time you call me any other name apart from my name, I will walk out of this mess you call marriage.”

Let me take you back to when we were dating. This girl was very strict when it came to sex. She was the one making the rules. “This month no sex, I don’t want you to be enjoying it every day. We are not married yet.” I won’t fight her about it and she would go ahead and do exactly what she said she would do. Another time she will tell me, “I called you and you didn’t answer. No sex for three weeks.
I didn’t allow those things to bother me. She was a good person. I would have been very wrong to just look at her from that angle and conclude that she wasn’t a wife material. We stayed together for two years before we finally decided to marry.

After marriage, she didn’t stop throwing those rules around. Every new day came with different rules and all of her rules had to do with sex. As I’m writing this, we haven’t had sex for the past three months. What is her reason? She had severe cramps during her menses and according to her, she has never had crumps all her life. She told me, “I spoke to a doctor friend of mine and she said my cramps were due to sex and that if your husband’s joystick is big, it can result in cramps.” I knew she was lying.
I knew she was just looking for another excuse not to have sex. I’m used to that antics so it didn’t bother me.
We are married but we have sex only when she wants and since she doesn’t want sex often, we can go for several weeks without sex. And the annoying part is, she doesn’t want any other style apart from missionary. So, when her goodness comes and she finally opens the way for me to do it, she will tell me, “Just get on with it and leave me alone.

If I kiss her, bue! If I don’t kiss her, bue! “Don’t touch me here. Why are you going side by side, can’t you go straight? Hey…hey…hey, don’t touch my breast, it’s paining me. You’re keeping long, what medicine did you drink?”
She’ll nag throughout the action. Sometimes I don’t even cum. I’ll just get off her and have my peace of mind. It’s been like this for the past two years since we got married. I’m not complaining. Recently, she brought up the topic of childbirth and I told her, “Do you know how many times people have sex before a child can result?

You are here giving me rules and yet want to have a child?” She said, “Alice got married four months ago and she’s pregnant. How many times did they do it? We’ve been doing it for two years and nothing has happened. Go and look for medicine before I give up on you.”
Every marriage has some troubles. She’s my trouble, I understand. What I don’t understand is her attitude towards the problems she herself has caused. I was there one day when she told me, “I spoke to my doctor friend. She said we’ve been having sex unnecessarily that’s why the pregnancy is not coming so we should have sex only when I’m ovulating. From now onwards, you won’t waste your sperms on me. Store them. Grow them. Make them potent so that when you hit one, a child will come. You hear?”

Brothers and sisters, how many times do women ovulate in a month? At least once, right? So why haven’t we had sex for three months? I want an answer so I went to her, “You mean you haven’t ovulated for the past three months?” She said, “I’m tracking it with an app. So far, the app hasn’t said that I’m ovulating.” Eiii! So now it’s an app that’s going to determine when to have sex and when not to?
Dear people of God, that’s my wife for you. No husband will sit and stare while things go wrong in his marriage so I reported the issue to her parents. They called her home and talked to her extensively. Her father called to tell me, “We’ve spoken sense to her. The way I’ve bashed her, I don’t think she’ll come home and do that again.” The day she got home she said, “Shame on you. You ran to my parents and reported me to them? Are you a kid? All because of sex? I thought you are a man. A true man doesn’t need plenty of sex before pregnancy. They hit one, bam! and the child is there.

You want it every day. I can’t.”
Three months. Maybe it sounds very short so let me calculate it into days. I haven’t had sex for over ninety days! I’ve received three salaries without sex, yet she accuses me of not being potent because we haven’t had a child. I’ve reported it to her parents twice and each time, they talk to her. The last time her father told me, “If I have to come and supervise it, I will come there myself. What kind of silly attitude is that?” Even her father is angry on my behalf. At this point, I will be right to take any drastic decision that I want. One day, I will pack her things and send her to her parents. Before she comes back to the marriage, she will sign a bond of good behavior and sign to have sex four times in a week before I will take her back.
A wife doesn’t live her life just to traumatize her husband’s life. Or I should send her packing right away?

Don't send her packing, that'll be too easy for her, if you can, impregnate another woman and don't hide this from her.

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Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by IbrahimSkiba(f): 9:31am On Jul 09, 2022
advanceDNA:


Love the man as what??...as her brother or cousin, or what??
Thats not love...its love for money, love to get married, love to change miss to mrs.....

.love between couples is a combination of phileo and agape...love from the heart and physical attraction....once one is missing its deception....

Is tgat behavior described above sounding like love to you....with love come respects..the wife doesnt even respect him or care for him


I was referring to you as Brother,
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by Nobody: 9:45am On Jul 09, 2022
I've been down this road before. She probably doesn't have a womb or has some other self-caused problem preventing her from having a child.

There's a high possibility that she's sleeping around hoping a man would impregnate her so she'd throw it on you.

It's best you leave the marriage immediately. You don't have a child so she has nothing to blackmail you with.

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Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by FahBuLous: 10:31am On Jul 09, 2022
I keep preaching to all this foolish simps on nairaland that love and marriage is a big bloody scam...

Women are wh00res, big bloody wh00res, the sooner you realize, the better...
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by Enny2013(f): 10:49am On Jul 09, 2022
chaseblack:


Or for money

There are lot of things home training won't allow me do,bro.
Besides,I am married.
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by freddie009(m): 11:08am On Jul 09, 2022
Chai, some men are suffering. Do you mean a woman you paid her bride price is doing this to you? I keep telling men, in as much as you want to love your spouse always put your foot down on things you don't like; if you don't and she gets used to it, you wouldn't be able to change her anymore.

I used to be a teacher in primary school, there were some teachers as soon as he/she walks into the classroom the whole place will be quiet without him uttering a word, while there were others who even yelled, and the kids wouldn't keep shut. It all boils down to how you portray yourself.
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by freddie009(m): 11:10am On Jul 09, 2022
donproject2:


Don't send her packing, that'll be too easy for her, if you can, impregnate another woman and don't hide this from her.

Then he should bring the woman in.
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by ERCROSS(m): 12:07pm On Jul 09, 2022
I wonder the kind of SIMPS this generation calls MEN
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by newoffer: 12:09pm On Jul 09, 2022
Impregnate another woman then let her take care of the baby
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by chaseblack(m): 12:26pm On Jul 09, 2022
Enny2013:


There are lot of things home training won't allow me do,bro.
Besides,I am married.

I'm not referring to you in particular I thought we were speaking in general.
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by Enny2013(f): 12:53pm On Jul 09, 2022
chaseblack:


I'm not referring to you in particular I thought we were speaking in general.

Ok,sir.
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by DaddyNimo(m): 1:03pm On Jul 09, 2022
LoveUdie:
We've been married for two years and have no child. I’m not surprised that we haven’t been able to have a child but what I’m surprised about is my wife’s attitude towards the fact that we don’t have a child.
Yesterday she called me impotent. Some days ago she called me sterile. I warned her, “The next time you call me any other name apart from my name, I will walk out of this mess you call marriage.”

Let me take you back to when we were dating. This girl was very strict when it came to sex. She was the one making the rules. “This month no sex, I don’t want you to be enjoying it every day. We are not married yet.” I won’t fight her about it and she would go ahead and do exactly what she said she would do. Another time she will tell me, “I called you and you didn’t answer. No sex for three weeks.
I didn’t allow those things to bother me. She was a good person. I would have been very wrong to just look at her from that angle and conclude that she wasn’t a wife material. We stayed together for two years before we finally decided to marry.

After marriage, she didn’t stop throwing those rules around. Every new day came with different rules and all of her rules had to do with sex. As I’m writing this, we haven’t had sex for the past three months. What is her reason? She had severe cramps during her menses and according to her, she has never had crumps all her life. She told me, “I spoke to a doctor friend of mine and she said my cramps were due to sex and that if your husband’s joystick is big, it can result in cramps.” I knew she was lying.
I knew she was just looking for another excuse not to have sex. I’m used to that antics so it didn’t bother me.
We are married but we have sex only when she wants and since she doesn’t want sex often, we can go for several weeks without sex. And the annoying part is, she doesn’t want any other style apart from missionary. So, when her goodness comes and she finally opens the way for me to do it, she will tell me, “Just get on with it and leave me alone.

If I kiss her, bue! If I don’t kiss her, bue! “Don’t touch me here. Why are you going side by side, can’t you go straight? Hey…hey…hey, don’t touch my breast, it’s paining me. You’re keeping long, what medicine did you drink?”
She’ll nag throughout the action. Sometimes I don’t even cum. I’ll just get off her and have my peace of mind. It’s been like this for the past two years since we got married. I’m not complaining. Recently, she brought up the topic of childbirth and I told her, “Do you know how many times people have sex before a child can result?

You are here giving me rules and yet want to have a child?” She said, “Alice got married four months ago and she’s pregnant. How many times did they do it? We’ve been doing it for two years and nothing has happened. Go and look for medicine before I give up on you.”
Every marriage has some troubles. She’s my trouble, I understand. What I don’t understand is her attitude towards the problems she herself has caused. I was there one day when she told me, “I spoke to my doctor friend. She said we’ve been having sex unnecessarily that’s why the pregnancy is not coming so we should have sex only when I’m ovulating. From now onwards, you won’t waste your sperms on me. Store them. Grow them. Make them potent so that when you hit one, a child will come. You hear?”

Brothers and sisters, how many times do women ovulate in a month? At least once, right? So why haven’t we had sex for three months? I want an answer so I went to her, “You mean you haven’t ovulated for the past three months?” She said, “I’m tracking it with an app. So far, the app hasn’t said that I’m ovulating.” Eiii! So now it’s an app that’s going to determine when to have sex and when not to?
Dear people of God, that’s my wife for you. No husband will sit and stare while things go wrong in his marriage so I reported the issue to her parents. They called her home and talked to her extensively. Her father called to tell me, “We’ve spoken sense to her. The way I’ve bashed her, I don’t think she’ll come home and do that again.” The day she got home she said, “Shame on you. You ran to my parents and reported me to them? Are you a kid? All because of sex? I thought you are a man. A true man doesn’t need plenty of sex before pregnancy. They hit one, bam! and the child is there.

You want it every day. I can’t.”
Three months. Maybe it sounds very short so let me calculate it into days. I haven’t had sex for over ninety days! I’ve received three salaries without sex, yet she accuses me of not being potent because we haven’t had a child. I’ve reported it to her parents twice and each time, they talk to her. The last time her father told me, “If I have to come and supervise it, I will come there myself. What kind of silly attitude is that?” Even her father is angry on my behalf. At this point, I will be right to take any drastic decision that I want. One day, I will pack her things and send her to her parents. Before she comes back to the marriage, she will sign a bond of good behavior and sign to have sex four times in a week before I will take her back.
A wife doesn’t live her life just to traumatize her husband’s life. Or I should send her packing right away?
One thing I value more than anything in this world is my peace of mind.....I don't care how highly placed or important a person disturbing my peace of mind is ill eradicate and demolish dem....you have 2 choices bro.....either leave that witch alone and marry someone else for your peace of mind or you carry on with her and die of heart attack one day...the choice is yours.

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Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by earleswood(f): 2:07pm On Jul 09, 2022
Kereku. Somebody dey oil am.
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by udede(m): 6:40am On Aug 12, 2022
Samfloxin:

Let me tell you the fact. If this me, I will save money,work my visa secretly and leave the country. When I go there ,I marry again
yea, but in my case, there is a big reason why i can't leave now,
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by udede(m): 6:40am On Aug 12, 2022
earleswood:
Kereku. Somebody dey oil am.
very possible
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by ibechris(m): 10:25am On Aug 12, 2022
U married your enemy.
Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by Chidi2022: 10:34am On Aug 12, 2022
brosom:
There's no good woman in her, u re just blind by love.

She's manipulating u to do her bidding using sex as her most weaponize tools, the only think 98% of them can offer undecided.

U sound weak in ur write up, man up and do the needful by letting her know that u re thinking of marrying a second wife so that u won't be disturbing her for sex again, try this method and see as her chicken brain reset like Nokia touch that fell down and rebooted by self grin.

Mind u, don't sound weak or soft why telling that to her face, in fact look deep straight down in to her eyes with a mean face grin grin., Don't mind the names calling, that's one of her weapons to weaken ur defenses but be bold.

Thank me later

I swear to God.... You are very right....
Even me, as a female, will never allow this happen.... its not like the partner is not around or sick or something.... i am sleeping and waking up with you everyday, then you tell me when to have sex or not as married couples?
FTF--- any day she wants it.. reject it too, that you don't need it... She calls you impotent,, call her barren fool... This guy even tried reporting to her parent 3 times... after the first report and no changes, i will make life miserable for the useless woman....

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Re: My Wife Wants Kids But Does Not Want Sex. by brosom(m): 10:47am On Aug 12, 2022
Chidi2022:
I swear to God.... You are very right....
Even me, as a female, will never allow this happen.... its not like the partner is not around or sick or something.... i am sleeping and waking up with you everyday, then you tell me when to have sex or not as married couples?
FTF--- any day she wants it.. reject it too, that you don't need it... She calls you impotent,, call her barren fool... This guy even tried reporting to her parent 3 times... after the first report and no changes, i will make life miserable for the useless woman....
Oil dey ur head comrade grin.

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