Gentledove2U:
The man of course.

We can't blame the married woman because her husband could be denying her sex at home. You know how men are when they have children, they lose themselves and aren't attractive to their wives anymore.

DenreleDave:
I have seen and read so many stories about husband catching his wife sleeping with another person and before you know it, people are quick to hold the guy and beat him ignoring the lady dt carried herself down to where she cheated..

Who do you think should be blamed for this act?

A. The married woman who lied to a single guy that she is single and slept with him.

B. The single guy who wasn't aware that she is married because she portrayed herself as a single lady searching.

Who should the society hold responsible for the bad act?

endsarrrs:
They will blame the devil

1Sharon:

The single man, he didn't do his research before nacking the woman.


As soon as your wife starts cheating, just know there's something that you are not doing, go down on your knees and pray, don't let another man break your home. Always appear neat the way you were the very first time you approached her and don't yell at her all the time, show her care and love so that she will not look outside, sometimes walk around naked and don't wear anything to bed, always try to catch her attention. Thanks and God bless you as you do so.

Wizywiz:
so you mean women cheat because a man isn't doing things right....when she cheats the man should be blamed.... nawaooo anty so because u be woman u go just type anything to defend your cheating gender...hope u say same when a man cheats.....

Mindlog:


Her post you quoted, is exactly what a number of male Nairalanders post when it is the husband cheating, the wife is blamed and told to do what you quoted.

CoronaVirusRelo:



My mother should Look for a good job!

My father will outgrow and never find himself in that cycle.


I came to conclusion at some point that an idle and jobless man like my father reminisces past frivolous and the unimaginable.

In conclusion, I did advice my father to put himself into some activities, so mere things won’t be warranting him to create baseless topics expected from kids!

UpInTheSky:
See question. The married woman, of course. She has an obligation of faithfulness towards her spouse, not the single man.

Or which kain question be this?

Did the married woman's husband exchange vows with the single man? Lol

Any married individual who commits adultery is at fault, not the person they cheated. It's just like when a [married] man cheats - you don't blame the woman he cheated with - you blame the married man who willingly chose to disrespect his marital vows. The same rule applies in this hypothetical scenario.

thesicilian:
Why do you have to blame one and leave the other?

DenreleDave:


Someone has to be held responsible..... Someone made it possible.....

Bcox the husband of the adulterous woman always pounce on the innocent man and beat him to Stupor leaving the woman

Mindlog:


The man is not innocent, "Thou shall not covet thy neighbor's wife" and there is every chance he knows she is married but bible talk say "stolen waters are sweet, And bread eaten in secret is pleasant".but when hand touch you...

Beating up the guy was a way for the husband to validate his masculinity, as for the woman marriage don end.

Nigerians who indulge in such are still "lucky" says aggrieved husbands and wives no dey show up where their cheating spouse are having their rendezvous with cameramen in tow recording proceedings, which is a normal for some Kenyans and it ends up on national TV stations more as a comic relief..

1Sharon:

The single man, he didn't do his research before nacking the woman.


As soon as your wife starts cheating, just know there's something that you are not doing, go down on your knees and pray, don't let another man break your home. Always appear neat the way you were the very first time you approached her and don't yell at her all the time, show her care and love so that she will not look outside, sometimes walk around naked and don't wear anything to bed, always try to catch her attention. Thanks and God bless you as you do so.

DenreleDave:


U didn't read the post.... I said what if the woman lied that she is not married nko...

Mindlog:


The man is not innocent, "Thou shall not covet thy neighbor's wife" and there is every chance he knows she is married but bible talk say "stolen waters are sweet, And bread eaten in secret is pleasant".but when hand touch you...

Beating up the guy was a way for the husband to validate his masculinity, as for the woman marriage don end.

Nigerians who indulge in such are still "lucky" says aggrieved husbands and wives no dey show up where their cheating spouse are having their rendezvous with cameramen in tow recording proceedings, which is a normal for some Kenyans and it ends up on national TV stations more as a comic relief..

Mindlog:


Did he go out with her to visit friends, fun places or was the "relationship" limited to only having sex with her, after which she returned to wherever she came from?

RightToReject:



Any sane person can't always stop to question your mental health after reading through your usual off contributions to most threads and posts due to ignorance or an obvious outright lack of intelligence like on this one with a concise submission and questions despite always striving to appear like an astute psychologist - only your fellow bumpkins will always buy into your charade. Don't even bother coming for me because ordinarily, I don't take delight in the pains of your kind, just as I don't have much attention to give you; my sincere pity goes to those physically around you that have to cater for you because I know that it is not always easy attending to a special needs person like you.

Do well to keep your mention or better still direct it to your kinds.

Wizywiz:
I blame the married woman oooo


Let me share what's happening here now in my compound.my neighbor just came back from work..(he works in bayelsa) this morning by 6am only to find out that his wife locked his 2kids inside the house and slept out...he said he has been getting report of his wife promiscuous lifestyle...so he decided not to tell her he is coming back today....only to come back and find out his suspicions to be true

chai I pity the guy man.....he has burnt all her clothes and is threatening to kick her out...

We dey try calm am down oooo..with the way he is feeling now we no wan here say him don kill her oooo..... chai some woman ehhh can be so shameless and ungrateful..their yansh no dey stay one place.....a man provides you with everything yet Dem no dey stay one place.

Well nothing man never see, so am no longer surprised when I see or here certain things. Na d matter I dey on this morning ooo....

DenreleDave:


Honestly your replies are out of point