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Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Born2winnx: 3:06pm On Jul 22, 2022
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all..I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

Seun
lalasticlala

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Carcholce: 3:14pm On Jul 22, 2022
Based on the fact that humans are not predictable, She can decide to become a good wife or become worse after marriage. I’ll advise you marry her and see what happens after.

But if I were you, I don’t see why I’ll even think of dating her talk more of marrying a girl I met through one night stand. I mean we are all different but I am not stupid. I’m not saying you are stupid, but I am not mad. I did not say you are mad either.

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by DriverX: 3:18pm On Jul 22, 2022
Yes, if the sun rises in the west.

You put the M in mumu.

She's opened to you and also opened to the other 82 guys on her contact. The idea is to be like a gf to you all so that when she asks you and your fellow 81 mugus for 10k, you all will send. It's all about the next client for prostitute s. Ever wondered why they never stop prostituting even after making enough money to start a decent business? Yeah, that's right. Fools like you.

Your erect penis and penile feelings have replaced the function of your brain.
You should be tied to a palm tree and flogged

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Richy4(m): 3:21pm On Jul 22, 2022
From primary school to university level, we were taught Subtraction AKA minus..

Maybe... you can just subtract her profession from her personality..ie if u can...I believe that will give you the perfect answer cool

Eg.. Can a female engineer make a good wife? can a female Lawyer make a good wife? Can a male escort make a good husband etc.

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Born2winnx: 3:23pm On Jul 22, 2022
DriverX:
Yes, if the sun rises in the west.

You put the M in mumu.

She's opened to you and also opened to the other 82 guys on her contact. The idea is to be like a gf to you all so that when she asks you and your fellow 81 mugus for 10k, you all will send.

Your erect penis and penile feelings have replaced the function of your brain.
You should be tied to a palm tree and flogged
I see where your driving at..if you kill yourself nobody send you.

na you tell me before I tell you say na club I jam her?
na you tell me before I tell you say we do till day break?
na you tell me before I tell you say I pay her the first night?
na you tell me before I tell you say she still dey collect payment till today but on the low.

you put the Im, in im.becile.

lowlife looser,

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Born2winnx: 3:25pm On Jul 22, 2022
Richy4:
From primary school to university level, we were taught Subtraction AKA minus..

Maybe... you can just subtract her profession from her personality..ie if u can...I believe that will give you the perfect answer cool

you get sense and very matured response..

not some lowlife scumbag when won try show person sense..
like say their sisters nor dey do runs.... people like DriverX

and no be people go marry them

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by silibaba: 3:29pm On Jul 22, 2022
Born2winnx:
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all..I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

Seun
lalasticlala
that's only when they are ready to settle down

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Richy4(m): 3:32pm On Jul 22, 2022
Born2winnx:


you get sense and very matured response..

not some lowlife scumbag when won try show person sense..
like say their sisters nor dey do runs.... people like DriverX

and no be people go marry them

Actually they are human and they pay taxes in some countries...
I have read that they removed emotions while dealing with their clients and have special affection to only people they share emotional bond with... I also heard that some of them got heart broken some times by a cheating spouse....I don't know how that works but yea smiley

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by RightToReject(m): 3:40pm On Jul 22, 2022
A good wife (or proverbial wife material) is ambiguous, so rate her based on your concept of what a good woman is to you. Don't try it if you are prudish.

Personally, if I were to be in need of a wife, I don't see anything wrong in making one that is in sync with me a wife, given that there will be no difference between her and any nonvirgin or even a virgin that will not remain permanently a virgin after popping the cherry. Whether she will remain a professional in the act afterward will be a different case entirely.

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Born2winnx: 3:41pm On Jul 22, 2022
Richy4:


Actually they are human and they pay taxes in some countries...
I have read that they removed emotions while dealing with their clients and have special affection to only people they share emotional bond with... I also heard that some of them got heart broken some times by a cheating spouse....I don't know how that works but yea smiley
it seems your also an advid patronizer to know so much about them, This can't just be From reading
no shame in it bro
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Born2winnx: 3:43pm On Jul 22, 2022
RightToReject:
A good wife (or proverbial wife material) is ambiguous, so rate her based on your concept of what a good woman is to you. Don't try it if you are prudish.

Personally, if I were to be in need of a wife, I don't see anything wrong in making one that is in sync with me a wife, given that there will be no difference between her and any nonvirgin or even a virgin that will not remain permanently a virgin after popping the cherry. Whether she will remain a professional in the act afterward will be a different case entirely.
thanks very much from this
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Richy4(m): 3:51pm On Jul 22, 2022
Born2winnx:

it seems your also an advid patronizer to know so much about them, This can't just be From reading
no shame in it bro
embarassed embarassed
I am a curious person... I read a lot...Also, my circle of friends, no discussion is off limit as well apart from bedroom matters with our spouses....
So no, I do not patronize them but I respect them a lot for being involved with the oldest profession in the world....So no judgement smiley.

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Born2winnx: 4:00pm On Jul 22, 2022
Richy4:

embarassed embarassed
I am a curious person... I read a lot...Also, my circle of friends, no discussion is off limit as well apart from bedroom matters with our spouses....
So no, I do not patronize them but I respect them a lot for being involved with the oldest profession in the world....So no judgement smiley.
ok broski, you are equipped
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Dtraitor: 6:18pm On Jul 22, 2022
Yes it's possible, infact they will change more than you can ever think of. Av seen it on different occasion.
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by ireneidiva(f): 6:59pm On Jul 22, 2022
Born2winnx:
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all..I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

Seun
lalasticlala
Can a man who clubs and sleeps with prostitutes change after marriage?

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Born2winnx: 7:11pm On Jul 22, 2022
ireneidiva:

Can a man who clubs and sleeps with prostitutes change after marriage?
. agbeg pack well, nor be me put you for were you dey so

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by ireneidiva(f): 8:36pm On Jul 22, 2022
Born2winnx:
. agbeg pack well, nor be me put you for were you dey so
Lol. Remove the log in your eyes before you remove the speck in someone else's eyes. You want to know if she will stop being a prostitute when you sleep with prostitutes yourself. Good Luck.

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by naija4life247: 9:20pm On Jul 22, 2022
Born2winnx:
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all..I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

Seun
lalasticlala

Thunder is coming from Russia to strike you.

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by crackhaus: 9:25pm On Jul 22, 2022
Carcholce:
Based on the fact that humans are not predictable, She can decide to become a good wife or become worse after marriage. I’ll advise you marry her and see what happens after.

But if I were you, I don’t see why I’ll even think of dating her talk more of marrying a girl I met through one night stand. I mean we are all different but I am not stupid. I’m not saying you are stupid, but I am not mad. I didn’t say you are mad either.
gringrin

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by crackhaus: 9:40pm On Jul 22, 2022
Born2winnx:
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all... I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

You're letting your sexual experience with her affect your thinking. cheesy

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by ShaqFu: 10:55pm On Jul 22, 2022
grin
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by ShaqFu: 11:52pm On Jul 22, 2022
Born2winnx:
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all..I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

Seun
lalasticlala
But Bros why do you want her to change?
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by OlawaleBammie: 12:04am On Jul 23, 2022
Born2winnx:
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all..I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

Seun
lalasticlala
na u post am for Facebook abi?
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by cococandy(f): 12:58am On Jul 23, 2022
How do you know she’s a prostitute? Did you pay her for the encounter?
Born2winnx:
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all..I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

Seun
lalasticlala

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by cococandy(f): 1:00am On Jul 23, 2022
Born2winnx:
. agbeg pack well, nor be me put you for were you dey so

She’s right.
If the girl is a prostitute what makes you better?

By the way one night stand doesn’t make anyone a prostitute. Unless you actually paid her which you didn’t state in your original post

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Born2winnx: 1:55am On Jul 23, 2022
cococandy:


She’s right.
If the girl is a prostitute what makes you better?

By the way one night stand doesn’t make anyone a prostitute. Unless you actually paid her which you didn’t state in your original post
Yes I did the first night from the club, later on after the familiarity I still throw in one or two but not outright payment...it's seems your into the profession too.. for wanting to know the in and out if money exchange hands

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by cococandy(f): 2:27am On Jul 23, 2022
Born2winnx:

Yes I did the first night from the club, later on after the familiarity I still throw in one or two but not outright payment...it's seems your into the profession too.. for wanting to know the in and out if money exchange hands
Funny

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Nobody: 4:29am On Jul 23, 2022
Born2winnx:
hello all,
they is this girl I like, we met in the club last year ever since then from a one night stand (tdb) we became friends, chatting sometimes and all..I feel like she's more opened to me than my girlfriend, which makes me wonder sometimes if she can change and probably make a good wife.
the pressure from family to get married is getting ton
on me and she's the only available option I got to
compare with my girlfriend.

Seun
lalasticlala

I wonder why you think you are any different from her and express fears over her lifestyle changing when both of you met at a club and both engaged in the act.

You should be able to judge from your own self if you can change or still have the tendency to go back to such lifestyle after marriage. Whatever you come up with should apply to her, that is if you're going to be sincere with yourself.

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Lighthouse50: 5:45am On Jul 23, 2022
OP YES AND YES. 98% of them turn out to be a good wife. I do believe maybe since they have already explored then come to rest. Truth is majority never planned to be such. Some are spiritual problems, some poverty, some peer pressure, some greed, some inferiority complex (believing they have nothing to offer than that). Now the solution is to discover what led her into such act and help her. Those gender are weak and need help. Finally, many are out there who engage in such too but not seen in clubs but house to house. Many others being tagged as decent have aborted and engage in nasty things. If you can help her move on.......
Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Mindlog: 6:07am On Jul 23, 2022
Lighthouse50:
OP YES AND YES. 98% of them turn out to be a good wife. I do believe maybe since they have already explored then come to rest. Truth is majority never planned to be such. Some are spiritual problems, some poverty, some peer pressure, some greed, some inferiority complex (believing they have nothing to offer than that). Now the solution is to discover what led her into such act and help her. Those gender are weak and need help. Finally, many are out there who engage in such too but not seen in clubs but house to house. Many others being tagged as decent have aborted and engage in nasty things. If you can help her move on.......

Share possible ways in which he can help her.

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Lighthouse50: 6:25am On Jul 23, 2022
Mindlog:


Share possible ways in which he can help her.
If her case is spiritual, then help her to get deliverance. If its poverty, make her feel happy by stocking food at home monthly and giving her pocket money. Surprise her with wears. If its peer pressure, be her best friend. Take her to exciting places. Change her notion of great places than being in club. Finally make her busy, get a job for her oq an investment and make her so busy with getting money herself than being dependent.

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Re: Can A Prostitute change and Become A Good Wife? help please by Mindlog: 6:41am On Jul 23, 2022
Lighthouse50:
If her case is spiritual, then help her to get deliverance. If its poverty, make her feel happy by stocking food at home monthly and giving her pocket money. Surprise her with wears. If its peer pressure, be her best friend. Take her to exciting places. Change her notion of great places than being in club. Finally make her busy, get a job for her oq an investment and make her so busy with getting money herself than being dependent.

But in reality, he can't be all that to her because he also has his own life to live.

You should have to consider that overwhelming majority of those into prostitution struggle with depersonalization, where they are disassociated from self in order to live through such life....there are mental health issues associated with prostitution and for many, even if you give them N10m, they will still continue prostituting.

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