nigerhead:

, this is superstory ,

More like tales by moonlight.

Theblessed:

[size=16pt]Well young lady, it's come full circle for you.

In fact, you're as evil as your husband. Imagine you, lying and hiding your own child because of your ambition to get married.  Goes to show, you're one of those who sell their conscience to succeed in life. 

Your sin has caught up with you.

A snake will always bear what looks like it. Evil family will always attract people like them, and this one is exactly your kind - shut up and put up with it!

Personally, I sympathy with the innocent poor child that did not ask to be born and no, found herself in this situation - a victim.  As for you and your family, you disgust me! You have no consideration of this child whatsoever, but only yourself. I have no faith in a woman that denies her children because of a man afterall, what is a man marrying you for?

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That's what the spirit in me say I should tell you.

Now, take it and shut up!  [/size]  

Quote from: rose~75 on Yesterday at 04:25:02 PM
The foundation of the marriage was weak. How could a woman conceal a thing like that from her husband of 3 years, even if the man's identity wasn't disclosed, that marriage would still have experienced turbulence.

The woman saying her mind became uneasy after the discovery is questionable, has she been feeling cool over her insincerity to her husband?. Since she had been playing smart at her husband's expense, it's no big deal to drink her discovery away. Why the lamentation now?.
@ oloko nla
Most of the barbaric acts take place at night, it's possible she didn't observe or she could have been traumatised to look him in the face.
Assuming we're responding to a true life story anyway.

what about a man concealing a thing like that from his wife for three years? is it faithfulness?

Theblessed:

[b][size=16pt]Well young lady, it's come full circle for you.

In fact, you're as evil as your husband. Imagine you, lying and hiding your own child because of your ambition to get married.  Goes to show, you're one of those who sell their conscience to succeed in life. 

If you should hide any thing in life - not your own blood and flesh! You fail to acknowledge this child in the presence of prospective suitors including the one that married you  and his family and who knows how many others, you lied to about this child?   

Your sin has caught up with you.

Even your own parents joined in, in the deceit and lies - it run in your blood line, isn't it? Imagine your parents who should know better, connived with you to hide this child and keep her a secret to the world - shame on to you all!

A snake will always bear what looks like it. Evil family will always attract people like them, and this one is exactly your kind - shut up and put up with it!

Personally, I sympathy with the innocent poor child that did not ask to be born and no, found herself in this situation - a victim.  As for you and your family, you disgust me! You have no consideration of this child whatsoever, but only yourself. I have no faith in a woman that denies her children because of a man afterall, what is a man marrying you for?

Is it not to reprocreate? And what is this child about?  Is she not the product of  procreation - a child of God! And you denied her, thinking you've succeeded with your ambition of being Mrs Somebody but God has news for you - na lie for you!  You see, three years going into this your sorry happy marriage, you are still seekng the fruit of the womb, abi?  You think you can cheat God, no be so??

Irrespective of the circumstances in which you had that child, you have no rights to deny the existence of the one God first gave you, to any man - the first fruit of the womb are highly blessed and now, you're asking God for another - naaaaaah!  Until you confess your sins and acknowledge this child publicly then, maybe, God will listen!

That's what the spirit in me say I should tell you.

Now, take it and shut up!  [/size][/b]  

so lets nt blame any1 and give them the advice the require 4rm us