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Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by Sonofgoodness: 11:53pm On Aug 17, 2022
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by gaby(m): 11:57pm On Aug 17, 2022
One for the road...

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by kristonium(m): 11:58pm On Aug 17, 2022
Are those things more important than her life??

Surprised you still couldn't read in between the lines

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by 2special(m): 12:15am On Aug 18, 2022
Don't allow her but trust me she will go behind you.

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by RB1330(m): 12:16am On Aug 18, 2022
2special:
Don't allow her but trust me she will go behind you.
I like this grin

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by stacyadams: 12:34am On Aug 18, 2022
You for kuku ask us if your girl should not wear pant and visit her ex grin

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by Carcholce: 12:41am On Aug 18, 2022
But you know she will likely collect some “other things” when She meets him.

When She comes back smiling from ear to ear, She indeed collected the “other things”

That’s if She ever comes back to you.

What if immediately She gets there, heavy rain starts falling till the next day! grin

Anyways I sell mileage detector device, incase you want to run a check on her when She returns.

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 3:05am On Aug 18, 2022
My broda
To be a man o
To be man o
Na wah oh

Song by Amakye Dede

Broda Please escort her there to collect her personal effects

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by ZIMDRILL(m): 4:04am On Aug 18, 2022
Sonofgoodness:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...

if i was you i was going to show the girl that i am better man than the ex

1 get replacement sim card

2 buy her new cloths to replacement the one's at the ex's place

3 Test the ex if he is serious about returning the the things (an okada will come and pick up the things) chances that he would be mad are high

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by henrimoto(m): 6:06am On Aug 18, 2022
ZIMDRILL:


if i was you i was going to show the girl that i am better man than the ex

1 get replacement sim card

2 buy her new cloths to replacement the one's at the ex's place

3 Test the ex if he is serious about returning the the things (an okada will come and pick up the things) chances that he would be mad are high
...

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by Aaaaarghmed(m): 6:19am On Aug 18, 2022
Sonofgoodness:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...
go with her to collect the things.if you allow her go alone.they must have sex.na must.if you like dont believe me.

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by Mindlog: 7:02am On Aug 18, 2022
Is she living with you?

If she must get her things from her ex, let her go with an older male relative as I believe she has family.

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by EgwunsoDOTcom: 8:06am On Aug 18, 2022
Sonofgoodness:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few weeks now. Her ex has been begging and sometimes forcing her to come back but she refused. She fears the guy because he is an angry and sometimes do beat her while they were dating. Her ex has called severally in my presence and he usually shout and sound rude when trying to tell her to come back. My girlfriend is a girl that is easily afraid. Since we started dating,he has been luring to come. At first,he said the girl should come and collect her sim card, another time shoes and now clothes. She wants to go and collect those things but she ask for my permission to go and take her things. I gave her three conditions Which is 1. She must record all their conversation when she gets there 2. She must collect all her things that very day because I will never allow her go there again 3. She must go with someone. But you know these can't work. What should I do?
No insult ...
You're so dumb walai.. The kind of get-together sex they will have will shock you and afterwards, double-dating go set for ur head grin..
From the look of things, your so called girlfriend is an overuse cargo to be leaving her clothes and shoes at the guys place, maybe they were living together, you go fear the kind of pornography them don use her do cheesy.

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by LadyRosa(f): 8:07am On Aug 18, 2022
Is there no dispatch rider in your state to pick her things up? undecided

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by Sonofgoodness: 9:40am On Aug 18, 2022
Thanks everyone. She sometimes talk about the guy asking her to come and take her things after making it clear he wants her back severally. She has been telling me she won't go and at the same time telling me about her things that is there. I have made it clear to her that if she goes that will be the end of our relationship. I know she is easily fickle minded. What if she goes,how will I find out? She is someone anyone can easily convince. I am scared she might go someday

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by Sonofgoodness: 9:43am On Aug 18, 2022
Mindlog:
Is she living with you?

If she must get her things from her ex, let her go with an older male relative as I believe she has family.
She doesn't live with me. She can't get male relative except her friends which are girls but I don't fancy her girlfriend going with her. What if I allow her go with her girlfriend?

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by Sonofgoodness: 9:46am On Aug 18, 2022
ZIMDRILL:


if i was you i was going to show the girl that i am better man than the ex

1 get replacement sim card

2 buy her new cloths to replacement the one's at the ex's place

3 Test the ex if he is serious about returning the the things (an okada will come and pick up the things) chances that he would be mad are high
I am not too financially bouyant yet to start buying her clothes. She has glo sim card she is using. The MTN her ex is using is still working though not Registered
Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by Richy4(m): 9:46am On Aug 18, 2022

She should get her things but if she must go,
<< She must make sure that the Ex is around..
<< she must go with the security personnel to avoid rape or assault...or a bouncer looking individual.. smiley
<< She should have a car waiting to whisk them out of the vicinity as soon as she's done packing..

Failure to do all these, let her forget it..or put it on hold until she's capable to do so. embarassed

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by Sonofgoodness: 9:47am On Aug 18, 2022
[quote author=LadyRosa post=115812134]Is there no dispatch rider in your state to pick her things up? undecided[/quote
No ma. The guy wants her to come and collect it in person
Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by Mindlog: 9:50am On Aug 18, 2022
Sonofgoodness:

She doesn't live with me. She can't get male relative except her friends which are girls but I don't fancy her girlfriend going with her. What if I allow her go with her girlfriend?

Her girlfriend can't do much should violence erupt. Untill she gets an older male relative, she should forget her things for the meantime.

Should anything happen to her there, Nigerian Police have no issues with putting you "behind counter" in the "course" of investigation.

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by Sonofgoodness: 9:50am On Aug 18, 2022
The girl's husband sister has been pressuring her and convincing her to take the guy back, while the brother wants her to date a yahoo rich guy. And this now happening. She is a very good girl. I can belt she loves me so much

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by Mindlog: 10:09am On Aug 18, 2022
Sonofgoodness:
The girl's husband sister has been pressuring her and convincing her to take the guy back, while the brother wants her to date a yahoo rich guy. And this now happening. She is a very good girl. I can belt she loves me so much

Let her tell that brother of hers, to go with her to get her things.

I will suggest you step back from the relationship and let her sort her self out first.

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by EmahBoss(f): 10:17am On Aug 18, 2022
Your girlfriend is baggage of load. She hasn't sorted herself from a previous relationship and she jumped into another one? And she is the same person her brother insists that she dates a yahoo guy? And you said she is fickle-minded and you are not financially buoyant? It will soon clear from your eyes that you are likely to be the loser in all of these.

Just so you know, whether you approve of her going over to her ex or not, she will go and they will have sex. The guy knows her more than you do.

Jees! Just get out of this mess already and focus on you becoming financially buoyant

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by LadyRosa(f): 10:41am On Aug 18, 2022
[quote author=Sonofgoodness post=115814587][/quote]

Well,is her stuffs that important she can't let it go? If she really needs it, she can go with an elderly person to get it.

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by emmanuelbrown26: 11:03am On Aug 18, 2022
D generation of idiots we hv dis day in d name of guy man is alarming and sometimes I feel asham of sharing dis generation idiotic guy men, no boldness, no guts, no confidence

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by silibaba: 11:28am On Aug 18, 2022
VeeVeeMyLuv:
My broda
To be a man o
To be man o
Na wah oh

Song by Amakye Dede

Broda Please escort her there to collect her personal effects
op dey fear nah. Him go chop beating if him dare go.

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by ZIMDRILL(m): 12:22pm On Aug 18, 2022
Sonofgoodness:

I am not too financially bouyant yet to start buying her clothes. She has glo sim card she is using. The MTN her ex is using is still working though not Registered

Ok let me ask were they living together that she had lots of cloths there, thats she really need to collect.
Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by Sonofgoodness: 12:47pm On Aug 18, 2022
ZIMDRILL:


Ok let me ask were they living together that she had lots of cloths there, thats she really need to collect.
No. She do spend a night there at times
Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by GoooodHardDick: 1:34pm On Aug 18, 2022
Pussy ass niggars everywhere!

Oga that girl will definitely bang the guy las las that's if they haven't even started banging. No let her emotionally manipulate you. All na pure whining. E sure me die say that your gf will definitely go back to that girl and they will have a very Hot bang together.

Alaye You don't date Nigeria girls, you only bang their pussy dump them and move on

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by Nyamiri: 1:34pm On Aug 18, 2022
You are a very big fool. You are senseless and cannot even protect your woman.

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Re: Should My Girlfriend Go And Collect Her Things From Her Ex by meritadavize1(m): 1:34pm On Aug 18, 2022
It's not necessary she collect them na, it's obvious that guy av something in mind, he must be Obidient fellow... A K A
Ipob terrorist

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