An assistant pastor's wife reportedly left her husband's house, seeking for divorce over allegation that her husband sleeps with women who comes to him for prayers in his office.



Is a woman supposed to leave her husband just because of allegation?

Well, I would say yes because that same infidelity can cost you your life. He may bring deadly stds and all that.

The problem is that she might end up being a side chick to another man.

Anything considered right for a man to do to his wife in a similar situation is what she should do to her husband.

Yes, if it's a deal breaker for her

Stillwhites:


Is a woman supposed to leave her husband just because of allegation?

It's very immature for anybody to leave their spouse over "allegations".

as much as these are just allegations, she needs to make her own investigation and get to the bottom of this. if indeed he cheats then there is NO VALID REASON to stay married to this man.

AntiWailer:
The problem is that she might end up being a side chick to another man.

at least, as a side chic she will know EXACTLY what she is getting into, rather than being lied to and disrespected by someone who is supposed to be faithful/loyal to her

Stillwhites:
An assistant pastor's wife reportedly left her husband's house, seeking for divorce over allegation that her husband sleeps with women who comes to him for prayers in his office.



Is a woman supposed to leave her husband just because of allegation?

Is the office's door locked during the prayers?

I assume I have stepped into the twilight zone cos the just because pain me gan. Imma twist and wait for your response, is
a man supposed to leave his wife just because of allegation

Stillwhites:


Is a woman supposed to leave her husband just because of allegation?

Provided she has an already prepared and well moulded "FAITHFUL" guy to take his place

Why not? Life goes on after a divorce. It’s better to leave than being infected by an unfaithful partner

stillondmatter:
Provided she has an already prepared and well moulded "FAITHFUL" guy to take his place

Must a woman have an already prepared and well moulded faithful man before she divorces her cheating husband?

stillondmatter:
Provided she has an already prepared and well moulded "FAITHFUL" guy to take his place

When men go into another marriage after ending the previous, do they have already prepared and well moulded "FAITHFUL" woman to take the place of the ex-wife?

The scare tactics used to tie women down to unhealthy marriages is waning, so come up with something else because the younger generation of women are evolving and such indoctrination that has been an enabler of infidelity is being challenged daily.

Absolutely, if this is very important to her. If she does not love him then she can stay (for kids or financial gain), not have any relations with him and cheat back to her life's content but who that life epp, when it's not by force The best thing is to just leave, simples.

Stillwhites:
An assistant pastor's wife reportedly left her husband's house, seeking for divorce over allegation that her husband sleeps with women who comes to him for prayers in his office.



Is a woman supposed to leave her husband just because of allegation?

yes a woman must leave a cheating man, same with the Man.

Stillwhites:
An assistant pastor's wife reportedly left her husband's house, seeking for divorce over allegation that her husband sleeps with women who comes to him for prayers in his office.
Is a woman supposed to leave her husband just because of allegation?

Is there some sort of law that bars a woman from leaving her marriage on grounds of fornication?

Beremx:
Why not? Life goes on after a divorce. It’s better to leave than being infected by an unfaithful partner

The question is "based on allegations only"

Should spouse divorce based on allegations only.

not just the woman, I think the holy Bible is explicit enough about it. You can

Helpout12345:


The question is "based on allegations only"

Should spouse divorce based on allegations only.

the question is who is calling them allegations

is it the man or other women involved ?

those two can use the word to dismis any further questioning

The wife can have more suspicions becoz she lives with man she knows him better than anyone maybe she has seen change in behaviour in him
eg spending more away from home etc

None of here can, really help with hearing the story direct from the wife, she can tell us tge finds that support her reason to think to divorce

She married as a Virgin. Kept herself for her husband. They got married. Had a kid. Husband starts philandering behind her back. She discovers months after their marriage but decides to keep mute and stay. The infidelity has been going on for two years.

In the process of sleeping around, husband catches HIV and Hepatitis B.

He brings it home and sleeps with his wife to make more babies. Innocent wife catches both HIV and Hepatitis B plus including Syphilis.

Wife's immune system is so low. She starts feeling sick. They go to the hospital, carry out a test. She discovers she is HIV Positive. Husband gets tested too and discovers he is also HIV Positive.

She knew her husband gave her the virus.

The HIV starts degenerating in her system and degenerates to full blown AIDS. The Hepatitis B starts becoming worse too.

Wife is now a shadow of herself. She is on series of medications but all to no avail.

She blames the husband for killing her by giving her both HIV and Hepatitis B.

But in her alone time,guess who she truly blames? Yes...you got it right. HERSELF!!!

ZIMDRILL:


the question is who is calling them allegations

is it the man or other women involved ?

those two can use the word to dismis any further questioning

The wife can have more suspicions becoz she lives with man she knows him better than anyone maybe she has seen change in behaviour in him
eg spending more away from home etc

None of here can, really help with hearing the story direct from the wife, she can tell us tge finds that support her reason to think to divorce

True but the fact still remains no one should throw their marriage out just because of allegations or suspicions alone.

If there is allegation or suspicion, the other spouse needs to try to investigate further and get some evidence or confirmation of the allegations or suspicions before throwing their marriage away, because the allegations might not be true.

Helpout12345:


True but the fact still remains no one should throw their marriage out just because of allegations or suspicions alone.

If there is allegation or suspicion, the other spouse needs to try to investigate further and get some evidence or confirmation of the allegations or suspicions before throwing their marriage away, because the allegations might not be true.

true but like i said who is claiming them to be allegations

we can argue all we want but without information from directly from the people we are involved our views are pointless

Remember this is being reported by a 3rd party , who can was only feed 3 ways
1 by the allegation circulation
2 the women involved
3 cheating husband

getting your source from those 3 can make one biased

I'll do justice to this as well.
Next ...

Stillwhites:
An assistant pastor's wife reportedly left her husband's house, seeking for divorce over allegation that her husband sleeps with women who comes to him for prayers in his office.

Is a woman supposed to leave her husband just because of allegation?

I would suggest that she separates from him first, and then seek SERIOUS spiritual intervention/interpretation on the matter.

Is this "assistant pastor" a mere victim of temptation that women often foist on men of God?(I know from experience!)
Or is the man a womanizer ab initio who went into ministry just to have access to women? ( a lot of men do this).

This is part of why I don't really buy this vocation of "pastor" thingy. It is either someone is a PRIEST, or a PROPHET.
What is a "pastor"?

Anyway I hate divorces (the God in me hates it a lot because it dislocates families), BUT, if the man is an incurable womanizer, she should leave him because he can damage her spiritual standing.
Marriage is a serious business, and BOTH couple should always be on the same page - ALWAYS ... else, one of them becomes an open door to all kinds of problems into the family.
“Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” Amos 3:3

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cococandy:
If we give you answers, will you relay it to them?
Who are you to the couple and do they listen to you?

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yes because this thread is pointless if the couple in question doesn’t get to see the responses