i dnt knw . . . Av neva been so tensed or frustrated in my life as i was dis past week. Nw, boredom is addin itself to d list n am scared my head myt start misbehavin any tim soon. Wont mind talkin to someone

whats frustrating you scash?
It all happens to everybody so relax dear.

pendo, tnx for replyin. Its school majorly. Met some of my secondary school mates yesterday, they v all finishd from uni(actually most of dem did a four yr course, am doin six), but still, seein dem all so happy, preparin to get married . . . Am still here wonderin y i failed a particular course in d last xam i wrote. Do u get?

Hey, take it easy and don't let your frustrations take the better part of you. Try and forget your worries cos everybody has lots to worry about,if you ask people what their frustrations are,you'll probably be thanking your stars that your's is even better.Try and look at the the bright side of life even if it takes daydreaming to do that.

Scash:

pendo, tnx for replyin. Its school majorly. Met some of my secondary school mates yesterday, they v all finishd from uni(actually most of dem did a four yr course, am doin six), but still, seein dem all so happy, preparin to get married . . . Am still here wonderin y i failed a particular course in d last xam i wrote. Do u get?

Yes I get but listen dear. Life is not a bed of roses.You are only at the beginning not ending.
The worst thing that could happen to anybody in life is death.Even the person in a coma has some hope.
Rem,everybody that ever made it in life failed at one point or another. I also failed in some exams,repeated them but that did not deter me from pursuing my goals further.
Let me commend you for failing because you used your brains.I have heard complains about gals who sleep to pass.
My dear you are better of failing cz you worked hard.You passed the greatest test which is NOT sleeping with some lecturer in order to pass.

About crowds.PLEASE never allow people to influence your course in life. Stand out from the crowd.
Is everybody getting married while you are studying? let them marry! concentrate on your course cz its your future you are building here not theirs.Let them tell you stories and send you cards.Do not feel left out because you are not missing a thing! Your time has not yet come.And remember that there' s a time and season for everything.
If you decide to go with the crowd they will not be there when you are hurting.
Focus on your studies,have your principles,stick to them and don't make discouragement your middle name.Never.
Think about the many gals that would wish to be in your shoes and thank God you are in Uni and repeating just an exam.
Finally No condition is permanent.They come and go like wind. Am sure tomorrow you will be smiling.
Believe in yourself and know that you are unique in your own way cz God never made duplicates.

The secret with failure and discouragement> They make us strong and ready to take on the next challenge.One never remains the same after they have been thru such so it works out for good in the end.

Now arise smile lift your head up high and say its just an exam and you will breakthrough
Go eat some nice dish and feel good about what you have achieved so far.
Count your blessings name them one by one and it will suprise you what God has done.

yeah. . . Av actually thot of dt, told myself a million times am goin to b a doctor soonest, bt u knw, am human. I just hurt so much some time i wish i had just gone for a simple B.Sc course n i'l be finishd by nw and all.
Actually, am kind of over it for nw, just sick of being frustrated and wanting so much more out of life

The best things in life don't come easy.
I know what it takes to study and be a doc.Its not for the faint hearted and even the best of the bests break down at one point of studying. Wait till you go for internship and meet the real Docs. They make you feel useless.
Take heart,develop a tough heart dear and hold on there cz few years later you will be encouraging smbody else.

@Scash, Its normal to feel the way u feel, It happens to us all at one point or the other irrespective of status, age or background, The truth is,its a phase,it'll pass,they never last.
@Pendo&Arkhin, Its soothing to know there are some sensible people here on nairaland with a good sense of reasoning and advice like u both,

hey hey, id love to talk to you.

awwww. . . Tnx joe.
Aw r u?

hello scash

was listng 2 one pastor preaching who incidentally is a medical doctor, he said he failed one damn subject @ uni., i think its pharmacology or something and felt downcasted , rushed to his college menthor and querried the reason he had 2 retake the paper.
hear this, the menthor told him how will he feel if his dad was sick and be treated by an unqualified doctor especially one that failed pharmacology?
so in life we need to climb every horrid step to get ontop the ladder, its hard but trust me dont look down/back.
the feeling is worth it @ the top. trust me.
wish u luck.

im doing good, chilling n sh**. , how are ya??

@ poster, please where are you and how do we establish a contacts? thanx in advance.

Scash, you look like a sister in islam. Are you a muslim?

Thanks so much ode remo. Its actually pathology. . . But, am standing again nw. Thnx.

toba:

hello scash

hi toba, aw r u

unipol:

@ poster, please where are you and how do we establish a contacts? thanx in advance.

unipol, i dunno about establishin contacts. But we can talk here. . . For now

Excelboi:

Scash, you look like a sister in islam. Are you a muslim?

yap. Am a muslim

scashyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy temi nikan. Gba kiss lowo mi jooooooo

how body?

O se jare Toba. Gbam! I don collect am. Like u knew how much i needed one
body is weak, needs food. . .

aw wz ur day?

Sweery my day was fantastic just that work+work+work was just too much my dear. Still at work right now prolly i'll close around 8pm to go retire home

Nice pix there scash nd ow nice to meet a muslim sister. Watz d name?

toba:

Sweery my day was fantastic just that work+work+work was just too much my dear. Still at work right now prolly i'll close around 8pm to go retire home

Whoa! 8pm. Dts murder n suicide. Anywaiz u been online since morning, so u wdnt feel the pressure much.

At least u better dan me. Been at home doin nothin. . . Bored to my scalp

Excelboi:

Nice pix there scash nd ow nice to meet a muslim sister. Watz d name?

tnx. . . Zainab

My there. its a marra of time. Eni to ti ko apade eni to sun lojo kan. My ex used to complain about idleness to me around 2008. When she gained admission in 2009 she herself begged for time. I was once like that. Coool down, u shall soon get there. Mo le ro pe oun gbawe dada sha?

Scash:

tnx. . . Zainab

oh really,nice name! How iz da fasting? N hope ur nt da lazy type who dnt like fasting, just kiddn

toba:

My there. its a marra of time. Eni to ti ko apade eni to sun lojo kan. My ex used to complain about idleness to me around 2008. When she gained admission in 2009 she herself begged for time. I was once like that. Coool down, u shall soon get there. Mo le ro pe oun gbawe dada sha?

its not as if am bothered about being idle o. . Ha, infact sometimes i love it. Bt yest was just horrible. No one @ home just me n d roof. Today. . . Hmm, i'l complain @ d end of d day. Bt right nw am goin to d clinic, you can guess wat wld happen.
Mo n try pelu awe, remains small. Av a nice day

Excelboi:

oh really,nice name! How iz da fasting? N hope your nt da lazy type who dnt like fasting, just kiddn

naaaw, i dont av enuf money feed 60 people daily. Lol. So am just pushing meself. Aw bout u?

Cat got ya tongue Dave?

Nope, anna sweet succulent

dave2:

Nope, anna sweet succulent

Smdh

Scash:

its not as if am bothered about being idle o. . Ha, infact sometimes i love it. Bt yest was just horrible. No one @ home just me n d roof. Today. . . Hmm, i'l complain @ d end of d day. Bt right nw am goin to d clinic, you can guess wat wld happen.
Mo n try pelu awe, remains small. Av a nice day

Scashy sweety i understand u sha. After awe to ba feel like ole wa ma pe mi ni visit ni office mi when u are idle prolly once in a week if u like

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@ p.wiz,

@Toba,
aw r u? Hope u didnt go home 9pm yesterday.
No worry, just gimme ur address. I'l come n spend a whole wk wt u afta fastin

Morning my dear. Well i left office around 7.30pm yesterday cos i had to ruch home to go watch the UCL zurich vs bayern munich.

Spend one week ke? U want make them sack me? BTW i dont even get more than an hour to attend to guest so ur week will have to be transferred to my house and not office. Ok?