Good evening everyone .I'm not the type that bring things up here but this one is more than me..my fiance is a good man with good heart he is the type of man any lady will be happy to have in her life as a husband..He opened to me how is life is shattered cause of Betnaija.
.He has a good paying job and I'm also working..but to my greatest surprise all his salary he put it into gambling.,sold his car and house properties for gambling,he is the quiet type doesn't talk ,bottle up things inside.

He told me he keeps borrowing money to play gambling thinking he wil recover all his loses,he keeps borrowing now he has nothing left. HE went to check his BP and it rise to 170 ,He is thinking of committing suicide. Pls nairalanders i need your advice please I don't want to loose him he is all I got
He is a shadow of himself,I really want to help him out from this mess he got himself into.

Please if you don't have any meaningful advice don't comment ..
Oga Seun please help me push to front page

Only him can help himself by taking that decision to stop forth with.

With a good paying job, what else does he want?
Pls constantly remind him of where he could've been but not for gambling and let him know its not late in as much as he can quit.

Threaten to dump him if he refuses to heed to your advise.

Lastly, if you both are mature enough, talk him into getting married so you take control of the family finances for the benefit of the family.

He need you to overcome this addiction.

Thank you for standing by him and seeking for help.

Sunnymatey:
Only him can help himself by taking that decision to stop forth with.

With a good paying job, what else does he want?
Pls constantly remind him of where he could've been but not for gambling and let him know its not late in as much as he can quit.

Threaten to dump him if he refuses to heed to your advise.

Lastly, if you both are mature enough, talk him into getting married so you take control of the family finances for the benefit of the family.

He need you to overcome this addiction.

Thank you for standing by him and seeking for help.

I don't know why I bursted out laughing at your signature,

Sunnymatey:
Only him can help himself by taking that decision to stop forth with.

With a good paying job, what else does he want?
Pls constantly remind him of where he could've been but not for gambling and let him know its not late in as much as he can quit.

Threaten to dump him if he refuses to heed to your advise.

Lastly, if you both are mature enough, talk him into getting married so you take control of the family finances for the benefit of the family.

He need you to overcome this addiction.

Thank you for standing by him and seeking for help.

Thank you for this