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Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by makson007: 10:59am On Oct 24, 2022 |
[quote author=Whiteshield post=117682806]They know you are a fool and will react like a weakling that is why they did that nonsense. [/quote Exactly, OP is not in control of that house. Very weak indeed. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by tiswell(m): 11:00am On Oct 24, 2022 |
Whiteshield:you are right,OP,is a big dimp,that's why the wife could make such decision without seeking his position. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Talk2tuns: 11:00am On Oct 24, 2022 |
Please first confirm and not assume if your wife is aware she's moving in fully. If the answer is yes engage peaceful on her way out and how she intend managing the house base on your income. If no, let her know the reality on ground about the space and financial implications. Peaceful engage her till her twin sister pack out. Remember your responsibilities to your children so consider them in your resolutions. I pray for divine wisdom to manage your home. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Blake755: 11:01am On Oct 24, 2022 |
johnnychuks:Even if they wife told him do you think that if it's the guy sister will she accept it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by johnnychuks(m): 11:06am On Oct 24, 2022 |
Blake755:that's another wicked hart from woman, they are very wicked if it's town to the other side. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by toprealman: 11:07am On Oct 24, 2022 |
wasuka14:This one strong ooo....Kai When people choose to disrespect you, try not to delay in responding appropriately. Find out from your wife why she invited her sister without carrying youalong. You can take it up from there. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by toprealman: 11:08am On Oct 24, 2022 |
Toptechconsult9:Have you asked if he has the resources? |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Aarenasbaba(m): 11:08am On Oct 24, 2022 |
We all need advice on this matter |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by lomprico(m): 11:14am On Oct 24, 2022 |
Fiscus105: Omo, even the 2500 for breakfast every morning shock me. That's 75k in a month for breakfast only o! Op is a bloody liar! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by EZENDIZUOGU(m): 11:15am On Oct 24, 2022 |
No need pretending as if all is well. it is time to sit your wife down and have an honest chat with her. let her know your pains and feelings. you cant continue that way unless you want to die of depression. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by lomprico(m): 11:18am On Oct 24, 2022 |
wasuka14: Guy so you spend 75k every month for breakfast only and now you spend 180k for same breakfast every month. This is minus lunch and supper o! Plus other running expenses in the house. With 180-200k you can comfortably rent a self contain for your in-law and have your peace. Unless you are lying to us about those figures you gave. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Laturuturu: 11:19am On Oct 24, 2022 |
[quote author=wasuka14 post=117679807]My wife Twins sister moved to our apartment of a room and parlour self-contain with her 4 kids after the demise of her husband without notice to me. Honestly, I really need urgent advise as I can't have access to my apartment or to my wife again. As her twin sister moved in to my small apartment with her 4 kids and loads of clothes and some other luggages. Therefore, no single space left in my parlour to sit or leave again. I am mentally stress with what am passing through now. For 2 weeks now, I can't sleep in a small house am managing with my wife and our 4 kids too. The issue at hand is not even about apartment alone but also of feeding. Now, before now, my wife used to manage 2500 to feed all of us for breakfast alone. But now, she barely manage 6000 every morning. Thereby, increase daily expenses on food to like 14-16k daily depends on my pocket. And the funny thing is that, both the sisters are not working so as to at least support with something. For now, am managing to pass night in my shop, but twice in a day they will send my first child to my shop to fetch money for food. Am really tire. I am just a bloody welder. I don't know how to take care of these migrants going forward. My wife can't drive away her twins sister by herself, am also too timid to drive them because of human feeling in me. Pls what do I do. I really need help and serious advise from fellow Nigerian and non- Nigerian.[/quote] Indeed you are timid..why will your sister ask her to move in without your consent. Please bro get a room apartment for her and her kids at a distance place. This is the only solution. Please do this .... remember at a distance place |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by lagosrd: 11:20am On Oct 24, 2022 |
Make provision for her sister to go and meet her inlaws so that they can discuss the children. You're not the father of the kids. Don't go and die untimely of worry and stress. If your wife won't reason along your line, call her elderly family people to Intervene. Don't let her dribble you to the " for the short time" tell them and explain to her sister that you're not boyant enough to carry the burden for now. Don't go and die of heart attack or high blood pressure. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Reference(m): 11:22am On Oct 24, 2022 |
wasuka14: ....Migrants indeed... But on a serious note, you need help, fast. To cut your bills, one or both the women have to start earning income and fast. Start from where you are. Take them to work/your shop and find something for them to do in that environment. The other adult can care for the kids, if they are kids indeed. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by newaspiration: 11:24am On Oct 24, 2022 |
Look for money and get a small room apartment for them, I mean your wife twin sister and her kids. No condition is permanent, tough time never last. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Nobody: 11:25am On Oct 24, 2022 |
Make person just do give away abeg, he be like say Nigeria Don too hard now, my salary be like 1k for my eye |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Reference(m): 11:26am On Oct 24, 2022 |
lomprico: What is the meaning of this? Rent an apartment for a person of no income? Will the floors and ceilings feed the family? She came from somewhere so accomodation was not the primary concern but feeding. The inlaw came to be catered for. And the only solution to this is additional income and getting her to earn a keep should be the condition for continued boarding. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by descarado: 11:31am On Oct 24, 2022 |
I will leave the house for them and disappear. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Streetmovement(m): 11:33am On Oct 24, 2022 |
Wotoporiously speaking You displease yourself to please others, now they've left you, don't worry just make sure you stay hydrated while you suffer very well since you nor get sense. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by deavicky(m): 11:40am On Oct 24, 2022 |
wasuka14:what kind of breakfast do u people take?. For me tea and bread in the morning is just fine for breakfast and that won't cost much. Buy big milo and milk both should be like 11k they should be able to manage it for 5 to 7 days. All u need to do every morning is to be giving them 2 loafs of bread every day. Secondly even if it requires u to borrow money, do it. Rent a room self-contained for them. If not, if u continue like this by December u might have already spent serious money unknowingly. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Missionaire: 11:44am On Oct 24, 2022 |
ZIMDRILL: Before you give advice, learn to read and understand first. @OP - wasuka14, since her husband is late, she should take the children and herself to her husband's relatives probably in the village. If that's not feasible as per Nollywood drama, they should go to her own village and relatives in the village. Living in the village is cheaper. She can start farming while the children school in the village. How long will they stay with you guys? Does she have a feasible plan to move out in the nearest future? If not, then arrange with the help of your wife to relocate her to her (husband's) relatives in the village. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by HITsquad: 11:45am On Oct 24, 2022 |
Fiscus105:finally, someone who's brain works like mine... Lol and the fact majority of readers here bought this crap is disturbing... Nigerians have low I.Q his story is only about 20% thick and 80% water.... |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by deavicky(m): 11:47am On Oct 24, 2022 |
Reference:if upkeep is her problem let her go back to her place. he should place her on salary of 50k per month based on his strength. And u also do not expect him to keeps 11 persons in 2 rooms sooner or later they will begin to fall sick and his problems will increase. Getting them an accommodation is just the best. Although I still question his 6k breakfast except they eat outside. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Sunisonflex39(m): 11:53am On Oct 24, 2022 |
Fiscus105:I think say na only me see the lie of 16k for food Daily..haba |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by romenna: 11:57am On Oct 24, 2022 |
Whiteshield:This is the bitter truth. My wife is a twin and she will never try this nonsense. Her twin sister will not even agree to come if my wife ask her to. I call a spade what it is. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by tonyashburton: 11:58am On Oct 24, 2022 |
To quote Kiekie "Problem"....The Lord is your strength bro. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Lawize: 11:59am On Oct 24, 2022 |
They need to be encouraged to start a business as quickly as possible to help out with the expenses and training of the kids. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Corporate2020: 12:03pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Fiscus105: Mental Health should be taken serious in Nigeria. This poster is definitely mentally unstable |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by rickleye: 12:04pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
This is what I would have done. 1. Berate my wife. You don’t invite 5 people to stay with us without my consent /prior knowledge. And without an exit plan. Now that you have brought them , For how long are they staying and how do we pay for their meals. 2. Call a meeting and split the kids. The younger or older ones can stay ( 2) the mother with the other two have to move elsewhere, to other family members. From what I have been reading , feeding 2 additional mouths should not be an issue plus the kids can all sleep in the parlour. Without addressing the issue is just going to make them comfortable. Discuss with your wife and let her know this is your decision. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Nobody: 12:05pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
According to tradition you now have 2 wives and 8 children, man up and stop nagging. |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Qatar2022: 12:06pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
wasuka14:She should go back to her parents house, you can't pleased another person and displeased yourself |
Re: My Wife Twins Sister Moved To Our Apartment Of A Room And Parlour Self-contain by Padipadi: 12:07pm On Oct 24, 2022 |
Family burden |
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