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Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by fineboynl(m): 7:35am On Oct 21, 2022 |
One of the problem with dating a single mother is bills that will be tie to that child, you just can't escape them. Although Dating every Nigerian girl as a young guy one must face bills either you like it or not. But the one from single mother is something else that most guys can't handle when they are still young without any child yet. The only thing about single mother is that they are easy and don't cause much trouble for the guy. It maybe due to the fact they are way out of the dating game competition and as a single mother that will tame them down to be loyal and respectful. It's kind of crazy when the father of the child is elsewhere. And the mother want you to chest some bill for them when you are fresh single without any child yet. |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by doggedfighter(f): 7:45am On Oct 21, 2022 |
It's kind of crazy when the father of the child is elsewhere. And the mother want you to chest some bill for them when you are fresh single without any child yet. She must be holding you the fresh single guy at gunpoint to date her. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by dawnomike(m): 7:57am On Oct 21, 2022 |
According to your opinion... Not all single mothers are broke 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by Fahvvy: 7:59am On Oct 21, 2022 |
Bills sef is just one of it and it's not even the major one in my own opinion ... How about issues with the father popping up unannounced and him dragging you into their petty quarrels? How about the emotional baggage she most likely is still carrying on account of being abandoned? How about being seen as less of a priority and always made to come second to the child and the baby daddy, even when you're the one carrying the responsibility? How about the stress of trying to win over a child who prolly hates you and sees you as the reason why mum and dad aren't together? Omorrrr ... Leave am... Their matter plenty... I can't advice any single guy to marry a single mother... Even single father's sef has got to be careful with those lots ... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by Davidave(m): 8:07am On Oct 21, 2022 |
Who go follow community kpekus when fresh babes full everywhere 1 Like |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by tommy589(m): 8:10am On Oct 21, 2022 |
Some people don't just want single mothers to find happiness again. Stop these generalisation. If a lady is not your spec. move to another 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by thorpido(m): 8:15am On Oct 21, 2022 |
Leave single mother alone if you can date her. Being a single mother doesn't mean she's broke anyway. 3 Likes |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by Nobody: 10:36am On Oct 21, 2022 |
fineboynl:I don't have problems shouldering responsibilities for vulnerable kids out there, after all I carter for kids not even from my tribe. But, IF you must shoulder responsibilty for such a child it must be on record that you did such. The reason is simple.. 1. No one knows the crown each child carries. 2. Women lie a lot. I have seen well fed kids from wealthy families turn out to be nonentities while kids of housemaids emerge successful. No one knows tomorrow. Destiny shocks Joseph accepted Mary wholeheartedly to erase shame & today that child is still being celebrated. BABAYARO and Brother were adopted & today see what they offered their foster father. I don't support rushing to drive kids away especially when one is capable but it should be on record. The reason is simple because Ladies lie a lot, and theirs come with tears. She can deny 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by Nobody: 10:47am On Oct 21, 2022 |
Only on Nl is marrying or dating a single mother an abomination. 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by Nobody: 10:50am On Oct 21, 2022 |
Persephone1: There are far good single mothers than virgins. There are good virgins too. Everything boils down to a woman who makes you release enough dopamine on sighting her. But avoid Leeches! They're never good! They liquidate & have no single sense of replacement |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by Nobody: 10:58am On Oct 21, 2022 |
MALIGNANTGuest:Exactly! I pity those who take threads like this seriously. People like op would make mouth here to do another offline. Few weeks ago a guy opened a thread on how he is dating a single mother with three kids and he is getting possessive. not long after another opened a thread on his single mother not giving him attention. I come dey wonder if Nl users are not Nigerians who spite single mothers 3 Likes |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by fineboynl(m): 11:26am On Oct 21, 2022 |
dawnomike:even this one is not broke oh. You knows say humans are never containted. They always need meore and more. The more a girl is rich the more money will be small in her eyes and the more she will need more and the more she will ask from you. 1 Like |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by Richy4(m): 1:12pm On Oct 21, 2022 |
dawnomike: 1 Like
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Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by yemmit90: 4:09pm On Oct 21, 2022 |
The only single mother a single guy should date or marry is the one that's lost her husband to death. Don't venture into that journey from the beginning of your life. You can date but don't marry the ones that their husbands are somewhere enjoying life, while you work your ass out to sponsor the children they will come and claim someday. Single dad, divorcees, widowers, elderly men can marry them though. 1 Like |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:55pm On Oct 21, 2022 |
fineboynl: how can she tie you to the child when, she didnt hide the child from you ? Most men would go in knowinly and using her to their advantage becoz most would want to settle down again therefore their confidence on being marriage material is low The main thing about dating a single mother is understanding what made them breakup, the father's role in the child's life and emotional status (badge) etc 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:02pm On Oct 21, 2022 |
yemmit90: why is that black people we always want help only were benefit? what about helping in showing love and care ? We only help were we benefit ? do you think if you raised that child with love and care they will forget you ? Nope you would given them something that their father never managed to five them 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by yemmit90: 7:48pm On Oct 21, 2022 |
ZIMDRILL: I don't think you understand my post. As a bachelor, there is nothing wrong if you marry or take care of a widow children and children from motherless homes, but everything is wrong if you chose at early stage of your life to start taking care of irresponsible man children, who will still come and reap where he did not sow in future. Hope you get the point now. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:57pm On Oct 21, 2022 |
yemmit90: you are still repeating the same thing those kids you raise out of love, do you think if you raise them well they forget about you like that and simply go to irresponsible father? Explain how a responsible father will reap what he didnt saw? Will be the children like stones were one can just pick them and take them home? If you raise those kids well they will value you more than the absent parent 3 Likes |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by yemmit90: 8:09pm On Oct 21, 2022 |
ZIMDRILL: You need more experience about real life situations to understand my point. If you want an answer, marry one, train her children and stop them from going to their real father in future. People like you learn from experience, which is very good sometimes. I will say no more about this sir. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:41pm On Oct 21, 2022 |
yemmit90: You see you are creating a negative scenario to fit your point of view "train her children and stop them from going to their real father" why would you stop them? like am saying if raise them right they will treat you right The problem with people of your mindset you take kids as investment hence what is love and care is secondary hence you fear raising someone child because you want your investment back Your view is based on fear becoz you want to reap on children, whereas some people are comfortable on raising out of love Your fear is very common among africans hence you find that we generally dont adopt 3 Likes |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by fineboynl(m): 9:34pm On Oct 21, 2022 |
Ok ZIMDRILL:what he meant he is not ready for that now. And if he does he knows where to look for someone to help. A young man without kid do you think his parent will be happy for him to cater for another man child when he is yet to get is own? 1 Like |
Re: Dating Single Mother You Can't Escape Bill Tie To The Child by ZIMDRILL(m): 9:48pm On Oct 21, 2022 |
fineboynl: i get the point u want to raise but he would have made his choice, he is not being force unless he had the woman pregnant and now he has to cater for his own child and the woman's the scenario we have he has no child with the woman, so why date her if you are not comfortable in looking after someone's child |
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