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Re: Married, But Living As Single by wisdomkid: 9:39pm On Nov 11, 2022
ngadaAwo:
shatap what do you know

shocked grin grin grin grin

Which kain sharp retort be dat?
Re: Married, But Living As Single by malvisguy212: 9:44pm On Nov 11, 2022
virginprincess:
When we tell people to strongly seek the face of God before getting married they won't listen,now see what you are going through,i pray you find help sha.
indeed my lady.... don't be surprise most of this people are staunch atheist.
Re: Married, But Living As Single by TheGift: 9:51pm On Nov 11, 2022
pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

First things first:
Watch this space for the full advice.
Re: Married, But Living As Single by dnawah(m): 9:53pm On Nov 11, 2022
pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.
please do something about this fast o! This kind of wife don't last long.my experience is worst than yours,she is later now and in the mortuary.
Re: Married, But Living As Single by Moymoy: 9:56pm On Nov 11, 2022
pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.


I will advise you: you don't do marriage selection after marriage. You are married. Make things work.
Go and read the books on temperament by Tim La Haye. Get to know her and her personal makeup. Find out how to get her to open up. This area is not as opaque as many people think. Learn her. It can work.

She is also not the reason why you are not making headway. The entire Nigeria is sailing under turbulent economic weather

Stop visiting spiritualists.

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Re: Married, But Living As Single by Ckonnet: 10:04pm On Nov 11, 2022
pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

Me I go do the same, you where not ready. Forget the job loss matter button wey u dey press and you still dey waka up n Down dey spend d small money wey you manage get 4 babalawo game
Re: Married, But Living As Single by Pzpropertylimit(m): 10:06pm On Nov 11, 2022
U never suffer , if u suffer enough u will know what to do . Be there romancing with ur own problem .
Send her packing immediately !
Re: Married, But Living As Single by Faposky95: 10:15pm On Nov 11, 2022
For the love of Him who has preserved you, don't stop fighting
It's destiny to go thru the wire.
She'll come thru if she was ever truly yours.
Focus
Re: Married, But Living As Single by SeneKit: 10:19pm On Nov 11, 2022
Just continue working hard, things will get better soon.
Avoid all this spiritual stuff with your full chest cos most of them are fake. Pray to God directly and He will answer.

Meanwhile Vote ObiDatti for a better Nigeria
Re: Married, But Living As Single by fohlarp: 10:22pm On Nov 11, 2022
Kobicove:
Instead of you to double your hustle and look for money you're jumping from one spiritualist to another...what were you expecting them to tell you?

Of course they will all look for the person who is closest to you and label him/her the source of your problem undecided
had it bn d second pastor made mention of anoda person lk his mum wld av taken it to b a lie
Re: Married, But Living As Single by maureensylvia(f): 10:24pm On Nov 11, 2022
Ireportlive:
cool



Na divorce sure pass oo



..

How old are you again?
Re: Married, But Living As Single by IamtheTruth1(m): 10:28pm On Nov 11, 2022
pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

The best advice na the one you give yourself.

You see people having issues instead of working out a solution, the look for who to blame.

My guy, you're just facing hard times.
Everyman has his day.

Just continue praying and seeking the face of the lord. Once there's a man to pray , there is a God to answer.
Re: Married, But Living As Single by desireoge(f): 10:28pm On Nov 11, 2022
pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.
Op receive sense IJN. So you still believe in all these men of God. Who did this to you?? A seer that cannot see what happens in his/ her own family undecided

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Re: Married, But Living As Single by Ireportlive: 10:37pm On Nov 11, 2022
maureensylvia:


How old are you again?

Just old enough to understand spirituality and how it's far important to a man than any physical effort
Re: Married, But Living As Single by ngadaAwo: 10:38pm On Nov 11, 2022
Ireportlive:


Just old enough to understand spirituality and how it's far important to a man than any physical effort
shatap what do you know
Re: Married, But Living As Single by richforever123: 10:45pm On Nov 11, 2022
Nonexisting1:
Your wife get sense pass you. Her decision not to go to the pastor for nonsense deliverance was superb. I suggest you change your mentality from its current state. People lose their means of livelihoods everyday. The smart ones go about looking for other means to survive but the foolish ones go about looking for solutions in prayer and spiritual houses. Tell your wife I say well done for not following you about to prayer houses like mumu.

We have smart people on this forum

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Re: Married, But Living As Single by tctrills: 10:47pm On Nov 11, 2022
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pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.
Even when you divorce your wife and marry another, your problems would not end. Keep going from one fake pastor to another.
Many of these pastors are specialist in destroying homes and families.

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Re: Married, But Living As Single by hopefulLandlord: 11:10pm On Nov 11, 2022
virginprincess:
When we tell people to strongly seek the face of God before getting married they won't listen,now see what you are going through,i pray you find help sha.
pastors self don dey divorce.
Re: Married, But Living As Single by lereinter(m): 11:12pm On Nov 11, 2022
virginprincess:
When we tell people to strongly seek the face of God before getting married they won't listen,now see what you are going through,i pray you find help sha.


There's no marriage without its challenges, how do you know the people he's consulting is saying the truth


Their problem is looks like economic challenge, and they have no support

Nigeria is hard

Maybe his wife isn't even working
Re: Married, But Living As Single by psalmz(m): 11:16pm On Nov 11, 2022
FalseProphet1:
Your wife has an obanje spirit, and as long as that spirit hasn't be banished from her, you wouldn't succeed. Take her for deliverance and things would begin to normalize in your life.

This I have seen.
you might sound stupid to many for this statement,but u are actually right ,women are meant to be blessings ,if things where working well for him before he met the lady ,then after marriage things went from bad to worse
Re: Married, But Living As Single by phemmyfour: 11:20pm On Nov 11, 2022
pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.
You're being manipulated by those spiritual gimmicks out there. Stop visiting them, kneel down and pray your way out of any spiritual set back. Your wife isn't the source of your problem

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Re: Married, But Living As Single by cooooooks(m): 11:26pm On Nov 11, 2022
You're mad.

Instead of you go be looking for job, education or japa route, you're dragging your wife from one fake soothsayer to another, to insult and belittle her.

pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

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Re: Married, But Living As Single by 9ja083: 11:35pm On Nov 11, 2022
Please and please, u are the cause of the family problems not your adorable wife! U have time to listen to very fake people and they keep on deceiving you. They accused her wrongly and u expect her to go back there? Ur wife made a very big mistake. She’s supposed to go there with police and arrest that idiot and make a lot of money from it. Imagine nonsense and ingredients. The same idiot will tell your wife that u want to use her for money ritual. Then ur eye go clear
Re: Married, But Living As Single by LikeAking: 11:45pm On Nov 11, 2022
virginprincess:
When we tell people to strongly seek the face of God before getting married they won't listen,now see what you are going through,i pray you find help sha.

Lolz
Re: Married, But Living As Single by Probz(m): 11:46pm On Nov 11, 2022
All these signs and you still think the two of you are compatible?
Re: Married, But Living As Single by Probz(m): 11:46pm On Nov 11, 2022
What are you fighting for?
Re: Married, But Living As Single by uvie66: 11:55pm On Nov 11, 2022
Nonexisting1:
Your wife get sense pass you. Her decision not to go to the pastor for nonsense deliverance was superb. I suggest you change your mentality from its current state. People lose their means of livelihoods everyday. The smart ones go about looking for other means to survive but the foolish ones go about looking for solutions in prayer and spiritual houses. Tell your wife I say well done for not following you about to prayer houses like mumu.
the thing weak me so you need one fake so called spiritualist to tell you that your financial problems Ii caused by your wife rather than you....my advice to you is don't listen to some fake spiritualist.
Re: Married, But Living As Single by MadeMan01(m): 11:56pm On Nov 11, 2022
When you had a job and we're getting married, you did not consult spiritualist. Now you lost your job and things are hard, you are losing hope and looking for someone to blame. This is a coward's way. If your wife has never given you reason to doubt her loyalty, you must be a bastard for letting outsider, especially scam inclined Nigerian spiritualist. Even if Adeboye of RCCG told you, he is a fool. Someone who could not tell his pastor Osinbajo as VP would fail the entire nation with APC.
Re: Married, But Living As Single by okewumi: 12:13am On Nov 12, 2022
Can MTN sim see Glo message ? The answer is No. As far as you have a Mark, your mark will be looking for a signal with similar mark.

Avoid manipulation. Nigeria pastors will only see problem, not solution. Their deliverance will not finish.
Pray to God on your own and attend general program like Power must change hand by Mfm.
Re: Married, But Living As Single by ukaface(f): 12:23am On Nov 12, 2022
When was the last time you kpansh your wife?
Re: Married, But Living As Single by thinkmoney(m): 12:30am On Nov 12, 2022
Karmaisme:


We reason alike, are you Libra?
I am liberal
Re: Married, But Living As Single by Ovieemmanuel: 12:51am On Nov 12, 2022
Realtest44:
My brother it was until Joy Left me, with my daughter and i thought that was the end that i got a job of 300k, from riding Keke,( Tricycle)to working as a hard in corporate vigil,asaba was hel in a cell for me,but today it a success story,
That woman who could not wait let her go,for the table will surely turned.
baba how u dey survive with that 300k?

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